Boundaries pdf epub mobi txt 電子書 下載2025
Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend are popular speakers, psychologists, cohosts of the nationally broadcast New Life Live! radio program, and cofounders of Cloud-Townsend Clinic and Cloud-Townsend Resources. Both graduated with doctorates in clinical psychology from Rosemead Graduate School of Psychology at Biola University, and both maintain practices in Newport Beach, California. They are best-selling coauthors of several books, including How People Grow, Boundaries in Dating, Boundaries with Kids, The Mom Factor, Safe People, and Twelve "Christian" Beliefs Than Can Drive You Crazy. Dr. Cloud is the author of Change That Heal and Dr. Townsend is the author of Hiding from Love.
- 心理學
- relationship
- 成長
- 關係
- Christian
- 自我管理
- spiritual
- 英文原版
Having clear boundaries is essential to a healthy, balanced lifestyle. A boundary is a personal property line that marks those things for which we are responsible. In other words, boundaries define who we are and who we are not. Boundaries impact all areas of our lives: Physical boundaries help us determine who may touch us and under what circumstances -- Mental boundaries give us the freedom to have our own thoughts and opinions -- Emotional boundaries help us to deal with our own emotions and disengage from the harmful, manipulative emotions of others -- Spiritual boundaries help us to distinguish God's will from our own and give us renewed awe for our Creator -- Often, Christians focus so much on being loving and unselfish that they forget their own limits and limitations. When confronted with their lack of boundaries, they ask:
- Can I set limits and still be a loving person?
- What are legitimate boundaries?
- What if someone is upset or hurt by my boundaries?
- How do I answer someone who wants my time, love, energy, or money?
- Aren't boundaries selfish?
- Why do I feel guilty or afraid when I consider setting boundaries?
Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend offer biblically-based answers to these and other tough questions, showing us how to set healthy boundaries with our parents, spouses, children, friends, co-workers, and even ourselves.
具體描述
讀後感
人与人之间要有界限，而要设计界限，最大的困难之一就是我们内心的恐惧，如果我拒绝了朋友，朋友是不是不再联系我？如果我拒绝了父母，是否我就背上了不孝的骂名？如果我拒绝了爱人，爱人是否会抛弃我？如果我拒绝了老板，是否我明天就会被炒鱿鱼？ 流过很多泪，绕过很多圈，...
評分- 你是一个什么样的人？ - 我是一个喜欢逃避责任的人。 说真的，我经常自我否定一下。我很怀疑，我有没有能力，长久地爱一个人，认真地做一件事情，在我不乐意的时候。而且应该说，我不乐意的时候还挺多的。我眼高手低，又爱多想，人家说没有苦哪有甜，我偏偏要怀疑如果自以...
評分这本书不是人人都会觉得有意思，也不是一本思想非常卓越或者写作水平相当高超的书。我想它大概不会成为一本名著，也不会流芳百世，这一点从豆瓣上的阅读人数就可以看得出。 从神学角度看，这不是一本好的解经书。对圣经的引用既不系统，也有一些牵强。更根本地说，它的出发点就...
評分- 你是一个什么样的人？ - 我是一个喜欢逃避责任的人。 说真的，我经常自我否定一下。我很怀疑，我有没有能力，长久地爱一个人，认真地做一件事情，在我不乐意的时候。而且应该说，我不乐意的时候还挺多的。我眼高手低，又爱多想，人家说没有苦哪有甜，我偏偏要怀疑如果自以...
評分给一些问题的发生定义为：界线不清楚。强调自己要对自己负责。 但并未深入谈到界线不清楚产生的原因是什么？由于不好意思拒绝别人、热心过度、或者是想包办全场导致的界限不清楚，那在这想法背后的来自自己心的问题是什么呢？作者并未深入阐述，可能是惧怕人，掌控权等。 没有...
用戶評價
對基督教背景的同學很有用，這本書教會我們如何成熟地去愛和拒絕， 怎樣成為像耶穌一樣的人。沒有背景的同學忽略宗教的部分，仍然能在做人和為人處世方麵學到很多道理和方法。
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评分非常棒的書，推薦給我的好幾個朋友瞭。
评分從宗教角度不夠信服，但是從信仰角度有好的立意，從日常來說值得每個人讀一讀，雖然不夠深不夠有層次，但足以有指導作用，自從幾年前mentor們把Boundary這個概念引入我的生活，自己就開啓瞭生存新的大門，很多東西有瞭界定，很多睏難有瞭步驟，很多迷惑也多瞭耐心和解釋。亞洲人確實文化裏太沒有界限瞭，日常很多小事都是庸人自擾如果沒有自己的原則和界限。
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