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发表于2024-05-11
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Having clear boundaries is essential to a healthy, balanced lifestyle. A boundary is a personal property line that marks those things for which we are responsible. In other words, boundaries define who we are and who we are not. Boundaries impact all areas of our lives: Physical boundaries help us determine who may touch us and under what circumstances -- Mental boundaries give us the freedom to have our own thoughts and opinions -- Emotional boundaries help us to deal with our own emotions and disengage from the harmful, manipulative emotions of others -- Spiritual boundaries help us to distinguish God's will from our own and give us renewed awe for our Creator -- Often, Christians focus so much on being loving and unselfish that they forget their own limits and limitations. When confronted with their lack of boundaries, they ask:
- Can I set limits and still be a loving person?
- What are legitimate boundaries?
- What if someone is upset or hurt by my boundaries?
- How do I answer someone who wants my time, love, energy, or money?
- Aren't boundaries selfish?
- Why do I feel guilty or afraid when I consider setting boundaries?
Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend offer biblically-based answers to these and other tough questions, showing us how to set healthy boundaries with our parents, spouses, children, friends, co-workers, and even ourselves.
Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend are popular speakers, psychologists, cohosts of the nationally broadcast New Life Live! radio program, and cofounders of Cloud-Townsend Clinic and Cloud-Townsend Resources. Both graduated with doctorates in clinical psychology from Rosemead Graduate School of Psychology at Biola University, and both maintain practices in Newport Beach, California. They are best-selling coauthors of several books, including How People Grow, Boundaries in Dating, Boundaries with Kids, The Mom Factor, Safe People, and Twelve "Christian" Beliefs Than Can Drive You Crazy. Dr. Cloud is the author of Change That Heal and Dr. Townsend is the author of Hiding from Love.
我的boundaries实在太糟糕了。那又怎么样,孩子的boundaries的作用大多数是来理解两岁之后人生的拒绝,做一个控制狂不是更开心吗,绝对优势策略https://archive.org/details/BOUNDARIESTheBook
评分解释并解决世间90%的问题
评分作者用了大量的例子和圣经的引用来解释边界,如何建立边界。很实用,但是,还是老话,要完全做到需要不断的实践。
评分D | 这本书是写给基督徒看的。不信上帝的我看的甚是拗口。所以扫了一眼就退了。不过无论如何,设置boundary都是很重要的。
评分many helpful insight to the problems in my life :P
阅读目标: 1.观察没有边界感的表现 2.分析没有边界感的原因 3.练习重新建立边界感的方式 *因圣经内容和判断性语句穿插,不确定本书是否能够达到以上目标。 第一章 关于界线的疑问 第二章 界线是啥 一、界限的定义 P23引- 我们必须对(to)别人与为(for)自己负责。 P24引-好...
评分我感觉界限疗法也属于一种叙事疗法。 “同理心”要求理解来访者,他的行为是有道理的,然后告诉他, 合理的未必是公理,公理也未必是真理。 这有点麻烦,何为真理?谁能回答? 世界观如此多元化,真理提得越来越少,合理成了目的。 这本书基于圣经原则,给了一把尺子,衡量何为...
评分我感觉界限疗法也属于一种叙事疗法。 “同理心”要求理解来访者,他的行为是有道理的,然后告诉他, 合理的未必是公理,公理也未必是真理。 这有点麻烦,何为真理?谁能回答? 世界观如此多元化,真理提得越来越少,合理成了目的。 这本书基于圣经原则,给了一把尺子,衡量何为...
评分这本书对我,是个转折点! 每天生活在这个世界上,总觉得哪里不对劲,可就是不清楚。 这本书告诉你,你生活的界限在哪里,你的界限能帮助你解决很多问题。 于是,我开始全面审视我的界限。 于是,我开始真正建立我的界限。 于是,我的生活完全改变了模样。
Boundaries pdf epub mobi txt 电子书 下载 2024