A provocative manifesto that exposes the harms of helicopter parenting and sets forth an alternate philosophy for raising preteens and teens to self-sufficient young adulthood
In How to Raise an Adult, Julie Lythcott-Haims draws on research, on conversations with admissions officers, educators, and employers, and on her own insights as a mother and as a student dean to highlight the ways in which overparenting harms children, their stressed-out parents, and society at large. While empathizing with the parental hopes and, especially, fears that lead to overhelping, Lythcott-Haims offers practical alternative strategies that underline the importance of allowing children to make their own mistakes and develop the resilience, resourcefulness, and inner determination necessary for success.
Relevant to parents of toddlers as well as of twentysomethings-and of special value to parents of teens-this book is a rallying cry for those who wish to ensure that the next generation can take charge of their own lives with competence and confidence.
Julie Lythcott-Haims served as Dean of Freshmen and Undergraduate Advising for more than a decade at Stanford University, where she received the Dinkelspiel Award for her contributions to the undergraduate experience. A mother of two teenagers, she has spoken and written widely on the phenomenon of helicopter parenting, and her work has appeared on TEDx talks and in Forbes and the Chicago Tribune. She is pursuing an MFA in Creative Writing at California College of the Arts in San Francisco.
内容很水,基本都在bla on,读完耸肩,并没有获得太多灵感和启发。Still, just to prove I have get the most I can from it: 最近的一个感受:always remind yourself never to underestimate the speed of growth of your child.
评分 评分强烈推荐这本书,尤其是给有孩子的父母来读。也热切的希望老师们能来读一读。 很有意思,这本书在微信读书上首先跳出的评价都很激烈,说这是一本烂书。我猜,可能是冲击到了吧。 在行业中也有十年了,看到太多太多现在的孩子。记得一个印象非常深刻的画面:我在听课,老师在按...
评分这本书有点啰嗦,看似很厚,一个多小时就翻完了。更多的启发在于:家长的过度干预是背离育儿初衷的。????♀️ 每一章节后面都有【成长观察室】,作者用具体事例总结观点,而不是心理学的多个样本试验的结果。提倡家长放手,让孩子独立去面对整个世界。 孩子的成长必然都...
评分总结成一个词就是放手。说起来容易做起来难。
评分只读目录就行了。
评分thought-orovoking
评分两部分:一部分批评直升机家长,后一部分指出应该怎么做。可操作性强,例子丰富。
评分12%弃,我当然知道当代父母育儿方式前所未有,So what? 九斤老太会写书大抵如是。
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