图书标签: 心理学 Psychology Introversion 英文原版 心理 内向 SusanCain 美国
发表于2024-11-21
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At least one-third of the people we know are introverts. They are the ones who prefer listening to speaking, reading to partying; who innovate and create but dislike self-promotion; who favor working on their own over brainstorming in teams. Although they are often labeled "quiet," it is to introverts that we owe many of the great contributions to society--from van Gogh’s sunflowers to the invention of the personal computer.
Passionately argued, impressively researched, and filled with indelible stories of real people, Quiet shows how dramatically we undervalue introverts, and how much we lose in doing so. Taking the reader on a journey from Dale Carnegie’s birthplace to Harvard Business School, from a Tony Robbins seminar to an evangelical megachurch, Susan Cain charts the rise of the Extrovert Ideal in the twentieth century and explores its far-reaching effects. She talks to Asian-American students who feel alienated from the brash, backslapping atmosphere of American schools. She questions the dominant values of American business culture, where forced collaboration can stand in the way of innovation, and where the leadership potential of introverts is often overlooked. And she draws on cutting-edge research in psychology and neuroscience to reveal the surprising differences between extroverts and introverts.
Perhaps most inspiring, she introduces us to successful introverts--from a witty, high-octane public speaker who recharges in solitude after his talks, to a record-breaking salesman who quietly taps into the power of questions. Finally, she offers invaluable advice on everything from how to better negotiate differences in introvert-extrovert relationships to how to empower an introverted child to when it makes sense to be a "pretend extrovert."
This extraordinary book has the power to permanently change how we see introverts and, equally important, how introverts see themselves.
SUSAN CAIN is a consultant to major corporations and law firms on negotiation strategies and personal presentation style. She lives in the Hudson River Valley with her husband and two sons. Visit her website, ThePowerofIntroverts.com.
读这本并不是为了去「验证」或「正名」,别搞得像内向的人天生矮一截一样嘛,虽然作者总时不时让我这么觉得。最后几章更有收获,讲如何对待身边的内向/外向人,尤其是在成长阶段的小孩子。总想起自己小时候那个装作很外向的阶段,不过回头看一下觉得做得还不错呢。当然现在这种stay true的状态更好。哦对作者确实有点絮叨,耐着性子解释给你听的感觉。
评分Far too many introverts feel the pressure to put on a mask to be extroverts, to fit in, introverts should simply be accepted.
评分Audiobook下载:百度云网盘。http://site.douban.com/196116/widget/notes/11781049/note/252247479/。再一次让我确认了自己 I am a real introvert。听得我真是觉得有种“老乡见老乡两眼泪汪汪”的感觉。这世上还有人如此深刻了解Introverts 啊!!非常全面非常深入非常有诚意的一本书。很喜欢。http://book.douban.com/review/6148870/
评分Insightful. A guidebook for introverts and also for the rest of the world to get to know more about the introverts and enjoy the brilliance of them. Never realized that I was actually a pseudo-extrovert or at least an ambivert. It's wonderful that I've made it through those hard times.
评分有声书,感觉是数字和实验结果堆砌的鸡汤。
1、给内向者的建议:在周末的时候尽量保持自己安静的本性,在工作日里努力“走出自己的世界,流露出混合的性格,跟你的团队和同事联系,调动起你可以控制的一切能量”。(而如果你是个外向的人,你应该让你的周末回归本我变得疯狂起来,上课的时候专注于学业。) 2、你在某些领...
评分朋友们绝不认为我是个内向者,或许因为我笑点低,说话很大声,有点凶巴巴,对人很强势。 于是我也自认为我是外向者。 似乎潜意识里,都认为内向就是个贬义词,意味着胆小,怯懦,不善交际。显然我离以上还是有一段距离的。 但是渐渐地,看过的书,认识的人,经历过事情的越来越...
评分“你知道我别无所求,只想有个安静的环境写写东西”,当我在校园里来来回回,来来回回地走,心心念念,心心念念地只有这句话。我不知道看起来偌大的校园,我要去哪里才能找到,才能找到一处没有白天和黑夜,没有喧嚣和吵闹,没有成群结队,没有熟人朋友的地方,任由我高兴就写...
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