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发表于2024-05-17
Maybe You Should Talk to Someone pdf epub mobi txt 電子書 下載 2024
One day, Lori Gottlieb is a therapist who helps patients in her Los Angeles practice. The next, a crisis causes her world to come crashing down. Enter Wendell, the quirky but seasoned therapist in whose office she suddenly lands. With his balding head, cardigan, and khakis, he seems to have come straight from Therapist Central Casting. Yet he will turn out to be anything but.
As Gottlieb explores the inner chambers of her patients' lives -- a self-absorbed Hollywood producer, a young newlywed diagnosed with a terminal illness, a senior citizen threatening to end her life on her birthday if nothing gets better, and a twenty-something who can't stop hooking up with the wrong guys -- she finds that the questions they are struggling with are the very ones she is now bringing to Wendell.
With startling wisdom and humor, Gottlieb invites us into her world as both clinician and patient, examining the truths and fictions we tell ourselves and others as we teeter on the tightrope between love and desire, meaning and mortality, guilt and redemption, terror and courage, hope and change.
Maybe You Should Talk to Someone is revolutionary in its candor, offering a deeply personal yet universal tour of our hearts and minds and providing the rarest of gifts: a boldly revealing portrait of what it means to be human, and a disarmingly funny and illuminating account of our own mysterious lives and our power to transform them.
Lori Gottlieb is a psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author who writes The Atlantic's weekly "Dear Therapist" advice column. A contributing editor at The Atlantic, she also writes regularly for The New York Times, and has appeared on The Today Show, Good Morning America, CBS This Morning, CNN, and NPR. Learn more at LoriGottlieb.com or by following her @LoriGottlieb1 on Twitter.
是讀完後還會再翻的一本書。
評分作者作為psycho-therapist和“patient”兩個雙重身份講故事,讀書的過程中看著幾個谘詢者一點點在修補著自己,不論是對錯過的遺憾,童年的不幸,對未來的恐懼,還是麵對人生失去的可能性,學習到瞭好多智慧,瞭解每個人的痛苦沒有分級,與自我的和解,self love and compassion,有很多值得沉澱的東西。Julie 和John 的兩段故事都被感動哭瞭
評分年度最佳的救贖 so so healing
評分跟Mr.stupid相反,我非常願意甚至有點兒過度錶達自己不愉快的童年,不僅樂意承認它給我造成的傷害甚至會把它作為藉口逃避一些不愉快的選擇。看這本書很受啓發,跟自己和解,更能想明白自己跟愛人的關係,不應該從他身上獲取情感,應該是互相分享。跟作者一樣,不願意承認,但隱約還是被年齡在催促擔憂焦慮,埋的夠深而已。童年的問題要懂得脫敏,要珍惜自己。我以前總覺得找therapist尋求幫助不適閤我是因為我不可能信任對方,沒法真心袒露,看這本書明白瞭therapist能把人剝開,是在幾乎等於鬥爭的過程中幫助客戶(不是患者),不配閤的客戶有對應的手段。沒看這本書之前我真的沒認識到其實年齡的變化給我帶來瞭同樣的焦慮,很多時候的懊惱跟做決策的糾結都受那個我之前沒聽到的聲音影響,擔心自己經不起摺騰瞭。
評分I like her and l like her patients John and Julie, but the job still sounds unchallenging. The title should be "friend provision"
一个母亲生下唐氏儿以后写了一篇文章:“这事儿吧,就像我满心欢喜准备去活色生香的意大利,结果飞机到了我才发现,我被扔到了荷兰,而且,还走不了了。” 一个自闭儿童的母亲把这段话送给了她刚渡完蜜月就发现自己得了癌症的好朋友。 我的第一反应就是,荷兰哪儿有那么惨?!...
評分上个月去LA遇到了好久不见的前同事和她男友。吃饭时候聊到工作压力,我提到自己在找合适的心理咨询师。他们俩一致回应,啊?你为什么要找心理咨询师?言下之意是,你精神有问题吗? 我一时有点尴尬,本以为自己对这个话题已经非常开放,但面对他们俩的眼神和表情,还是佯装淡定...
評分上个月去LA遇到了好久不见的前同事和她男友。吃饭时候聊到工作压力,我提到自己在找合适的心理咨询师。他们俩一致回应,啊?你为什么要找心理咨询师?言下之意是,你精神有问题吗? 我一时有点尴尬,本以为自己对这个话题已经非常开放,但面对他们俩的眼神和表情,还是佯装淡定...
評分敲下标题,犹豫了一下,加上了“尝试”:毕竟这是一个鱼龙混杂的行业,毕竟我自己确实没有看过心理咨询师,毕竟哪怕是合格的心理咨询师,也需要有一定程度的personality match to make it click. 其实我想表达的是一个更加普世的观点:人人都需要尝试being selfaware. 是的,我...
評分敲下标题,犹豫了一下,加上了“尝试”:毕竟这是一个鱼龙混杂的行业,毕竟我自己确实没有看过心理咨询师,毕竟哪怕是合格的心理咨询师,也需要有一定程度的personality match to make it click. 其实我想表达的是一个更加普世的观点:人人都需要尝试being selfaware. 是的,我...
Maybe You Should Talk to Someone pdf epub mobi txt 電子書 下載 2024