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发表于2025-02-25
Never Split the Difference pdf epub mobi txt 電子書 下載 2025
A former international hostage negotiator for the FBI offers a new, field-tested approach to high-stakes negotiations—whether in the boardroom or at home.
After a stint policing the rough streets of Kansas City, Missouri, Chris Voss joined the FBI, where his career as a hostage negotiator brought him face-to-face with a range of criminals, including bank robbers and terrorists. Reaching the pinnacle of his profession, he became the FBI’s lead international kidnapping negotiator. Never Split the Difference takes you inside the world of high-stakes negotiations and into Voss’s head, revealing the skills that helped him and his colleagues succeed where it mattered most: saving lives. In this practical guide, he shares the nine effective principles—counterintuitive tactics and strategies—you too can use to become more persuasive in both your professional and personal life.
Life is a series of negotiations you should be prepared for: buying a car, negotiating a salary, buying a home, renegotiating rent, deliberating with your partner. Taking emotional intelligence and intuition to the next level, Never Split the Difference gives you the competitive edge in any discussion.
A 24 year veteran of the FBI, Chris Voss is one of the preeminent practitioners and professors of negotiating skills in the world. He is the founder and principal of The Black Swan Group, a consulting firm that provides training and advises Fortune 500 companies through complex negotiations. Voss has taught for many business schools, including the University of Southern California's Marshall School of Business, Georgetown University's McDonough School of Business, Harvard University, MIT's Sloan School of Management, and Northwestern University's Kellogg School of Management, among others.
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評分Got to be 5 stars . Eye opening
評分最有意思的談判書,長年在Amazon的暢銷榜上。最主要的原則兩個,1)仔細傾聽,從對手那裏獲取盡量多的信息,並讓對方感到被理解;2)把談判設想成problem solving,讓對方幫你解決問題,多問開放式問題。
評分技巧其實都懂 關鍵是經驗
評分書名很好地解釋瞭全書的中心:人與人之間的理解和互洽是有限度的。 為此,你要變著法兒360度換位思考,要正確認識談判本質,要能夠不著痕跡地柔軟反擊,要知道自己永遠有看不到的死角。己所欲施於人的道理是假的,談判不是為瞭輸贏是為瞭挖掘信息最大化利益…… “if you understand the difference, then you will realize that your compromise is of no sense to them” 非常推薦!
谈话的第一件事是学会倾听,足够的耐心和温柔是前提,用心倾听后会发现内心原本很多的以为都是自以为是。 说几件感触比较深的事,有一天我妈和我说店家搞活动,她买了很多面膜,而我当时的第一反应是面膜不能随便乱用,这个是不能图便宜的,我妈就没有再往下接话了......我甚至...
評分Successful negotiation is about building trust and getting information. Closely listening to and even repeating what your counterpart says can build trust. Mirroring The tone of your voice can do wonders for negotiation. Late night FM DJ tone Understand and...
評分You are the least important person in a negotiation. “你是谈判中最不重要的那个人。” 我很喜欢这句话。这句话有英语独特的美感。如果这句话是一道高中填空题,这句话会被纠正为:You are the LESS important person in a negotiation. 因为谈判里面只有两方,只可以使用...
評分被人说情商低?不会说话,你需要看看这个 奇葩说中的黄执中曾经说过,“人生的困扰,十之八九都出在人际关系;而人际关系的困扰,十之八九都是因为沟通出了问题。”说话这个东西,甚至比能力还要重要,蔡康永在《说话之道》里写到:“你说什么样的话,你就是什么样的人。说话,...
評分You are the least important person in a negotiation. “你是谈判中最不重要的那个人。” 我很喜欢这句话。这句话有英语独特的美感。如果这句话是一道高中填空题,这句话会被纠正为:You are the LESS important person in a negotiation. 因为谈判里面只有两方,只可以使用...
Never Split the Difference pdf epub mobi txt 電子書 下載 2025