Bestselling journalist Orenstein follows up Cinderella Ate My Daughter with a look at what happens when the little princess hits puberty. The result is an eye-opening, sometimes horrifying look at sex for today’s girls and young adults. Through frank interviews, research, and school visits, Orenstein reveals that, on average, young women are engaging in sexual contact earlier than ever, in more varied ways, and reporting more coercion and less satisfaction than their male counterparts. She cuts through many of the prickly topics associated with girls’ sexuality in contemporary culture, including purity debates, hook-up culture, arguments about what girls wear, rape and consent on college campuses, the problem of porn, and what kind of sex education actually works. She looks briefly at gender fluidity and touches on the concerns of LGBTQ young women. Orenstein draws powerful, humane portraits of her interview subjects, self-reliant young women who find themselves trapped by sexist stereotypes about women’s bodies and women’s pleasure. In this smart, earnest, and timely assessment, Orenstein urges frank, open communication among trusted adults and curious teens, declaring it the best way to encourage girls and boys to make safe, healthy decisions that “end in joy and honor rather than regret, guilt, or shame” and achieve “intimate justice.” (Mar.)
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讀後感
以前人们总是跟我说，出门啊一定要注意安全要照顾好自己，女生要自爱！我以前觉得这些话没什么，习以为常，但是后来看到一篇文章说:为什么你要叫我女儿保护好自己而不是教育你儿子不出去伤害别人？女生总是要有18般武艺，而男生也很少被提及。经济文化一直在进步，可是人们对于...
評分想到一句话 " your naked body should only belong to those who fall in love with you naked soul " 女孩子要爱惜自己的身体，所谓的要自尊自爱 男孩子也要学会尊重女性，大家都是独立的个体 男性女性都要懂得 responsibilities of intimacy—— "亲密的责任"
評分 評分https://athenacool.wordpress.com/2020/01/31/girls-sex%e3%80%81boys-sex/ Girls & Sex: Navigating the Complicated New Landscape 女孩与性 Peggy Orenstein / Harper / 2016-3 Boys & Sex: Young Men on Hookups, Love, Porn, Consent, and Navigating the New Ma...
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聽書所得，物化，齣賣性感。
评分社會推崇的主流「性感」vs自己想成為的人 1. 第一次: 保證安全 最私人 最不該由他人乾預 2. 女人在勾搭文化中往往既不是受益者, 也不是受害者, 她們隻是對勾搭抱有錯誤的幻想 3. 如果被侵害瞭, 一定不要保持沉默 4. 性愛: 快樂/自尊/自愛vs後悔/內疚/羞恥 5. 性和人生的其他事情一樣, 需要獨立主動的思考, 自己做齣決定, 並且為後果負責
评分挺好的一本書，不深奧心理學和社會學。想想第一個誘惑我的女朋友，還真是這麼一迴事兒。
评分采訪有點贅述，話語的堆積。對“壘”觀點已經不新。書中最後倡導荷蘭性教育經驗然而這種教育是建立一定的社會基礎上如父母的教育水平；觀念開放程度等；對美國來說有一定的可比性；於中國而言，要求父母cooperative，open-minded幾乎不現實，中國性教育道阻且長。但，首先無論男女都要尊重自己尊重對方。
评分豐富瞭我的詞彙 體驗一下美國社會形態和性態度
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