If you have attention deficit disorder (ADD), you may act impulsively, daydream, and have trouble focusing, but clinical studies suggest that these same symptoms may make you exceptionally creative, intuitive, and energetic. In fact, many people with ADD claim to have become successful because of their ADD, not in spite of it. In The Gift of Adult ADD, Lara Honos-Webb adapts the revolutionary approach first introduced in the parenting book The Gift of ADHD to the lives of adults with ADD. Instead of focusing on your weaknesses, this book shows you how to transform symptoms into strengths to improve your relationships, job performance, parenting skills, and overall quality of life. You'll also read inspiring stories of real people with ADD who have become successful in part because of their ability to meet the challenges of ADD and make the most of its gifts. "Lara Honos-Webb shows us how the demands of a global and digital culture may make the signature traits of ADD-inventiveness, need for stimulation, and interpersonal intuition-in high demand." -Daniel H. Pink, author of "A Whole New Mind" "If you have ADD and have been looking for the meaning of your struggles, this book will change your life. You will see, beyond doubt, that it's time to stop patching up your weaknesses and start learning about your many gifts." -Carol Adrienne, Ph.D., author of "The Purpose of Your Life" "Honos-Webb's book is a wonderful guidebook for optimistic living. What one chooses to focus on grows, and Honos-Webb has provided the framework for others to learn this important philosophy. It is especially important for those with ADHD to embrace the positive side of their personalities." -Stephanie Moulton Sarkis, Ph.D., author of Making the Grade with ADD and 10 Simple Solutions to Adult ADD "In her newest book, Honos-Webb builds on the core principles of her previous work to show how adults with ADD can find fulfilling and rewarding lives by being who they are. 'Find what you love and are good at, and let that guide you, ' she advises, offering real-life stories of people who have done just that. In this inspiring book, Honos-Webb provides a host of specific activities to help adults with ADD use self-reflection, insight, and creativity to address weaknesses without letting those weaknesses overshadow their strengths and talents. The Gift of Adult ADD is a welcome addition to the growing body of literature that shows how to go beyond limiting-and misleading-diagnostic labels." -Barbara Probst, MSW, LCSW, author of "When the Labels Don't Fit" "A revolutionary, paradigm-shifting book that will undoubtedly change the way we think about ADD. Honos-Webb's contribution is a gift, providing no-nonsense strategies and inspiring examples of how to transform apparent deficits into strengths and assets." -Kelly Howell, president, Brain Sync "Talk about a gift This book will be a true gift for anyone with ADD. While it can be discouraging to live with ADD, Honos-Webb's wise and helpful book will show readers how to use their ADD to improve their relationships and work lives. She then goes on to identify and explain the five specific gifts that adult ADD brings. This wonderful book has the power to transform the life and consciousness of anyone dealing with ADD." -Mira Kirshenbaum, author of "When Good People Have Affairs, Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay," and "Everything Happens for a Reason" "Are you ready to let this precious volume transform you, your world, and your 'adult attention deficit disorder'? Here is a gift that can be magical and life changing, both for you and your 'adult attention deficit disorder.'" -Alvin R. Mahrer, Ph.D., professor emeritus at the University of Ottawa, author of "The Manual of Optimal Behaviors "
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从文学性上来讲,这本书的文笔实在称得上是一股清流。它没有一般科普读物那种冰冷的科学腔调,反而充满了温暖的人性关怀和深刻的自我反思。作者的叙事节奏把握得极好,时而跳跃,时而深入,这种跳跃感本身似乎就是在模仿ADHD的思维模式,读起来一点也不觉得枯燥,反而有一种“跟着作者一起头脑风暴”的兴奋感。我特别喜欢其中穿插的“轶事片段”,那些来自不同年龄、不同职业的人的真实故事,让我深切体会到,原来我的困扰并非孤例。有一种强烈的共鸣感油然而生,就好像找到了一个隐秘的社群,大家都在用同一种奇怪的“语言”交流。书中对于“创造力与紊乱的关系”的讨论,更是给了我极大的启发。我一直因为我的“发散性思维”而感到自卑,认为那是一种缺陷,但作者将其解读为一种“超强的模式识别能力”和“非线性解决问题的天赋”。这让我开始重新审视我的工作产出,那些看似混乱的草稿和笔记,其实蕴含着突破性的见解。这本书不仅是自我救赎的指南,更是一部关于“非常规天才”的赞美诗。
评分我必须说,这本书的结构设计得非常精妙,它不像其他同类书籍那样堆砌理论,而是采取了一种非常“流程化”的叙事方式,非常适合我们这些需要清晰步骤指引的头脑。尤其让我印象深刻的是它对“执行功能障碍”的剖析。我一直以为我的问题在于“懒惰”或者“意志力不坚定”,但这本书明确指出,这是一种神经学上的通路不畅。它用了一个非常形象的比喻,将执行功能比作一个繁忙的交通枢纽,而我们的“大脑司机”总是在找不到正确的出口标志。读到关于“任务启动困难”的部分时,我仿佛看到了自己早上盯着衣柜发呆半小时的场景——不是不想穿衣服,而是大脑无法在无数个选项中选定第一个动作。作者随后提供了一系列“微小习惯锚点”的建议,比如“五分钟规则”和“环境重构法”,这些方法简单到让人觉得不可思议,但效果却立竿见影。我尝试着将我的办公桌清理成极简模式,不再放置任何可能分散注意力的物品,效果比我过去尝试的所有“番茄工作法”都管用得多。这本书的价值在于,它提供的不是宏大的哲学思考,而是你可以马上在下一秒钟用到的、可操作的“工具箱”。它没有贩卖希望,它提供的是方法论,是硬核的、针对性的解决方案。
评分我通常对这类自我提升书籍持保留态度,因为它们往往在开头描绘了光明的未来,但中间部分却开始变得空洞乏味,最终流于说教。但《那个该死的注意力缺陷综合征》成功地避免了这些陷阱。它最突出的优点是它的“平衡性”。它既没有过度美化这种状态,承认了它带来的实际困难,比如时间管理、财务规划上的混乱;同时,它也毫不吝啬地赞扬了它带来的独特优势——比如在危机时刻的超强专注力、对新事物的热情以及旺盛的精力。作者的叙事角度非常成熟,不是一个“过来人”居高临下的教导,而更像是一位经验丰富的朋友,坐在你身边,陪你一起梳理那些错综复杂的线团。读完全书后,我最大的收获是“接纳与优化”的辩证统一。我不再试图成为一个别人眼中的“完美员工”或“完美伴侣”,而是专注于建立一套适合我个人“大脑硬件”的外部支持系统——比如利用技术工具来弥补我的记忆缺陷,利用外部的提醒来弥补我的时间感知缺失。这本书,与其说是一本指导手册,不如说是一份关于如何为你自己定制“最佳生活操作系统”的详尽蓝图。它为我点亮了一条既现实又充满希望的道路。
评分购买这本书之前,我对市面上宣扬的“自我管理”书籍已经感到审美疲劳,它们总是在鼓吹一种高度结构化、禁欲式的完美生活,这对于一个天生就厌恶规则的人来说,无疑是一种精神折磨。然而,这本书的视角是颠覆性的。它完全不要求你“战胜”你的ADHD,而是教你如何“驾驭”它。最让我感到震撼的是关于“情绪失调与人际关系”的那一章。我过去总是因为一时的情绪爆发而搞砸重要的社交场合或亲密关系,事后追悔莫及。这本书深入分析了情绪反应速度过快背后的生理机制,并提出了“延迟反应窗口”的技巧。这个技巧非常实用,它不是让你压抑情绪,而是给你多出几秒钟的缓冲时间,在这几秒钟里,你可以选择如何回应,而不是被冲动挟持。这种对内在世界的精细剖析,让我明白了我的“敏感”并非是矫情,而是神经系统的高反应性所致。这种科学层面的解释,极大地减少了我的内疚感,使我能更客观地去修复我那些因为误解而受损的关系。这本书,可以说,不仅改善了我的工作效率,更修复了我的人际网络。
评分这本书简直是为我量身定做的!我一直都在寻找能真正理解那种“脑子里永远有十个频道同时播放”感觉的指南,而这本《那个该死的注意力缺陷综合征》彻底击中靶心。作者没有用那些生硬的医学术语来吓唬人,而是用一种非常接地气、甚至带着点幽默感的笔触,描述了我们这些“ADHD患者”日常生活中那些啼笑皆非又无比真实的挣扎。比如,关于“信息过载”的那一章,简直就是我大学时代堆满咖啡杯和草稿纸的书桌的真实写照。我记得我看完那一段时,差点没笑出声,因为描述得太精准了——那种想做所有事,结果一件都没做好的挫败感,终于被清晰地捕捉并命名了。更重要的是,它提供的不是那种“努力就能解决”的空洞口号,而是真正实用的、针对我们这种思维模式的“战术”。比如,如何利用冲动性来启动那些拖延已久的项目,而不是一味地去压制它。这本书让我感觉自己不再是一个“有缺陷”的人,而是一个拥有不同运行系统的个体,需要不同的“操作系统说明书”。这是一种巨大的心理释放,让我终于可以停止对自己的无休止的指责,转而开始学习如何与这个“高速运转的大脑”和谐共处。那种被理解的感觉,比任何药物都更让人感到踏实和有力量。我向所有感觉自己“与世界频率不符”的人强烈推荐这本书,它不是让你变“正常”,而是让你成为更好的自己。
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