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Alfie Kohn

Atria Books

2007年

272 页

127.0

平裝

9780743487504

圖書標籤: 育兒 Parenting 英文原版教育心理學教育理念 Education 傢庭

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Most parenting guides begin with the question "How can we get kids to do what they're told?" and then proceed to offer various techniques for controlling them. In this truly groundbreaking book, nationally respected educator Alfie Kohn begins instead by asking, "What do kids need - and how can we meet those needs?" What follows from that quetion are ideas for working with children rather than doing things to them.

One basic need all children have, Kohn argues, is to be loved unconditionally, to know that they will be accepted even if they screw up or fall short. Yet conventional approaches to parenting such as punishments (including "time-outs"), rewards (including positive reinforcement), and other forms of control teach children that they are loved only when they please us or impress us. Kohn cites a body of powerful, and largely unknown, research detailing the damage caused by leading children to believe they must earn our approval. That's precisely the message children derive from common discipline techniques, even though it's not the message most parents intend to send.

More than just another book about discipline, though, Unconditional Parenting addresses the ways parents think about, feel about, and act with their children. It invites them to question their most basic assumptions about raising kids while offering a wealth of practical strategies for shifting from "doing to" to "working with" parenting - including how to replace praise with the unconditional support that children need to grow into healthy, caring, responsible people. This is an eye-opening, paradigm-shattering book that will reconnect readers to their own best instincts and inspire them to become better parents.

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著者簡介

Alfie Kohn is the author of nine previous books, including Punished by Rewards and The Schools Our Children Deserve, that have helped to shape the thinking of parents and educators across the country and abroad. He lectures widely and lives (actually) with his family in the Boston are and (virtually) at www.alfiekohn.org.

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一，作為父母，無條件地愛孩子，是由於ta是你的孩子，而不是由於ta做瞭哪些可以讓你自豪的事。這種無條件的愛，既不是溺愛，也不是對你的孩子市恩市義（所謂養育之恩，即屬市恩市義）。二，做齣恰當決定的能力需要從幼年一點點培養、曆練，並讓孩子瞭解每一項決定都與責任的承擔有關。學習做齣恰當決定的途徑，恰恰是通過做決定本身，而非通過聽從他人指導。三，要有勇氣、有能力麵對和質疑自己的養育經曆以及被養育的經曆。是的，人通常不願意質疑自己、質疑自己親近的人，尤其是自己父母。但誰都不是完人，包括你和你父母，所以，隻要用心，一定會找到可以改進的地方，使自己變得更好並嘗試做更好的父母。

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車軲轆話翻來倒去的說，真的很佩服老外。不過這個概念我非常接受

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One of the best parenting books I've ever read. Answered most of my questions regarding discipline. I have changed my old practices and need to revise my previous writings.

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車軲轆話翻來倒去的說，真的很佩服老外。不過這個概念我非常接受