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发表于2024-12-28
Why Won’t You Apologize? pdf epub mobi txt 電子書 下載 2024
Renowned psychologist and bestselling author of The Dance of Anger sheds new light on the two most important words in the English language—I’m sorry—and offers a unique perspective on the challenge of healing broken connections and restoring trust.
Dr. Harriet Lerner has been studying apologies—and why some people won’t give them—for more than two decades. Now she offers compelling stories and solid theory that bring home how much the simple apology matters and what is required for healing when the hurt we’ve inflicted (or received) is far from simple. Readers will learn how to craft a deeply meaningful “I’m sorry” and avoid apologies that only deepen the original injury.
Why Won’t You Apologize? also addresses the compelling needs of the injured party—the one who has been hurt by someone who won’t apologize, tell the truth, or feel remorse. Lerner explains what drives both the non-apologizer and the over-apologizer, as well as why the people who do the worst things are the least able to own up. She helps the injured person resist pressure to forgive too easily and challenges the popular notion that forgiveness is the only path to peace of mind. With her trademark humor and wit, Lerner offers a joyful and sanity-saving guide to setting things right.
Harriet Lerner, Ph.D., is one of our nation's most loved and respected relationship experts. Renowned for her work on the psychology of women and family relationships, she served as a staff psychologist at the Menninger Clinic for more than two decades. A distinguished lecturer, workshop leader, and psychotherapist, she is the author of The Dance of Anger and other bestselling books. She is also, with her sister, an award-winning children's book writer. She and her husband are therapists in Lawrence, Kansas, and have two sons.
如何道歉、如何接受道歉、如何讓對方承擔應有的責任。成年人要為自己的行為和情緒負責。
評分如何道歉、如何接受道歉、如何讓對方承擔應有的責任。成年人要為自己的行為和情緒負責。
評分如何道歉、如何接受道歉、如何讓對方承擔應有的責任。成年人要為自己的行為和情緒負責。
評分如何道歉、如何接受道歉、如何讓對方承擔應有的責任。成年人要為自己的行為和情緒負責。
評分如何道歉、如何接受道歉、如何讓對方承擔應有的責任。成年人要為自己的行為和情緒負責。
“对不起”是人类语言中最有治愈力量的话语。接受真诚道歉时,受害方的怒火会一消而散;及时表达歉意,也会让犯错方内心感到解脱。只要善于道歉,就能够化解负面情绪和伤痛,修复和巩固人际关系。 但是,并非每个人都会道歉。 如果道歉的语言不够真诚,或是满嘴都是借口,即使...
評分长这么大,从没印象我爸妈互相说过对不起。作为冷战技能MAX的绝世高手,他们消气的时长短则个把星期、长则一两个月。等气逐渐消退、还要小心翼翼等待时机成熟、才用开玩笑的方式去“戳”一下对方“以示友好”,如果另一方没有不耐烦,那这次战争就会慢慢结束。 出身于这样一个...
評分“对不起”是人类语言中最有治愈力量的话语。接受真诚道歉时,受害方的怒火会一消而散;及时表达歉意,也会让犯错方内心感到解脱。只要善于道歉,就能够化解负面情绪和伤痛,修复和巩固人际关系。 但是,并非每个人都会道歉。 如果道歉的语言不够真诚,或是满嘴都是借口,即使...
評分你在生活中有没有遇到过这样的人?他只是犯了个小错误,比如说碰倒了你正在吃的泡面,汤水还落了几滴在你的作业本上,但是他道歉的方式却特别气人,比如: 1. “我错了,可你干嘛在这里吃泡面啊?多容易洒啊。” 2. “我错了,但你现在也弄了我一手方便面汤。咱们怎么处理,责...
評分Why Won’t You Apologize? pdf epub mobi txt 電子書 下載 2024