图书标签: 心理学 3.个人修养 非虚构 心理 女权与性别 关系 Self-Help Practical
发表于2024-12-24
Why Won’t You Apologize? pdf epub mobi txt 电子书 下载 2024
Renowned psychologist and bestselling author of The Dance of Anger sheds new light on the two most important words in the English language—I’m sorry—and offers a unique perspective on the challenge of healing broken connections and restoring trust.
Dr. Harriet Lerner has been studying apologies—and why some people won’t give them—for more than two decades. Now she offers compelling stories and solid theory that bring home how much the simple apology matters and what is required for healing when the hurt we’ve inflicted (or received) is far from simple. Readers will learn how to craft a deeply meaningful “I’m sorry” and avoid apologies that only deepen the original injury.
Why Won’t You Apologize? also addresses the compelling needs of the injured party—the one who has been hurt by someone who won’t apologize, tell the truth, or feel remorse. Lerner explains what drives both the non-apologizer and the over-apologizer, as well as why the people who do the worst things are the least able to own up. She helps the injured person resist pressure to forgive too easily and challenges the popular notion that forgiveness is the only path to peace of mind. With her trademark humor and wit, Lerner offers a joyful and sanity-saving guide to setting things right.
Harriet Lerner, Ph.D., is one of our nation's most loved and respected relationship experts. Renowned for her work on the psychology of women and family relationships, she served as a staff psychologist at the Menninger Clinic for more than two decades. A distinguished lecturer, workshop leader, and psychotherapist, she is the author of The Dance of Anger and other bestselling books. She is also, with her sister, an award-winning children's book writer. She and her husband are therapists in Lawrence, Kansas, and have two sons.
如何道歉、如何接受道歉、如何让对方承担应有的责任。成年人要为自己的行为和情绪负责。
评分如何道歉、如何接受道歉、如何让对方承担应有的责任。成年人要为自己的行为和情绪负责。
评分如何道歉、如何接受道歉、如何让对方承担应有的责任。成年人要为自己的行为和情绪负责。
评分如何道歉、如何接受道歉、如何让对方承担应有的责任。成年人要为自己的行为和情绪负责。
评分如何道歉、如何接受道歉、如何让对方承担应有的责任。成年人要为自己的行为和情绪负责。
生活中我们时时刻刻遭遇不同的人和事,往往在面对不同结果时。表达感谢和道歉的过程中,礼貌性地去说文明用语是一种体现素养的形式。 这本书他是针对于道歉展开,从内在心理原因阐述面对道歉和被道歉的感受中,我们是否忽视了道歉这种形式上我们内心最真实的出发点和自认为的观...
评分长这么大,从没印象我爸妈互相说过对不起。作为冷战技能MAX的绝世高手,他们消气的时长短则个把星期、长则一两个月。等气逐渐消退、还要小心翼翼等待时机成熟、才用开玩笑的方式去“戳”一下对方“以示友好”,如果另一方没有不耐烦,那这次战争就会慢慢结束。 出身于这样一个...
评分《你为什么不道歉》[美]哈丽特·勒纳/著,毕崇毅/译 好像是微信书友在读,名字封面都喜欢,就买回来了。 ❤️受害方普遍总想,和加害方当面对峙,以期得到诚恳道歉,其实想得美(划掉),其实并不实际。建议降低期待值(就是别指望了)。 对方要足够自爱,自我尊重程度够高...
评分长这么大,从没印象我爸妈互相说过对不起。作为冷战技能MAX的绝世高手,他们消气的时长短则个把星期、长则一两个月。等气逐渐消退、还要小心翼翼等待时机成熟、才用开玩笑的方式去“戳”一下对方“以示友好”,如果另一方没有不耐烦,那这次战争就会慢慢结束。 出身于这样一个...
评分生活中我们时时刻刻遭遇不同的人和事,往往在面对不同结果时。表达感谢和道歉的过程中,礼貌性地去说文明用语是一种体现素养的形式。 这本书他是针对于道歉展开,从内在心理原因阐述面对道歉和被道歉的感受中,我们是否忽视了道歉这种形式上我们内心最真实的出发点和自认为的观...
Why Won’t You Apologize? pdf epub mobi txt 电子书 下载 2024