图书标签: ElizabethGilbert 英文原版 美国 Love 随笔 成长 美国文学 旅行
发表于2024-11-10
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At the end of her bestselling memoir Eat, Pray, Love, Elizabeth Gilbert fell in love with Felipe -
a Brazilian-born man of Australian citizenship who'd been living in Indonesia when they met.
Resettling in America, the couple swore eternal fidelity to each other, but also swore to
never, ever, under any circumstances get legally married. (Both survivors of difficult divorces.
Enough said.) But providence intervened one day in the form of the U.S. government, who -
after unexpectedly detaining Felipe at an American border crossing - gave the couple a
choice: they could either get married, or Felipe would never be allowed to enter the country
again.
Having been effectively sentenced to wed, Gilbert tackled her fears of marriage by delving
completely into this topic, trying with all her might to discover (through historical research,
interviews and much personal reflection) what this stubbornly enduring old institution actually
is. The result is Committed - a witty and intelligent contemplation of marriage that debunks
myths, unthreads fears and suggests that sometimes even the most romantic of souls must
trade in her amorous fantasies for the humbling responsibility of adulthood. Gilbert's
memoir - destined to become a cherished handbook for any thinking person hovering on the
verge of marriage - is ultimately a clear-eyed celebration of love, with all the complexity and
consequence that real love, in the real world, actually entails.
这本果然讲的是大问题 - 婚姻。与第一本不同,这不再是关于一个人的故事,而是两个人如何克服对婚姻的恐惧。结婚就如同一个枷锁,特别是对那些没有安全感的人来说,很多人担心会让人失去自我,最后虽然夫妻一场但已经没有感情,只有各种妥协下的相处。说到这,如此现实的问题不禁让还没结婚人们唏嘘不已。而已经在围城里的人们会以各种自身经历教导我们不要盲目的相信爱情和婚姻可以共存。好莱坞式的童话永远只存在于电影里,而我们注定要在不完美中找寻自己对婚姻的答案。
评分通俗易懂,观点都同意。
评分这本果然讲的是大问题 - 婚姻。与第一本不同,这不再是关于一个人的故事,而是两个人如何克服对婚姻的恐惧。结婚就如同一个枷锁,特别是对那些没有安全感的人来说,很多人担心会让人失去自我,最后虽然夫妻一场但已经没有感情,只有各种妥协下的相处。说到这,如此现实的问题不禁让还没结婚人们唏嘘不已。而已经在围城里的人们会以各种自身经历教导我们不要盲目的相信爱情和婚姻可以共存。好莱坞式的童话永远只存在于电影里,而我们注定要在不完美中找寻自己对婚姻的答案。
评分喜欢eatpreylove的这本就不用读了。比Oneday也差得很远很远啊!有关marriage半生不熟的说教很闷,似乎是熬了好几夜还写坏了的学生paper--清晨发现问题出在topic选错上,却只能打着哈欠草草交差了。个人恐婚的情绪把整体故事搞得更加支离破碎。读后发现男主角真的是个人物,落墨放在他身上会好看很多,再或者就单纯写个美利坚被婚奇遇也会有趣。liz,聘我当总策划吧,保证大卖! 2011年11月26日周六读完最后几页。
评分断断续续看了很久,终于快要读完了。看到最后终于意识到作者是个太过极端的女权主义者,本也无可厚非,每个人都有谁也剥夺不走的思想自由,只是实在觉得极端女权的背后反倒是过分自我和缺少爱,而我已经过了欣赏这种人的年纪
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