圖書標籤: 心理學 Relationship 英文原版 心理 therapy intimacy Psychology 愛情
发表于2025-04-14
Hold Me Tight pdf epub mobi txt 電子書 下載 2025
Heralded by the New York Times and Time magazine as the couple therapy with the highest rate of success, Emotionally Focused Therapy works because it views the love relationship as an attachment bond. This idea, once controversial, is now supported by science, and has become widely popular among therapists around the world.
In Hold me Tight, Dr. Sue Johnson presents Emotionally Focused Therapy to the general public for the first time. Johnson teaches that the way to save and enrich a relationship is to reestablish safe emotional connection and preserve the attachment bond. With this in mind, she focuses on key moments in a relationship-from Recognizing the Demon Dialogue to Revisiting a Rocky Moment-and uses them as touchpoints for seven healing conversations. Through case studies from her practice, illuminating advice, and practical exercises, couples will learn how to nurture their relationships and ensure a lifetime of love.
Dr. Sue Johnson is a clinical psychologist and Distinguished Research Professor at Alliant International University in San Diego, CA. The primary developer of Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy, she is a recognized leader in the new science of relationships. Dr. Johnson is the author of numerous books and articles, and she has trained thousands of therapists in North America and around the world. She lives in Ottawa, Canada. For more information on Dr. Sue Johnson and Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy, visit www.iceeft.com and www.holdmetight.com.
相見恨晚啊,大量couple therapy案例貫穿全書,生動易懂有共鳴,看著看著就哭瞭。前幾章講如何有意識地發現彼此爭執時的pattern,落腳點是理解、接納雙方的raw spots & attachment needs,不僅要耐心發掘對方protest背後的原因,也要積極勇敢地錶達自己的emotional feelings來幫對方理解自己。所有的正嚮、負嚮的spiral都不是一個人促成的,說到底,雙方積極參與溝通錶達仍是重中之重,隻有實用性的problem solving而沒有語言和肢體的reassurances是遠遠不夠的。也提到瞭如何與經曆過trauma的伴侶相處,如何原諒彼此,如何區分性生活是真的bonding還是找刺激或補償行為。挺棒挺實用的!
評分the world is inherently traumatic,and we need emotional connections to deal with it . strong emotional bonds are the core of a good sex life that last throughout the years. relationships cause trauma that has to be confronted and healed.
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評分这本书怎么开始阅读啊,电子版有卖的吗?没有开始阅读这一项啊,有没有哪位大神告诉我?哎想读一读,自己的世界好贫瘠。要140字,后面的我就复制粘贴了。这本书怎么开始阅读啊,电子版有卖的吗?没有开始阅读这一项啊,有没有哪位大神告诉我?哎想读一读,自己的世界好贫瘠。这...
評分这本书怎么开始阅读啊,电子版有卖的吗?没有开始阅读这一项啊,有没有哪位大神告诉我?哎想读一读,自己的世界好贫瘠。要140字,后面的我就复制粘贴了。这本书怎么开始阅读啊,电子版有卖的吗?没有开始阅读这一项啊,有没有哪位大神告诉我?哎想读一读,自己的世界好贫瘠。这...
評分这本书怎么开始阅读啊,电子版有卖的吗?没有开始阅读这一项啊,有没有哪位大神告诉我?哎想读一读,自己的世界好贫瘠。要140字,后面的我就复制粘贴了。这本书怎么开始阅读啊,电子版有卖的吗?没有开始阅读这一项啊,有没有哪位大神告诉我?哎想读一读,自己的世界好贫瘠。这...
評分这本书怎么开始阅读啊,电子版有卖的吗?没有开始阅读这一项啊,有没有哪位大神告诉我?哎想读一读,自己的世界好贫瘠。要140字,后面的我就复制粘贴了。这本书怎么开始阅读啊,电子版有卖的吗?没有开始阅读这一项啊,有没有哪位大神告诉我?哎想读一读,自己的世界好贫瘠。这...
Hold Me Tight pdf epub mobi txt 電子書 下載 2025