圖書標籤: Non-Fiction 2014
发表于2024-11-05
Where We Going, Daddy? pdf epub mobi txt 電子書 下載 2024
Jean-Louis Fournier did not expect to have a disabled child. He certainly did not expect to have two. But that is precisely what happened to this wry French humorist, and his attempts to live and cope with his Mathieu and Thomas, both facing extremely debilitating physical and mental challenges, is the subject of this brave and heartbreaking book. Fournier recalls the life he imagined having with his sons—but his boys will never really grow up, and he mourns the loss of every memory he thought he’d have.
Though a devoted father, he does not shy away from exploring the limits of his love, the countless times he is filled with frustration and disappointment with no relief in sight. Mathieu and Thomas can barely communicate, and each in turn repeats learned phrases, such as “Where we going, Daddy?” (a favorite in the car) in what feels to
Fournier to be an eternal loop.
In WhereWe Going, Daddy? Fournier reveals everything, and that is perhaps his most remarkable quality. He does not hide behind a mask of cliché, but gives voice to the darkness that comes with disability, and the rare moments of light. Through short, powerful vignettes Jean-Louis manages his grief with cynicism and humor. For parents of disabled children, this book will offer some relief from the courage they must garner every day, a chance to let down their guard, laugh at themselves, and embrace even the ugly emotions they feel. For the rest of us, it’s an unsettling and heartfelt glimpse into an otherwise unimaginable life.
讓-路易•傅尼葉(Jean-Louis Fournier)
大學時修習古典文學,本應成為嚴肅學者的他,後來卻成瞭法國知名作傢及電視劇編導。他曾獲得多項國際藝術電影大奬,從一九九二年起,傅尼葉開始文字創作,作品逾二十部,包含散文、小說、劇本,他幽默詼諧的筆法,令眾多法國讀者為之著迷。
雖然經常受邀上媒體談論作品,但關於自己的兩個孩子,一直是傅尼葉避言談起的話題。直到他七十歲,也就是二〇〇八年,他纔齣版《爸爸,我們去哪兒?》,首度寫齣身為兩個殘障兒父親的心聲。他說:“過去不提,不是因為怕丟臉、怕被人用異樣眼光看待,而是無法麵對說瞭之後難以承受的痛楚。”
《爸爸,我們去哪兒?》一齣版,立即在法國引起熱烈的迴響,在銷售量和排行榜上都創下耀眼的佳績。傅尼葉的句句文字撫慰瞭許多讀者,不僅僅隻是同為殘障兒的父母,更告訴大傢即使有再痛苦的遭遇,還是能夠有勇氣地笑著活下去。有評論傢說:或許上帝不曾善待傅尼葉的孩子,但這部作品之於傅尼葉,甚至所有的讀者,都是我們麵對生命睏境時最好的禮物。
讀到這樣的故事,我還能說什麼呢?
評分Love is a tough business.
評分Love is a tough business.
評分讀到這樣的故事,我還能說什麼呢?
評分Love is a tough business.
这本书买来以后就成为了我的梦魇。Fournier的文采太好,黑色幽默太催肺,在他笔下,一个原本快乐的家庭面对两个智障孩子,这是一场没有解的人间悲剧。 看到大孩子Mathieu的离开,几乎要为他感到庆幸,庆幸他摆脱了没有意义的人生,不再给父母增加负担。 由于书中充满了夸张和...
評分不,他没长大,衰老了,但没有长大。他永远长不大。脑袋里一旦进了草,就永远长不大了。 几天前,我发现马缔约在津津有味的看书。我激动坏了,赶忙跑过去。 结果,我发现他的书拿倒了。 我没有看到托马。我走出房间,看见走廊里的衣帽架上挂...
評分记得是一次在读《一个》里面的一则看起来像短笑话的内容被吸引到来读这本书的。 基本上书很简单就是作者与两个智障儿子之间发生的故事。令人惊讶的是其间毫无悲情,毫无故作深沉的伤感,有的是作者小小的自私,真真的人性,无言的幽默。难道是作者真的有如此好的心态来面对一...
評分这本书买来以后就成为了我的梦魇。Fournier的文采太好,黑色幽默太催肺,在他笔下,一个原本快乐的家庭面对两个智障孩子,这是一场没有解的人间悲剧。 看到大孩子Mathieu的离开,几乎要为他感到庆幸,庆幸他摆脱了没有意义的人生,不再给父母增加负担。 由于书中充满了夸张和...
評分翻译这本书的由头说来很有戏剧性,当时一门心思纠结于《太阳王路易十四》上,和国内的版权代理谈地比较坎坷,眼看翻译计划就要无果而终。老婆说不如干脆放下国王吧,换个轻松的。我说那好吧。那段时期,《爸爸,我们去哪儿》在畅销书排行榜上占据首位。老婆帮我在网上看看...
Where We Going, Daddy? pdf epub mobi txt 電子書 下載 2024