具体描述
We are profoundly social creatures – more than we know.
In Social , renowned psychologist Matthew Lieberman explores groundbreaking research in social neuroscience revealing that our need to connect with other people is even more fundamental, more basic, than our need for food or shelter. Because of this, our brain uses its spare time to learn about the social world – other people and our relation to them. It is believed that we must commit 10,000 hours to master a skill. According to Lieberman, each of us has spent 10,000 hours learning to make sense of people and groups by the time we are ten .
Social argues that our need to reach out to and connect with others is a primary driver behind our behavior. We believe that pain and pleasure alone guide our actions. Yet, new research using fMRI – including a great deal of original research conducted by Lieberman and his UCLA lab -- shows that our brains react to social pain and pleasure in much the same way as they do to physical pain and pleasure. Fortunately, the brain has evolved sophisticated mechanisms for securing our place in the social world. We have a unique ability to read other people’s minds, to figure out their hopes, fears, and motivations, allowing us to effectively coordinate our lives with one another. And our most private sense of who we are is intimately linked to the important people and groups in our lives. This wiring often leads us to restrain our selfish impulses for the greater good. These mechanisms lead to behavior that might seem irrational, but is really just the result of our deep social wiring and necessary for our success as a species.
Based on the latest cutting edge research, the findings in Social have important real-world implications. Our schools and businesses, for example, attempt to minimalize social distractions. But this is exactly the wrong thing to do to encourage engagement and learning, and literally shuts down the social brain, leaving powerful neuro-cognitive resources untapped. The insights revealed in this pioneering book suggest ways to improve learning in schools, make the workplace more productive, and improve our overall well-being.
作者简介
Mathew D. Lieberman was trained at Harvard University and is a professor in the Departments of Psychology, Psychiatry, and Biobehavioral Sciences at the University of California, Los Angeles, and the founding editor of the journal Social Cognitive and Affective Neuroscience. In 2007, the American Psychological Association awarded him the Distinguished Scientific Award for an Early Career Contribution to Psychology, an award given to one social psychologist every two years. He is one of the foremost authorities in the world on the study of Social Neuroscience.
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读后感
其实这本书只读了一个开头,就深深震撼到我了:“我们的大脑天生就与他人相互连接”,也就是说大脑闲下来的时候并不是一片空白,而是在处理社交。这意味着人类要么是在主动思考,要么就是在处理社交。意味着人类分为两种:一种主动思考更多,一种处理社交更多。前者更多的身份...
就像观察一个人要看ta的脸那样,了解一本书的主要内容就要翻看书的目录。当翻看这本书目录时,我瞥到了这个小标题:“为什么智商越高的人越不好相处”。我立刻被它吸引了——因为我的人际关系就没有那么理想,同时我也有志于学术,爱看书。 作者对那个小标题提出的问题所做出的...
过去,我很少专门去考虑人和人的交流、社会形成的推动力到底是什么。即便偶然想起,也不过会从“物质决定意识”的终极哲学角度去分析。 直到我看了这本书。 看到书名的时候,你可能会认为这是一本关于社交网络的,甚至是相关网站运营的工具书,并不是。 这是一部关于人脑神经科...
本书集中探讨人类大脑的三种主要的适应,它们促使我们与社交圈联系得更加紧密,并且使我们能够更好地利用社会连接去建立更具凝聚力的团体和组织。简单的说,就是社交痛苦等同于物理痛苦、社交推理完全不同于非社交类型的推理、自我容易受到社会环境的强烈影响。 1. 我们天生就...
用户评价
我看的是中文简体字版,译作《社交天性》~湛庐文化出的,质量赞👍书里现实生活中的例子很多,所以就没那么枯燥。有些点说的还挺有趣的,以前没有想到过~算是获得新知的乐趣吧~最后一部分是惯例般的如何在现实生活中应用,对于企业和学校启发比较大~
让自己孤立着,比吸烟还要坏好多
我们对自己始终所知甚少
@2017-08-05 16:08:47
我是很不爱社交的,看这本书大概是为了自虐吧。平心而论,还是给我带来了很多新知,有了一些新角度看问题。虽然有些研究看了也撇嘴……