2012 Americo Paredes Book Award Winner for Non-Fiction presented by the Center for Mexican American Studies at South Texas College
Sele cted as a 2012 Outstanding Title by AAUP University Press Books for Public and Secondary School Libraries
This is Olivia’s story. Born in Los Angeles, she is taken to Mexico to live with her extended family until the age of three. Olivia then returns to L.A. to live with her mother, Carmen, the live-in maid to a wealthy family. Mother and daughter sleep in the maid’s room, just off the kitchen. Olivia is raised alongside the other children of the family. She goes to school with them, eats meals with them, and is taken shopping for clothes with them. She is like a member of the family. Except she is not. Based on over twenty years of research, noted scholar Mary Romero brings Olivia’s remarkable story to life. We watch as she grows up among the children of privilege, struggles through adolescence, declares her independence and eventually goes off to college and becomes a successful professional. Much of this extraordinary story is told in Olivia’s voice and we hear of both her triumphs and setbacks. We come to understand the painful realization of wanting to claim a Mexican heritage that is in many ways not her own and of her constant struggle to come to terms with the great contradictions in her life.
In The Maid’s Daughter, Mary Romero explores this complex story about belonging, identity, and resistance, illustrating Olivia’s challenge to establish her sense of identity, and the patterns of inclusion and exclusion in her life. Romero points to the hidden costs of paid domestic labor that are transferred to the families of private household workers and nannies, and shows how everyday routines are important in maintaining and assuring that various forms of privilege are passed on from one generation to another. Through Olivia’s story, Romero shows how mythologies of meritocracy, the land of opportunity, and the American dream remain firmly in place while simultaneously erasing injustices and the struggles of the working poor.
A happy ending for the maid's daughter: Hector Tobar's profile of Olivia for the LA Times
Editorial Reviews
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"For this sequel to her groundbreaking study on the social inequity of domestic work, Maid in the U.S.A., Romero spent two decades following Olivia, who was raised in between two worlds, living in an upscale Los Angeles house where her mother worked as a maid."-Ms. Magazine
"Why read it: This isn't The Help. Romero's nonfiction book relies on 20 years of research and is an anthropological study into identity politics and the myth of meritocracy."
-Diverse Magazine
"A moving work that deconstructs the American Dream at the fraught intersection of race, class and gender."-Kirkus
"While The Maid's Daughter: Living Inside and Outside the American Dream is an emotionally draining book at times - the reader is witness to the abusive treatment of others - it is well worth the depth of experience and knowledge one gains by reading it...Author Romero has successfully encapsulated the plight and struggles of domestic workers and given the reader a great deal to contemplate."-New York Journal of Books
"While there are numerous books examining the lives of domestic workers, in The Maid's Daughter has delved into less-studied questions...while it is often argued...that microsociological research can yield results with macrosociological implications, Romero shows this more convincingly than many."-Elizabeth J. Clifford,Ethnic and Racial Studies
"Readers who found the popular novel The Help annoyingly glib and superficial may find The Maid’s Daughter, an oral history and sociological study, astonishingly complex and often raw with emotion."
-Washington Independent
“A compelling story of how a maid's daughter moves from a girlhood of rage and resentment to a level of empowerment, as a grown woman, that will make readers want to stand up and cheer. Blending life history and cultural analysis, Mary Romero shows that it is possible to do creative ethnographic work that is of service to both the academy and society. Although the identity of Romero's protagonist must remain anonymous, her struggle will live on in this memorable book.”-Ruth Behar,author of Translated Woman
"Mary Romero's book The Maid's Daughter is a rich and detailed sociological account of the lives of a live-in maid and her daughter."-Jessica M. Vasquez,National Catholic Reporter
"[Romero] transforms twenty years of recorded interviews with a woman referred to as 'Olivia Sanchez' into a highly readable book which juxtaposes Olivia’s story, as told to Romero, with sociological commentary, research and selected interviews with other children of domestic workers. This thought provoking study raises many questions to wrestle with on both individual and societal levels… Open-minded readers may find their views transformed after reading this engaging narrative." -Englewood Review of Books
"This detailed, intimate investigation of domestic work from the perspective of a domestic worker's child is a significant achievement that reads like a more academic Random Family."
-Publishers Weekly
"There are no inherently good and evil characters in this story--just people trying to deal with the problems that come with having too much money, or not enough."
-Los Angeles Times
"Two decades of research culminate in the real-life story of a Mexican-American girl navigating issues of class, race, and identity in contemporary Los Angeles."
-Los Angeles Magazine
“The circumstances of ‘Olivia’s’ true story—growing up in the servants quarters of a gated luxury suburb—may evoke Upstairs, Downstairs meets Beverly Hills 90210, but the narrative is infinitely more profound and subversive. A unique, autobiographical collaboration between two brilliant women, The Maid’s Daughter relentlessly interrogates every facet of privilege and subalternity to achieve a psychological complexity and irony worthy of a great novel.”-Mike Davis,author of Planet of Slums
"In her new book, The Maid’s Daughter, Romero is again the perfect scholar — respectful, curious, honest about her own orientation. She’s a listener, allowing the women she talks with to guide the way in which their stories are revealed... It’s very moving work; thoughtful, sensitive, the best possible use of scholarship to open our eyes."-Los Angeles Review of Books
"A valuable case study and a dramatic life story, this oral history explores identity and illuminates race, class, and gender in America at a peculiarly intimate intersection between upper-middle-class white families and the women of color who provide domestic labor for them." -Library Journal
“A page-turner. The book's remarkable protagonist tells a compelling story...with each episode, the reader cannot wait for the next. How will she negotiate high school, dating, college campus politics? Mary Romero's more than two decades of research have produced a book worth waiting for.”-Renato Rosaldo,co-editor of The Anthropology of Globalization: Cultural Anthropology Enters the 21st Century
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About the Author
Mary Romero is Professor of Justice Studies at Arizona University. She is the author or editor of many books, including Maid in the U.S.A. In 2012, she was awarded the Julian Samora Distinguished Career Award by the Latino/Latina Sociology Section of the American Sociological Association.
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天哪,这本书简直就是一股清流!我最近读过太多充斥着快餐式情节和符号化人物的小说了,《The Maid's Daughter》的出现,让我重新找回了阅读的纯粹乐趣。作者的文笔就像陈年的美酒,醇厚而富有韵味,每一句话都仿佛经过了精心的打磨,字字珠玑,却又不显堆砌。我沉迷于书中营造的氛围,那种古老而宁静的感觉,仿佛能洗涤掉心灵的尘埃。那些描绘的场景,无论是简陋的住所,还是繁华的市集,都被刻画得栩栩如生,让人仿佛置身其中,能够感受到扑面而来的生活气息。我特别喜欢作者对女性角色的塑造,她们不是完美的女神,也不是柔弱的牺牲品,而是有血有肉,有优点有缺点,有着自己独立的思想和情感的个体。她们的挣扎、她们的坚持、她们的爱与恨,都显得那么真实,那么动人。这本书也让我对“阶级”和“偏见”有了更深的理解。作者通过细腻的笔触,揭示了社会结构中隐藏的壁垒,以及这些壁垒是如何影响着人们的生活和命运。然而,她并没有一味地抱怨和批判,而是展现了人物在这些限制下,如何努力地去超越,去寻找属于自己的尊严和价值。我常常会为书中角色的遭遇而揪心,为她们的坚强而感动,为她们的智慧而赞叹。这本书的叙事节奏很舒缓,但却丝毫不枯燥,反而有一种引人入胜的力量,让你忍不住想一直读下去,去探寻故事的最终走向。它就像一位老朋友,在静谧的午后,与你娓娓道来一段深刻而感人的故事。
评分我不得不承认,《The Maid's Daughter》这本书,以一种非常低调的方式,抓住了我的全部注意力。起初,我只是被它朴实的标题所吸引,没有想到它会带来如此丰富的阅读体验。作者的文字功底,远超我的想象。她对细节的描绘,简直是教科书级别的。无论是对生活场景的还原,还是对人物微表情的捕捉,都达到了令人叹为观止的程度。你仿佛能亲身感受到那个时代的氛围,闻到飘荡在空气中的各种气味,听到细微的环境声响。我尤其欣赏作者对人物内心世界的探索。她并没有简单地勾勒人物的外在行为,而是深入到角色的内心深处,去描绘她们的喜怒哀乐,她们的挣扎与成长。这种细腻的描写,让我对角色产生了强烈的认同感,我能够理解她们的困境,感受她们的痛苦,也为她们的点滴进步而由衷地感到高兴。书中没有脸谱化的角色,每个人物都充满了复杂性,她们有自己的优点,也有自己的缺点,这种真实的人物塑造,让故事更加引人入胜。它也让我对“身份”和“偏见”有了更深刻的理解。作者并没有强行说教,而是通过角色的经历,展现了社会结构中隐藏的壁垒,以及这些壁垒是如何影响着人们的生活。这本书的叙事节奏非常稳健,不会让你感到仓促,但又充满了张力,让你忍不住想一口气读完。它是一本能够让你安静下来,去思考,去感受,并且在阅读结束后,依然能在脑海中回响的书。
评分我一开始被《The Maid's Daughter》吸引,纯粹是因为书名带给我的一种莫名的好奇。虽然标题听起来并不惊艳,但总有一种低语在召唤着我去探寻。阅读过程中,我发现这种召唤并非虚妄,而是源自作者那如诗如画般的文字。她笔下的世界,不仅仅是情节的堆砌,更是一种氛围的营造,一种情感的渗透。每一个场景,无论多么寻常,都带着一种独特的质感,让你仿佛能触摸到那个时代的温度,感受到角色的呼吸。我最欣赏作者对人物心理活动的精妙捕捉。她不会直接告诉你人物在想什么,而是通过细致入微的描写,让你自己去体会,去揣摩。那些潜藏在心底的渴望、那些被压抑的情感、那些难以启齿的秘密,都在她的笔下悄然浮现,令人动容。书中的角色,都不是完美的,她们有缺点,有遗憾,但正是这些不完美,让她们变得如此真实,如此可爱。我为她们的遭遇而感到心痛,为她们的成长而感到欣慰,也为她们的坚持而感到敬佩。这本书给我带来的,不仅仅是故事的乐趣,更是一种对人性的深刻洞察。它让我重新审视了“身份”的含义,以及它如何在我们的生活中留下深刻的印记。作者并没有强行灌输某种观点,而是让故事自己去讲述,去引发读者的思考。它就像一位循循善诱的智者,在静默中,为你点亮人生的迷津。
评分当我在书架上看到《The Maid's Daughter》时,我其实并没有立刻被它吸引。标题在我看来,略显普通,我担心这又是一本落入俗套的故事。但命运就是如此奇妙,当我翻开它的时候,我发现自己已经被深深地卷入了一个完全意想不到的世界。作者的文笔,就像一条缓缓流淌的河流,平静却蕴含着巨大的力量。她对细节的把握,简直令人惊叹。那些看似微不足道的描写,比如窗外的鸟鸣,微风吹过树叶的沙沙声,甚至是仆人指尖的茧,都构成了这个故事独特的肌理,让整个世界变得鲜活而真实。我特别喜欢她对人物内心世界的刻画。她并没有急于让人物做出什么惊天动地的事情,而是花了大量的篇幅去描绘角色的情绪变化,她们的纠结,她们的挣扎,她们内心的矛盾。这种细腻的描绘,让我对角色产生了强烈的共鸣,我能感受到她们的痛苦,也能感受到她们的希望。书中没有绝对的英雄或反派,每个人物都有自己的复杂性和多面性,这种写实的手法,让故事更加引人入胜。它也让我对“阶级”和“命运”这两个概念有了更深的理解。作者并没有直接批判,而是通过角色的经历,让我们看到这些因素是如何潜移默化地影响着人们的生活。我常常会被书中某些对话所打动,它们简短却充满力量,蕴含着深刻的人生哲理。它是一本能够让你安静下来,去思考,去感受的书。
评分拿到《The Maid's Daughter》的那一刻,我其实并没有期待它能带来什么颠覆性的阅读体验。通常来说,这类标题的故事,内容也大抵逃不出某种固定的模式。但这本书,却像一股温柔的浪潮,悄然涌入了我的生活,并将我深深地打动。作者的文字功底可见一斑,她善于捕捉生活中的细微之处,并将这些细微之处放大,让它们变得鲜活而充满力量。我尤其喜欢她对人物心理活动的描绘,那种细致入微,层层递进的处理方式,让我仿佛能够钻进角色的内心世界,与她们一同感受喜怒哀乐。书中的人物并非完美无瑕,她们都有自己的缺点和挣扎,但正是这些不完美,让她们显得更加真实,更加 relatable。我为她们的遭遇而感到心疼,为她们的成长而感到欣慰,也为她们的坚持而感到敬佩。这本书所探讨的主题,虽然不是什么惊世骇俗的大议题,但却与我们的生活息息相关。关于身份的认同,关于阶级的固化,关于女性的命运,这些问题被作者以一种温和而深刻的方式展现出来,引发了我很多关于自身经历和周围世界的思考。我被书中那些充满智慧的对话所吸引,它们简短却有力,蕴含着深刻的人生哲理。我也会为那些充满温情的瞬间而感动,它们在阴郁的生活中,点亮了一盏盏希望的灯火。这本书的叙事节奏很稳健,不会让你感到仓促,也不会让你觉得拖沓,一切都恰到好处,仿佛是顺着时间的河流,慢慢地流淌。读完这本书,我内心充满了平静,也充满了一种前行的力量。
评分坦白说,我很少会主动去选择这类标题的书籍,总觉得有些“俗套”,但《The Maid's Daughter》彻底打破了我的刻板印象。它不是那种让你一眼望到底的平铺直叙,而是像一张精心绘制的地图,等你一步步去探索,去发现隐藏在角落里的惊喜。作者的笔触是如此老练,她对细节的运用简直到了炉火纯青的地步。那些不起眼的物件,一句随口的对话,甚至环境里一丝不易察觉的气息,都在她的笔下有了生命,构成了这个故事独特的质感。我沉浸在书中营造的氛围里,那种时代感,那种生活气息,那种人物的情感波动,都让我感到无比真实。我特别欣赏作者对角色内心世界的挖掘,那种细腻、那种层次感,让我对角色的情感变化感同身受。她们的痛苦、她们的挣扎、她们的希望,都深深地触动了我。书中没有绝对的好人或者坏人,每个人物都有着自己复杂的动机和立场,这种灰色地带的描绘,让故事更加引人入胜。我反复回味书中的某些段落,那些关于成长、关于选择、关于身份的思考,让我对自己以及周围的世界有了新的认识。这本书的节奏控制得非常好,它不像一些小说那样追求戏剧性的冲突,而是以一种沉静而有力的叙事方式,缓缓地推进故事。我感觉自己就像一个旁观者,又像是一个参与者,在感受着角色的命运,也在思考着人生的意义。它是一本值得反复阅读,并且每一次阅读都会有新发现的书。
评分说实话,在读《The Maid's Daughter》之前,我对这类“平凡人故事”并没有太大的热情,总觉得少了点波澜壮阔的戏剧性。但这本书,却以一种意想不到的方式,打动了我内心最柔软的地方。作者的文字,就像一位技艺精湛的画家,用最朴实的色彩,勾勒出最生动的人物和场景。我沉迷于她对细节的描绘,那些生活中的琐碎,那些微小的动作,都在她的笔下变得意义非凡。你仿佛能闻到厨房里飘出的饭菜香,听到远处传来的集市的喧闹,感受到角色们脸上的喜怒哀乐。我最喜欢作者对人物内心世界的挖掘。她并没有刻意去制造戏剧性的冲突,而是将人物的内心活动,那种微妙的情绪变化,描绘得细致入微。你看着角色在困境中挣扎,在迷茫中寻找方向,你会由衷地为她们的坚韧而感动。书中没有高高在上的神祇,也没有全然的恶棍,每个人物都带着自己的故事和挣扎,真实而鲜活。它让我思考了很多关于“身份”、“价值”以及“自我实现”的问题。作者并没有提供标准答案,而是通过故事本身,引导读者去思考,去寻找自己的答案。这本书的节奏非常舒缓,但却有一种引人入胜的力量,让你舍不得放下。它不像那些快餐小说,看完就忘,而是会在你的心中留下深深的印记,让你回味无穷。
评分老实说,我拿到《The Maid's Daughter》的时候,并没有抱太高的期望。标题听起来有点……嗯,怎么说呢,有点“年代感”,我以为会是一个很传统的、模式化的故事。然而,它完全超出了我的预料!这本书就像一位技艺精湛的手工艺人,用最朴素的材料,雕琢出了最令人惊叹的艺术品。作者的文字功力深厚,她描绘场景的时候,你仿佛能闻到空气中的味道,听到细微的声音,感受到那个时代的脉搏。我特别喜欢她对人物内心世界的细致刻画,那些纠结、那些暗流涌动的情感,都被她写得淋漓尽致,让我忍不住一次次地停下来,去思考人物的动机,去感受她们的无奈与渴望。书中没有脸谱化的角色,每一个人物都活灵活现,有着自己的故事和挣扎。我为她们的命运感到揪心,为她们的坚韧而动容,也为她们的智慧而赞叹。这本书并不是那种情节跌宕起伏,让你心跳加速的小说,它更像是一曲悠扬的旋律,让你在平静中感受到深刻的情感共鸣。它让我思考了很多关于“出身”和“命运”的议题,以及个体在社会结构中的位置和选择。作者并没有给出一个简单的答案,而是通过故事本身,引发读者去思考,去探索。我尤其欣赏书中那些充满力量的女性角色,她们在逆境中不屈不挠,用自己的方式去定义自己的人生。这本书读完后,我感到内心充实,也受到了一种潜移默化的鼓舞。
评分啊,拿到这本《The Maid's Daughter》的时候,我其实并没有抱太高的期待。你知道的,书名听起来总是有点老套,有点陈词滥调,仿佛是那种一眼就能看到结局的故事。然而,我错了,大错特错!这本书就像一本精心雕琢的古董,越是细细品味,越能发现其中蕴含的深邃与精致。作者的笔触是如此细腻,以至于我常常会被书中描绘的场景和人物的情感细节深深吸引,仿佛身临其境。那些看似微不足道的描写,比如仆人手中粗糙的布料摩擦的声音,窗外微弱的风声,甚至是空气中弥漫的淡淡香草味,都构成了这个故事独特而鲜活的氛围。我尤其喜欢作者对于人物内心世界的探索,那些纠结、挣扎、渴望与无奈,都被描绘得淋漓尽致,触动人心。我常常会停下来,反复咀嚼某一段文字,思考人物的动机,感受他们复杂的情绪。这本书不是那种快节奏、情节跌宕起伏的小说,它更像是一场漫长的、引人入胜的对话,让你沉浸其中,慢慢地剥开层层帷幕,去理解人性的复杂与多面。它让我重新审视了“身份”这个概念,以及它如何在我们生活的方方面面留下深刻的印记。这本书的叙事方式也极具匠心,它不会直接告诉你一切,而是留白,让你去猜测,去联想,去填补那些未曾明说的空白。这使得阅读的过程充满了惊喜和发现,每一次重读都会有新的感悟。我还会时不时地回想起书中的某个场景,某个对话,它们似乎已经在我脑海中生根发芽,成为我生活中一部分的风景。我强力推荐给那些喜欢深度阅读,渴望被故事触动,并乐于思考的读者。
评分这本书给我带来的震撼,绝对是意料之外的。我通常是那种喜欢被宏大叙事、跌宕起伏的情节所吸引的读者,但《The Maid's Daughter》却以一种近乎温柔的方式,悄无声息地征服了我。它没有惊心动魄的冒险,没有曲折离奇的阴谋,有的只是对生活最真实的描摹,对人性最深刻的洞察。作者对细节的把握堪称完美,那些看似不起眼的物件、人物的微表情、环境的细微变化,都在作者的笔下焕发出生命力,构成了一个完整而富有层次的世界。我尤其欣赏作者对于人物成长的刻画,那种循序渐进,不疾不徐,却又无比坚定的力量,让我感同身受。你会看到角色在经历挫折、痛苦、迷茫之后,是如何一步步地找到自我,并最终绽放出属于自己的光芒。这种成长不是一蹴而就的,而是经历漫长岁月沉淀后的蜕变,充满了力量和希望。这本书让我思考了很多关于“选择”和“命运”的问题。在看似有限的条件下,角色们是如何做出自己的选择,这些选择又如何一步步地塑造了他们的命运。它并没有给出一个明确的答案,而是引导你去思考,去探索,去寻找属于你自己的答案。我常常被书中某些人物的坚韧所打动,她们在逆境中不屈不挠,用自己的方式去争取更好的生活,去守护自己珍视的一切。这本书读完后,我久久不能平静,脑海中不断回荡着书中的画面和人物的对话,仿佛经历了一场心灵的洗礼。我强烈建议那些对人生有思考,对人性有探索,喜欢安静而有力量的故事的读者,不要错过这本书。
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评分要不是系主任的课我绝对不会从头到尾认真读完的...我觉得这本书应该该叫“论德彪或绿茶婊的心路历程”但后面还是很感人的。
评分要不是系主任的课我绝对不会从头到尾认真读完的...我觉得这本书应该该叫“论德彪或绿茶婊的心路历程”但后面还是很感人的。
评分要不是系主任的课我绝对不会从头到尾认真读完的...我觉得这本书应该该叫“论德彪或绿茶婊的心路历程”但后面还是很感人的。
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