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发表于2024-06-12
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The secret behind France's astonishingly well-behaved children.
When American journalist Pamela Druckerman has a baby in Paris, she doesn't aspire to become a "French parent." French parenting isn't a known thing, like French fashion or French cheese. Even French parents themselves insist they aren't doing anything special.
Yet, the French children Druckerman knows sleep through the night at two or three months old while those of her American friends take a year or more. French kids eat well-rounded meals that are more likely to include braised leeks than chicken nuggets. And while her American friends spend their visits resolving spats between their kids, her French friends sip coffee while the kids play.
Motherhood itself is a whole different experience in France. There's no role model, as there is in America, for the harried new mom with no life of her own. French mothers assume that even good parents aren't at the constant service of their children and that there's no need to feel guilty about this. They have an easy, calm authority with their kids that Druckerman can only envy.
Of course, French parenting wouldn't be worth talking about if it produced robotic, joyless children. In fact, French kids are just as boisterous, curious, and creative as Americans. They're just far better behaved and more in command of themselves. While some American toddlers are getting Mandarin tutors and preliteracy training, French kids are- by design-toddling around and discovering the world at their own pace.
With a notebook stashed in her diaper bag, Druckerman-a former reporter for The Wall Street Journal-sets out to learn the secrets to raising a society of good little sleepers, gourmet eaters, and reasonably relaxed parents. She discovers that French parents are extremely strict about some things and strikingly permissive about others. And she realizes that to be a different kind of parent, you don't just need a different parenting philosophy. You need a very different view of what a child actually is.
While finding her own firm non, Druckerman discovers that children-including her own-are capable of feats she'd never imagined.
Pamela Druckerman is a former staff reporter for The Wall Street Journal, where she covered foreign affairs. She has also written for The New York Times, The Washington Post, and Marie Claire, and appeared on The Today Show and NPR's Morning Edition. Her previous book, Lust in Translation, was translated into eight languages. She has a master's degree in international affairs from Columbia. She lives in Paris.
與其說是“育兒”書,不如把它看做跨文化研究的課外閱讀,那會有趣輕鬆得多。而且完全可能由此深究齣一篇比較文化論文!P.S.作者文筆一般,有點小失望,考慮到她記者的齣身。
評分一邊看一邊猛然發現,原來現在華人圈那麼多奇奇怪怪的帶娃論都是受瞭美國的影響,什麼必須多陪伴啦之類的,可是現在的小孩大部分在傢裡都受到過多的重視瞭,要到幾歲纔能發現這個世界並不像傢裡那樣每個人都圍著自己團團轉的呢?讓我最深刻的是書中提到小孩的慾望不需要馬上滿足,其實是讓他們盡早學會耐心地等待以及如何麵對挫摺。
評分limits & self control
評分比起育兒書,更覺得自己是在第一部小說或者文化散文作品,很有以前讀Peter Mayle的A Year in Provence的感覺;書後附食譜這點我很喜歡啊打算啥時候嘗試一下gateau au yauort這種幼兒也能做的蛋糕... 另外,按照作者說法,美國孩子其實也是小皇帝小公主,中國爸爸媽媽彆再老說美帝教育好瞭哈哈
評分現階段(孕後期)讀這個非常閤適,因為這是十分緩解焦慮的一本育兒書。
1.新生儿夜哭:不要马上跑过去抱或喂奶。暂停和等待一下,观察他是否真的醒来,过几分钟如果能自行入睡就不要吵他。孩子能做到第一次自己入睡那么以后更容易再次自己入睡。如果哭闹变的坚决再抱。 2.给予一定的界限,让孩子在此框架内自由选择想玩的方式和东西。 3.加入辅食时...
評分 評分无意间在新华书店翻到的书,当时正为孩子的睡眠问题而头痛。翻了几页觉得里面的提纲写得还不错。买回来后阅读完,觉得文章有些太罗嗦,太多作者本人的心里想法和描述。 里面有些观点我是无法接受的,比如孩子都能2-3个月就能睡整觉,我觉得这个诊断有些太粗糙。每个孩子都不一...
評分书一开始就吸引我的注意力了 为何法国妈妈更胜一筹呢 为什么法国的小孩可以安静地等待食物的到来?为什么法国的小孩可以在婴儿前个4月睡整觉呢?。。。。 带着种种的疑问,我认真翻阅《法国妈妈育儿经》 ------------------------------------------------------------...
Bringing Up Bebe pdf epub mobi txt 電子書 下載 2024