圖書標籤: 心理學 兩性關係 情感 英文原版 關係 親密關係 attached Relationship
发表于2024-11-25
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We rely on science to tell us everything from what to eat to when and how long to exercise, but what about relationships? Is there a scientific explanation for why some people seem to navigate relationships effortlessly, while others struggle? According to psychiatrist and neuroscientist Dr. Amir Levine and Rachel Heller, the answer is a resounding "yes." In "Attached," Levine and Heller reveal how an understanding of adult attachment-the most advanced relationship science in existence today-can help us find and sustain love. Pioneered by psychologist John Bowlby in the 1950s, the field of attachment posits that each of us behaves in relationships in one of three distinct ways:
*Anxious people are often preoccupied with their relationships and tend to worry about their partner's ability to love them back
*Avoidant people equate intimacy with a loss of independence and constantly try to minimize closeness.
*Secure people feel comfortable with intimacy and are usually warm and loving. In this book Levine and Heller guide readers in determining what attachment style they and their mate (or potential mate) follow, offering a road map for building stronger, more fulfilling connections with the people they love.
Amir Levine, M.D. is an adult, child, and adolescent psychiatrist and neuroscientist. He graduated from the residency program at New York Presbyterian Hospital/Columbia University and for the past few years Amir has been conducting neuroscience research at Columbia under the mentorship of Nobel Prize Laureate Eric Kandel. Amir also has a passion for working with patients and it is in this context, while working with mothers and children in a therapeutic nursery, that he first discovered the power of attachment theory. His clinical work together with his deep understanding of the brain from a neuroscientist's perspective contribute to his appreciation of attachment theory and its remarkable effectiveness in helping to heal patients. Amir lives in New York City. Rachel Heller, M.A. studied at Columbia University with some of the most prominent scholars in the field of social psychology. She now works with families and couples as a psychologist in private practice. Rachel lives in Israel.
不同意作者的分類。焦慮型和迴避型在同一個人身上是可以切換的,關鍵就看你多在乎對方瞭。
評分一本每次拿齣來讀派大星就很緊張的書。。。
評分讓我認識瞭我自己 但是並沒有明白他
評分讓我認識瞭我自己 但是並沒有明白他
評分心理類書籍一大作用便是幫助人們瞭解自己瞭解他人,很多時候問題都在於並不理解對方的行為、齣發點、心理過程,多一份理解或許就是多一份包容的可能,倒也並不一定就是為瞭解決問題。況且很多時候問題其實就隻是:你不理解我我不理解你,不是我不想理解你而是我不知道怎麼用我自己的方式角度來理解你。
“他不秒回信息,我就感觉被抛弃了。” ”我越黏他,他就跑得越远。” “他总是对我忽冷忽热,若即若离。” ”我总担心分手后,就再也没有人会爱上我。” 在日常生活中,我们都听身边的人说过类似的话,自己可能也遇过类似的问题。爱情就是这样,让人迷恋又让人迷惑。他到底怎...
評分 評分 評分我是典型的焦虑型,可笑的是我不断地遇见回避型的恋人。我一直以为我是不正常的,于是找来各种各样的心理书籍甚至寻求宗教信仰,以求安抚我那破碎的心,使之归于平静。而此书轻易的将所有的问题解决。若能够在年轻时遇见它,我的人生也许会重写吧。 恋爱就是要亲密,而不是彼...
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