We rely on science to tell us everything from what to eat to when and how long to exercise, but what about relationships? Is there a scientific explanation for why some people seem to navigate relationships effortlessly, while others struggle? According to psychiatrist and neuroscientist Dr. Amir Levine and Rachel Heller, the answer is a resounding "yes." In "Attached," Levine and Heller reveal how an understanding of adult attachment-the most advanced relationship science in existence today-can help us find and sustain love. Pioneered by psychologist John Bowlby in the 1950s, the field of attachment posits that each of us behaves in relationships in one of three distinct ways:
*Anxious people are often preoccupied with their relationships and tend to worry about their partner's ability to love them back
*Avoidant people equate intimacy with a loss of independence and constantly try to minimize closeness.
*Secure people feel comfortable with intimacy and are usually warm and loving. In this book Levine and Heller guide readers in determining what attachment style they and their mate (or potential mate) follow, offering a road map for building stronger, more fulfilling connections with the people they love.
Amir Levine, M.D. is an adult, child, and adolescent psychiatrist and neuroscientist. He graduated from the residency program at New York Presbyterian Hospital/Columbia University and for the past few years Amir has been conducting neuroscience research at Columbia under the mentorship of Nobel Prize Laureate Eric Kandel. Amir also has a passion for working with patients and it is in this context, while working with mothers and children in a therapeutic nursery, that he first discovered the power of attachment theory. His clinical work together with his deep understanding of the brain from a neuroscientist's perspective contribute to his appreciation of attachment theory and its remarkable effectiveness in helping to heal patients. Amir lives in New York City. Rachel Heller, M.A. studied at Columbia University with some of the most prominent scholars in the field of social psychology. She now works with families and couples as a psychologist in private practice. Rachel lives in Israel.
爱是感觉。 爱是荷尔蒙,你吸引我,我吸引他。 爱无理性可言,一切仿佛是命,或者债。 作为一个紊乱型(回避+焦虑)人格,对于爱情的体会总是纷纷乱乱,毫无逻辑,既焦虑又回避,读完本书,顿时醍醐灌顶。 Part 1 依恋类型 恋爱依恋类型,不是套路,是从心理学...
不同意作者的分类。焦虑型和回避型在同一个人身上是可以切换的,关键就看你多在乎对方了。
评分还不错,有所帮助,有所收获
评分不同意作者的分类。焦虑型和回避型在同一个人身上是可以切换的,关键就看你多在乎对方了。
评分心理类书籍一大作用便是帮助人们了解自己了解他人,很多时候问题都在于并不理解对方的行为、出发点、心理过程,多一份理解或许就是多一份包容的可能,倒也并不一定就是为了解决问题。况且很多时候问题其实就只是:你不理解我我不理解你,不是我不想理解你而是我不知道怎么用我自己的方式角度来理解你。
评分Audiobook下载:百度云网盘。"I'm an avoidant"
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