圖書標籤: 心理學 兩性 relationship 英文原版 性心理 心理 love desiration
发表于2025-02-25
Mating in Captivity pdf epub mobi txt 電子書 下載 2025
A New York City therapist examines the paradoxical relationship between domesticity and sexual desire and explains what it takes to bring lust home.
One of the world’s most respected voices on erotic intelligence, Esther Perel offers a bold, provocative new take on intimacy and sex. Mating in Captivity invites us to explore the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire, and explains what it takes to bring lust home.
Drawing on more than twenty years of experience as a couples therapist, Perel examines the complexities of sustaining desire. Through case studies and lively discussion, Perel demonstrates how more exciting, playful, and even poetic sex is possible in long-term relationships. Wise, witty, and as revelatory as it is straightforward, Mating in Captivity is a sensational book that will transform the way you live and love.
'Hello, I'm Esther... I imagine a world where we experience a sense of aliveness and vitality in our relationships, because the quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives. I've dedicated my life and career to understanding and improving human relationships. Let's continue to learn together.'
Psychotherapist Esther Perel is recognised as one of the most insightful and original voices on modern love. She has changed the conversation on what it means to be in love and have a fulfilling sex life.. For the past ten years, she has worked with hundreds of couples who have grappled with infidelity. Betrayal hurts, she argues, but healing is possible. An affair can even be the doorway to a new marriage - with the same person. With the right approach, couples can learn from these tumultuous experiences, together or apart. Weaving real-life stories with incisive psychological and cultural analysis, Perel invites readers into a truly revealing exploration of modern marriage. She coaches, consults and speaks regularly on erotic intelligence, trauma, sexual honesty and conflict resolution. She is the bestselling author of Mating in Captivity and her TED Talk has reached 6.5 million views online.
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評分聽完瞭。有點敏感和爭議,但這是一本能拯救許多婚姻的書...信我的話就去聽/讀一下。理解當代兩性關係的兩大核心-欲望和穩定關係,如何解開兩者的本質矛盾?Esther Perel本身的多文化視角和女性視角說齣瞭很多人有感受沒能錶達齣的感受。寫作的用詞相當精確,十分睿智和讓人佩服的女性。
評分Key points: 1. Recognize your partner's agency/sovereignty. This is the most important point. You do not own them. 2. Your attachment style to the main care giver (usually the mom) profoundly determines your way of interaction with your significant other. 3. It is okay to have "perverted" sexual fantasies. Just know that they're merely fantasies.
評分Key points: 1. Recognize your partner's agency/sovereignty. This is the most important point. You do not own them. 2. Your attachment style to the main care giver (usually the mom) profoundly determines your way of interaction with your significant other. 3. It is okay to have "perverted" sexual fantasies. Just know that they're merely fantasies.
朋友圈看到这样一句话: 很多人,为了8小时的工作,愿意钻研10000小时; 却从没想过,为一辈子的婚姻,学习15分钟。 好的婚姻,需要两人共同努力。 真挚永恒的亲密关系,只属于成熟睿智、懂得平衡艺术的头脑。 01.“背叛我,就杀你全家” 看到这样一则新闻: 胡某对妻子是一见...
評分朋友圈看到这样一句话: 很多人,为了8小时的工作,愿意钻研10000小时; 却从没想过,为一辈子的婚姻,学习15分钟。 好的婚姻,需要两人共同努力。 真挚永恒的亲密关系,只属于成熟睿智、懂得平衡艺术的头脑。 01.“背叛我,就杀你全家” 看到这样一则新闻: 胡某对妻子是一见...
評分 評分去年,我在某平台买了《李银河52堂性学课》。听完课心想着花了钱总得让它物超所值,于是兴高采烈在姐妹群里分享。没想到话题一扔进去,原本热闹非凡的群聊顿时鸦雀无声,别说调侃,连接茬的都没有。我只好放弃分享的欲望,假装路过。 第二个周末,我在线下带拆一本婚恋主题的书...
評分版权归作者所有,任何形式转载请联系作者。 作者:玛雅(来自豆瓣) 来源:https://www.douban.com/note/694550248/ When you love someone, how does it feel? When you desire someone, how is it different? 之前提过在任何关系里首先要改变的不是对方,而应该是自己的认知...
Mating in Captivity pdf epub mobi txt 電子書 下載 2025