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'Hello, I'm Esther... I imagine a world where we experience a sense of aliveness and vitality in our relationships, because the quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives. I've dedicated my life and career to understanding and improving human relationships. Let's continue to learn together.'
Psychotherapist Esther Perel is recognised as one of the most insightful and original voices on modern love. She has changed the conversation on what it means to be in love and have a fulfilling sex life.. For the past ten years, she has worked with hundreds of couples who have grappled with infidelity. Betrayal hurts, she argues, but healing is possible. An affair can even be the doorway to a new marriage - with the same person. With the right approach, couples can learn from these tumultuous experiences, together or apart. Weaving real-life stories with incisive psychological and cultural analysis, Perel invites readers into a truly revealing exploration of modern marriage. She coaches, consults and speaks regularly on erotic intelligence, trauma, sexual honesty and conflict resolution. She is the bestselling author of Mating in Captivity and her TED Talk has reached 6.5 million views online.
- 心理学
- 两性
- relationship
- 英文原版
- 性心理
- 心理
- love
- desiration
A New York City therapist examines the paradoxical relationship between domesticity and sexual desire and explains what it takes to bring lust home.
One of the world’s most respected voices on erotic intelligence, Esther Perel offers a bold, provocative new take on intimacy and sex. Mating in Captivity invites us to explore the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire, and explains what it takes to bring lust home.
Drawing on more than twenty years of experience as a couples therapist, Perel examines the complexities of sustaining desire. Through case studies and lively discussion, Perel demonstrates how more exciting, playful, and even poetic sex is possible in long-term relationships. Wise, witty, and as revelatory as it is straightforward, Mating in Captivity is a sensational book that will transform the way you live and love.
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有个段子是这样的： 假如情侣每做一次爱，就在罐子里放进一颗玻璃球，等到他们结婚后，每做一次就从罐子里取出一颗，你猜什么时候罐子会变空？ 答案是：一辈子都不会空。 2009年，性学专家潘绥铭教授曾调查中国人的婚内性生活，结果显示：每月连一次性生活都不到的夫妻为28.7%...
评分 评分这本书的封面很独特，也很温馨，当时拿到这本书的时候我很好奇为何不是一双男鞋，一双女鞋，而是一只男鞋，一只女鞋？并且还是拖鞋？读完这本书之后，现在想想觉得有道理。等到我们慢慢老去，两个人就是一双手、一双脚，相互搀扶，慢慢老去。而拖鞋代表的是在家的日子，也可以...
评分在英国《观察者》看来，《亲密陷阱》中佩瑞尔的观点与大众的普遍看法截然相反。听起来甚至是亵渎神明。然而就在你被他震惊的同时，你也会承认他是正确的。因为他的观点能让你产生深深的共鸣，他的直觉和准确相当惊人。 佩瑞尔在亲密关系中的观点的确会给人不少启发。 微缩版现...
评分这本书的封面很独特，也很温馨，当时拿到这本书的时候我很好奇为何不是一双男鞋，一双女鞋，而是一只男鞋，一只女鞋？并且还是拖鞋？读完这本书之后，现在想想觉得有道理。等到我们慢慢老去，两个人就是一双手、一双脚，相互搀扶，慢慢老去。而拖鞋代表的是在家的日子，也可以...
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Key points: 1. Recognize your partner's agency/sovereignty. This is the most important point. You do not own them. 2. Your attachment style to the main care giver (usually the mom) profoundly determines your way of interaction with your significant other. 3. It is okay to have "perverted" sexual fantasies. Just know that they're merely fantasies.
评分Very useful book for relationship! Highly recommended!
评分一口气听完这本书有点吃不消，感觉还是一集一集地听她的podcast感觉节奏比较舒服一点。感觉还是应该捧着书本好好阅读，才能消化。爱和性绝对是两码事，男生对此的理解和女生对此的理解南辕北辙。
评分对自由与创新的追求，和对稳定安全的依赖，是两个原动力。试图通过找到'The One'来一劳永逸地解决问题，是一种幼稚的幻想。自半年前知道Esther Perel以来，慢慢变成了她的粉丝。
评分对podcast和audiobook一直接受无能, 继Esther Perel的Where should we begin解锁了第一个podcast，这本同样是她读的书解锁了第一本audiobook的成就(虽然也要1.75倍速)～ 其实对Esther在NICABM中的第一印象并没有多好，但podcast里的真实session真的很厉害，跟supervisors讨论了很多次，为什么可以这么一针见血/clients为什么情感表达能力都这么高/这辈子感觉都达不到这个高度了怎么办嗷嗷嗷（够。读完书之后感觉对她session里的principles更了解了一些，但定位感觉有点小尴尬。对practitioner来说有点浅，对普通人来说session的部分可能有些无聊，也不那么“实践”向。
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