'Hello, I'm Esther... I imagine a world where we experience a sense of aliveness and vitality in our relationships, because the quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives. I've dedicated my life and career to understanding and improving human relationships. Let's continue to learn together.'
Psychotherapist Esther Perel is recognised as one of the most insightful and original voices on modern love. She has changed the conversation on what it means to be in love and have a fulfilling sex life.. For the past ten years, she has worked with hundreds of couples who have grappled with infidelity. Betrayal hurts, she argues, but healing is possible. An affair can even be the doorway to a new marriage - with the same person. With the right approach, couples can learn from these tumultuous experiences, together or apart. Weaving real-life stories with incisive psychological and cultural analysis, Perel invites readers into a truly revealing exploration of modern marriage. She coaches, consults and speaks regularly on erotic intelligence, trauma, sexual honesty and conflict resolution. She is the bestselling author of Mating in Captivity and her TED Talk has reached 6.5 million views online.
A New York City therapist examines the paradoxical relationship between domesticity and sexual desire and explains what it takes to bring lust home.
One of the world’s most respected voices on erotic intelligence, Esther Perel offers a bold, provocative new take on intimacy and sex. Mating in Captivity invites us to explore the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire, and explains what it takes to bring lust home.
Drawing on more than twenty years of experience as a couples therapist, Perel examines the complexities of sustaining desire. Through case studies and lively discussion, Perel demonstrates how more exciting, playful, and even poetic sex is possible in long-term relationships. Wise, witty, and as revelatory as it is straightforward, Mating in Captivity is a sensational book that will transform the way you live and love.
有个段子是这样的: 假如情侣每做一次爱,就在罐子里放进一颗玻璃球,等到他们结婚后,每做一次就从罐子里取出一颗,你猜什么时候罐子会变空? 答案是:一辈子都不会空。 2009年,性学专家潘绥铭教授曾调查中国人的婚内性生活,结果显示:每月连一次性生活都不到的夫妻为28.7%...
评分 评分尽管身处现代社会,我们对“性”的态度似乎越来越开放了,但我们对明星等公众人物的“出轨”几乎仍是零容忍。每一次明星出轨风波都能妥妥地上热搜,掀起轩然大波和吃瓜大潮,引来骂声一片。 这一次也是这样,先是阿沁微博发出长文含泪控诉被男友刘阳“出轨”,然后是刘阳发文低...
评分在英国《观察者》看来,《亲密陷阱》中佩瑞尔的观点与大众的普遍看法截然相反。听起来甚至是亵渎神明。然而就在你被他震惊的同时,你也会承认他是正确的。因为他的观点能让你产生深深的共鸣,他的直觉和准确相当惊人。 佩瑞尔在亲密关系中的观点的确会给人不少启发。 微缩版现...
评分婚姻到底意味着什么,是收获甜蜜的梦乡,还是埋葬爱情的坟墓。一般前者都是在婚前的幻想,或是婚礼上的祝福。而后者多出于已婚人士或是恐婚一族。 “婚姻是一座围城,城外的人想进去,城里的人想出来。”钱锺书在《围城》里的话之所以成了评价婚姻的经典句子,是因为它引起了人...
应该是 Esther Perel 的第一本书,介绍了性对于关系的不同作用,不同的问题及对应的态度。书摘在此: https://readings.posthaven.com/mating-in-captivity-by-esther-perel
评分对podcast和audiobook一直接受无能, 继Esther Perel的Where should we begin解锁了第一个podcast,这本同样是她读的书解锁了第一本audiobook的成就(虽然也要1.75倍速)~ 其实对Esther在NICABM中的第一印象并没有多好,但podcast里的真实session真的很厉害,跟supervisors讨论了很多次,为什么可以这么一针见血/clients为什么情感表达能力都这么高/这辈子感觉都达不到这个高度了怎么办嗷嗷嗷(够。读完书之后感觉对她session里的principles更了解了一些,但定位感觉有点小尴尬。对practitioner来说有点浅,对普通人来说session的部分可能有些无聊,也不那么“实践”向。
评分作者不愧是最著名两性关系专家,太多精彩案例,是治疗亲密关系问题的心理医生,很好奇,如果她跟齐泽克对侃,谁能赢?这种写作有些像Oliver Sacks医生,不过,心理医生比神经医生更主观吧,没Sacks的书那么引人入胜。
评分太多的爱就没有性
评分棒棒棒!我的情感解惑bible啊~
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