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发表于2024-11-07
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A New York City therapist examines the paradoxical relationship between domesticity and sexual desire and explains what it takes to bring lust home.
One of the world’s most respected voices on erotic intelligence, Esther Perel offers a bold, provocative new take on intimacy and sex. Mating in Captivity invites us to explore the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire, and explains what it takes to bring lust home.
Drawing on more than twenty years of experience as a couples therapist, Perel examines the complexities of sustaining desire. Through case studies and lively discussion, Perel demonstrates how more exciting, playful, and even poetic sex is possible in long-term relationships. Wise, witty, and as revelatory as it is straightforward, Mating in Captivity is a sensational book that will transform the way you live and love.
'Hello, I'm Esther... I imagine a world where we experience a sense of aliveness and vitality in our relationships, because the quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives. I've dedicated my life and career to understanding and improving human relationships. Let's continue to learn together.'
Psychotherapist Esther Perel is recognised as one of the most insightful and original voices on modern love. She has changed the conversation on what it means to be in love and have a fulfilling sex life.. For the past ten years, she has worked with hundreds of couples who have grappled with infidelity. Betrayal hurts, she argues, but healing is possible. An affair can even be the doorway to a new marriage - with the same person. With the right approach, couples can learn from these tumultuous experiences, together or apart. Weaving real-life stories with incisive psychological and cultural analysis, Perel invites readers into a truly revealing exploration of modern marriage. She coaches, consults and speaks regularly on erotic intelligence, trauma, sexual honesty and conflict resolution. She is the bestselling author of Mating in Captivity and her TED Talk has reached 6.5 million views online.
一口气听完这本书有点吃不消,感觉还是一集一集地听她的podcast感觉节奏比较舒服一点。感觉还是应该捧着书本好好阅读,才能消化。爱和性绝对是两码事,男生对此的理解和女生对此的理解南辕北辙。
评分很好看
评分太多的爱就没有性
评分应该是 Esther Perel 的第一本书,介绍了性对于关系的不同作用,不同的问题及对应的态度。书摘在此: https://readings.posthaven.com/mating-in-captivity-by-esther-perel
评分笔力十足。非常深刻的insights
有个段子是这样的: 假如情侣每做一次爱,就在罐子里放进一颗玻璃球,等到他们结婚后,每做一次就从罐子里取出一颗,你猜什么时候罐子会变空? 答案是:一辈子都不会空。 2009年,性学专家潘绥铭教授曾调查中国人的婚内性生活,结果显示:每月连一次性生活都不到的夫妻为28.7%...
评分 评分朋友圈看到这样一句话: 很多人,为了8小时的工作,愿意钻研10000小时; 却从没想过,为一辈子的婚姻,学习15分钟。 好的婚姻,需要两人共同努力。 真挚永恒的亲密关系,只属于成熟睿智、懂得平衡艺术的头脑。 01.“背叛我,就杀你全家” 看到这样一则新闻: 胡某对妻子是一见...
评分写在前面:4月来北京,月底入职,10月出第一本书。我只是一名刚入行的新手编辑,本不该写这篇手记,因为既没有像众多前辈的经验总结,也没有跌宕起伏令人叫绝的做书故事,有的只是第一次在编辑的边缘疯狂试探、一点感悟、一腔孤勇。但好在年轻(不要打我),一切才刚刚开始。 ...
评分关于性的心理辅导《说对爱,表对情,爱情不灭灯》 西方和欧美都有专门进行婚恋咨询的心理咨询师,而且还可以细分成很多更专业的领域,比如恋爱指导、婚姻指导、性爱辅导等等,这本书的作者就是专门做性辅导的咨询师。 其实中国人的婚姻问题也并不少,但是却还没听说过...
Mating in Captivity pdf epub mobi txt 电子书 下载 2024