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Ask those who have achieved what they once thought of as their ultimate dream whether it's related to money, career, family, or relationships and they will most likely tell you that something is still missing. When it comes to success, happiness, and contentment, we surprisingly tend to find more exhilaration in chasing our goals than in attaining them. But what does this mean for those of us who strive for meaning in our lives? We can't just stop trying, can we? Is there any way to truly feel fulfilled? This book provides a down-to-earth process for finding peace and contentment within the real world...and redefines the meaning of success.
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Ask those who have achieved their ultimate dream—whether it's related to career, fortune, or fame—and they will most likely tell you that something is still missing. As Jeffrey Gitterman reveals, when it comes to success and happiness, we often find more exhilaration in pursuing our goals than in attaining them. So what does this mean for those of us who strive for fulfillment? We can't just stop trying, can we? Is there any way to truly feel fulfilled? Beyond Success presents simple principles to help us: • redirect our efforts toward what we want to express in the world, rather than what we want to get or how we want to feel • experience ongoing peace while still working toward our material goals • map a plan for the future which embraces a continually evolving life story • derive personal satisfaction through our affect on others This book provides a down-to-earth process for finding peace and contentment within the real world...all the while redefining the meaning of success.
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Whether you’re struggling to get by or well on your way to material wealth, sooner or later you’ll ask yourself: What does it all mean? It’s not that the quest for a comfortable life is misguided—there is certainly nothing wrong with working hard and reaping the rewards—but if we are going to put so much of our energy into such a journey, should we not also enjoy the ride? The countless stories of those who have achieved spectacular wealth and yet still find happiness elusive all come back to one common point: the notion that money and the things it buys are goals themselves, and therefore the journey’s end. It’s only when we begin to view money and possessions as facilitators and tools to use in pursuit of greater meaning that we really find fulfillment. In fact, writes Jeffrey Gitterman, human happiness is rarely the result of the attainment of any goal, but rather in the continuing pursuit of ever changing goals. We live not to get, but to do. Gitterman himself is a rags-to-riches story, and as such might inspire a certain amount of cynicism with his claim that money isn’t everything. But read his story—and the principles he has derived from his experiences—and you’ll see that happiness is not the result of material success, but rather it is an abstraction of the human mind, virtually impossible to define and even harder to achieve. So what does this mean? Should we simply stop trying? Certainly not. But we must rejoice in the quest itself and reap its rewards—material and spiritual, professional and emotional—as they come, and then resume the quest, wherever it may lead. Beyond Success can help you do just that by revealing how to: Connect to a Source. Find infinite energy within you, rather than from something “out there,” to help you spend your attention (and money) more wisely. Own Your Unique Expression. Identify what you want to express in the world, rather than what you want to get or how you think it will make you feel. Redirect Your Attention. Map a plan for your future which places as much emphasis on the road that is your life story as it does on the destinations that are specific goals. Expand Your Awareness. Find joy in giving your energy to others. Both financial and spiritual philanthropy bring a sense of meaning. Simply put, human beings are thrill seekers. We garner the most energy when we face the unexpected or the new, and we stagnate when we stand still for too long. Gitterman explains that only by continually reaching higher can we sustain our sense of purpose and, by extension, fulfillment. Beyond Success will help you find that source of unlimited inspiration and creativity, and channel it toward a definition of success that goes beyond everything you thought you ever wanted. Jeffrey L. Gitterman is a rarity: a corporate leader who successfully brings a spiritual message to the traditionally materialistic business community. He is one of ING Financial’s top advisors, whose GoBeyond seminars have been the highest-rated training program at the company for several years. Gitterman has been interviewed and featured in TV shows and magazines, including Money, CNN, and Fortune Small Business. He lives in Freehold, New Jersey.
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读完这本,我不得不说,这绝对不是那种你能在通勤路上听完就觉得“学到了”的书。它的文字密度非常高,需要你放慢节奏,甚至在某些段落需要反复咀嚼。这本书的叙事结构非常独特,它大量使用了历史典故和哲学思辨的片段,巧妙地将宏大的历史进程与个体的微小挣扎联系起来。比如,书中对古希腊悲剧中“宿命论”的探讨,被作者巧妙地转嫁到了现代人对职业规划的焦虑上,让人不禁拍案叫绝。我特别喜欢作者在处理复杂情绪时的那种克制和精准,他从不直接给你一个简单的答案,而是抛出一个又一个更深刻的问题,逼着你去直面自己内心的矛盾。比如关于“意义”的构建,他没有去定义一个普世的意义,而是展示了不同文化和时代的人们是如何在混沌中为自己凿出一条精神通道的。这本书的价值在于,它拓宽了你思考的维度,它让你意识到,你正在经历的一切,无论是高光时刻还是低谷徘徊,都是人类经验的延续。它不是给你一剂兴奋剂,而是一份长期的精神补给,让你在喧嚣的世界里,保留一份清醒的疏离感。
评分我很少给一本书打出如此高的评价,因为它有一种近乎“催眠”的魔力,让你在阅读时忘记了时间,忘记了手机的震动。这本书的语言风格变化多端,时而像严谨的学术论证,时而又像散文诗一样充满画面感。它巧妙地避开了所有陈词滥调,比如“走出舒适区”这类被用滥的口号。相反,它深入探讨了“舒适区”的心理构造,以及我们是如何有意识或无意识地维护着自己的精神茧房。最让我感到震撼的是关于“脆弱性”的章节,作者没有将脆弱视为一种需要被隐藏的弱点,而是把它提升到了一种必要的“接入点”,是与真实世界建立深度连接的唯一途径。这种观点与当下社会推崇的“无懈可击”的形象观形成了鲜明对比,让人感到一种久违的释放感。这本书并不提供捷径,它提供的是更深层的理解,它教会你如何与生活中的不确定性共处,而不是试图去消灭它们。读完后,我感觉自己对生活中的小摩擦和小挫折的容忍度提高了不少,因为我知道,那才是真实正在发生的地方。
评分这本书,坦白说,我一开始是带着点怀疑态度的。封面设计得很有冲击力,那种充满力量感的字体和深沉的色彩,让人很容易联想到那些励志演讲或者商业管理类的干货。但真正翻开后,我发现它更像是一场深入骨髓的自我对话,而不是那种给你一堆立竿见影“秘诀”的工具书。作者的笔触非常细腻,他没有用那种高高在上的姿态去评判读者的现状,反倒是像一个经验丰富的老友,带着你一起扒开那些层层叠叠的社会期望和自我设限。最让我印象深刻的是关于“停顿”的力量那一章,它颠覆了我对效率和进度的传统理解。我们总是被教导要向前冲,要马不停蹄地追逐下一个目标,但这本书却提出,真正的洞察往往孕育在那些被我们匆忙略过的间隙里。它不是教你如何更快地跑,而是让你思考,你为什么要跑,以及在跑的过程中,你是否错过了身边的风景。这种对“存在感”而非“达成感”的强调,让我重新审视了我过去几年为了追求所谓的“成功”而付出的代价,那种精神上的疲惫和内在的空虚感,这本书提供了一个非常温柔但也极其有力的出口。它更像是一张地图,指引你去探索内心的无人区,而不是一张通往已知终点的快速通行证。
评分这是一本需要用手去翻阅,而不是用眼睛快速扫过的书。它的排版和设计本身就体现了一种对慢节奏的尊重,大量留白和恰到好处的粗体强调,引导着读者的注意力。这本书的叙事节奏非常缓慢,就像一条蜿蜒曲折的山间小溪,你必须耐心等待才能看到它汇入江海的壮阔。它探讨的主题跨越了个人成长和集体潜意识,尤其是关于“遗产”和“传承”的那几章,给我带来了深刻的触动。作者不是在谈论物质财富的继承,而是在谈论我们无意中传递给下一代的思维定势和情感模式。书中引用了很多跨学科的案例,从神经科学到人类学,构建了一个非常扎实但又极富人文关怀的理论框架。它并没有直接告诉你该怎么做,而是通过揭示事物运作的底层逻辑,让你自己得出结论。这本书的价值不在于它能给你带来多少即时的“成就感”,而在于它能潜移默化地重塑你的世界观,让你看清那些在日常生活中隐藏极深的动力和阻力。每次合上它,我都有一种经历了一场精神洗礼的感觉,对未来虽然依然充满未知,但内心的锚点却似乎固定得更牢靠了。
评分说实话,我本来以为这是一本偏向企业家的读物,冲着那些关于组织行为和领导力的章节买的,但阅读体验远超出了我的预期。它的核心似乎并不在于如何建立一个帝国,而在于如何建立一个稳固的“自我”作为帝国的基石。作者在分析失败案例时,所使用的工具和视角非常独特,他很少聚焦于市场策略的失误,而是深入挖掘决策者在面临巨大压力时,其认知框架是如何扭曲的。这对我这样的普通职场人士来说,提供了极大的启发——我们常常把问题归咎于外部环境,这本书却把聚光灯打在了我们自身的“内部操作系统”上。书中有一部分专门讨论了“习惯的惰性”与“成长的惯性”之间的悖论,用了一个非常形象的比喻,我至今难忘:我们像是在驾驶一艘有着强大自动导航系统的船,但舵手却沉睡在船舱里,任由预设的航线带着我们驶向一个既定的港口,即使那个港口可能早就不再是我们真正想去的地方。这本书的魅力就在于,它让你想去检查一下自己的自动驾驶系统是否还在为你服务,而不是被你遗忘了。
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