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发表于2024-11-05
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"Such a confrontation is bold, unsettling and timely. (Vanasco) wanted to find out how a person who hurts others talks to himself about his actions. If we are ever going to reduce sexual violence, it’s a critically important question." ―Laurie Halse Anderson in TIME
"It’s hard to overstate the importance of this gorgeous, harrowing, heartbreaking book . . . Vanasco is whip-smart and tender, open and ruthless; she is the perfect guide through the minefield of her trauma, and ours." ―Carmen Maria Machado in Bustle
A Most Anticipated Book of Fall at Time, NYLON, Bustle, Pacific Standard, The Millions, Publishers Weekly, Chicago Tribune and more!
Jeannie Vanasco has had the same nightmare since she was a teenager. She startles awake, saying his name. It is always about him: one of her closest high school friends, a boy named Mark. A boy who raped her.
When her nightmares worsen, Jeannie decides―after fourteen years of silence―to reach out to Mark. He agrees to talk on the record and meet in person. "It's the least I can do," he says.
Jeannie details her friendship with Mark before and after the assault, asking the brave and urgent question: Is it possible for a good person to commit a terrible act? Jeannie interviews Mark, exploring how rape has impacted his life as well as her own. She examines the language surrounding sexual assault and pushes against its confines, contributing to and deepening the #MeToo discussion.
Exacting and courageous, Things We Didn't Talk About When I Was a Girl is part memoir, part true crime record, and part testament to the strength of female friendships―a recounting and reckoning that will inspire us to ask harder questions and interrogate our biases. Jeannie Vanasco examines and dismantles long-held myths of victimhood, discovering grace and power in this genre-bending investigation into the trauma of sexual violence.
Jeannie Vanasco is the author of The Glass Eye. Featured by Poets & Writers as one of the five best literary nonfiction debuts of 2017, The Glass Eye was also selected as a Barnes & Noble Discover Great New Writers Pick, an Indies Introduce Pick, and an Indie Next Pick. Her second book, Things We Didn't Talk About When I Was a Girl, will be published in the US and UK in October, 2019.
Her nonfiction has appeared in The Believer, The New York Times, the Times Literary Supplement, and NewYorker.com, and her essays have twice been named notable selections in Best American Essays. Her poetry has appeared in Little Star, Poet's Country, Prairie Schooner, and elsewhere, and her poetry honors include an Emerging Poets Fellowship from Poets House and an Amy Award from Poets & Writers.
She lives in Baltimore and is an assistant professor of English at Towson University. Her website is www.jeannievanasco.com.
It haunts me at times when just like the author, I was seeing Mark more as a 'friend' rather than a 'rapist'.
评分It haunts me at times when just like the author, I was seeing Mark more as a 'friend' rather than a 'rapist'.
评分A brave woman, a book worth reading. She confronted the rapist, who was also her good friend, fourteen years after the sexual assault as a way to deal with the trauma. They were good friends. That what made the author confused about the incident. You could feel her struggle, her pain, her doubts as well as her sense in her words.
评分A brave woman, a book worth reading. She confronted the rapist, who was also her good friend, fourteen years after the sexual assault as a way to deal with the trauma. They were good friends. That what made the author confused about the incident. You could feel her struggle, her pain, her doubts as well as her sense in her words.
评分A brave woman, a book worth reading. She confronted the rapist, who was also her good friend, fourteen years after the sexual assault as a way to deal with the trauma. They were good friends. That what made the author confused about the incident. You could feel her struggle, her pain, her doubts as well as her sense in her words.
The author Jeannie was raped by one of her closest male friends Mark at a house party when she was a teenager. They never again mentioned the night and gradually lost touch with each other. In this thought-provoking memoir, she confronts Mark after fourteen...
评分The author Jeannie was raped by one of her closest male friends Mark at a house party when she was a teenager. They never again mentioned the night and gradually lost touch with each other. In this thought-provoking memoir, she confronts Mark after fourteen...
评分The author Jeannie was raped by one of her closest male friends Mark at a house party when she was a teenager. They never again mentioned the night and gradually lost touch with each other. In this thought-provoking memoir, she confronts Mark after fourteen...
评分The author Jeannie was raped by one of her closest male friends Mark at a house party when she was a teenager. They never again mentioned the night and gradually lost touch with each other. In this thought-provoking memoir, she confronts Mark after fourteen...
评分The author Jeannie was raped by one of her closest male friends Mark at a house party when she was a teenager. They never again mentioned the night and gradually lost touch with each other. In this thought-provoking memoir, she confronts Mark after fourteen...
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