sted.<br >n eta].， (out<br >Mind， New<br >;/Richard L.<br >:， by Richard<br >ra As a Man<br >;ion to quote<br >Charles Fill-<br >ion to quote<br >and Ye Are<br >r permission<br >~ Covey. To<br >rison Doors，<br >om Magnifi-<br >PREFACE<br >By all means marry; if you get a good<br >wife you ll become happy; if you get a<br > t " r<br >bad one you 11 become a phdosophe .<br >SOCRATES<br >SOCRATES had a good point. The problems Of relation-<br >ships between men and women have puzzled us for a very<br >long time. I m sure all of us have either seen or heard of beau-<br >tiful relationships that continually grow and expand without<br >becoming stale or empty. On the other hand， we have all<br >seen marriages or relationships that seemed outwardly per-<br >fect， but suddenly fell apart without any apparent reason.<br >One man， well-known for his research into the mind， re-<br >marked that he and his wife had a very good relationship，<br >but he did not exactly know why. What is it that makes one<br >relationship or marriage succeed and another fail /<br > In talking to， and reading about， people who have good re-<br >lationships， I have found that most of them acknowledged<br > that something greater than themselves had brought them to-<br > gether. They felt that the success o~ their relationship was no~<br > clue to the use of certain techniques supposedly guaranteed to<br >V<br >，I<br ><br >