From Publishers Weekly Dubbed the "Queen of Mean," Robinson, host of the popular television game show The Weakest Link, is known as much for her icy demeanor, acerbic insults and severe appearance as for launching the ubiquitous, lilting catchphrase "good-bye." As Robinson lets down her seemingly impenetrable guard here, the only thing listeners may find familiar during the lengthy reading is her trademark clipped British accent and straightforward, flat delivery. She discusses her childhood with a fiercely independent, impatient mother she describes as "part monster, part magic" and a kind, passive father she's only come to fully appreciate after his death; then details the lessons and values of her upbringing that led to her ambitious nature and unrelenting desire for fame. In her 20s, she worked as a Fleet Street journalist, and in 1968 she married editor Charlie Wilson, but quickly realized she'd "misjudged a husband on a grand scale." Her recounting of their divorce and the ensuing custody battle over Robinson's only child results in long passages covering courtroom accusations of adultery, tales of her admitted alcoholism and the high emotional toll her loss of custody cost. But she lightens the tone when she speaks of breaking into radio and television, a successful second marriage and her eventual sobriety. It may be just hardcore fans who are willing to make the time commitment to this production they may also be the only ones who will be able to see Robinson in a sympathetic light. Simultaneous release with the Pocket Books hardcover. Copyright 2001 Cahners Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to the Audio Cassette edition. From Library Journal Known as the "rudest woman on TV," Robinson was imported from Britain along with her show, The Weakest Link, as the latest entry in outrageous programming for prime-time American viewers. Her acerbic remarks and cutting putdowns are part of the draw that brings people back to watch this red-haired harpy, dressed all in black, week after week. With an amazing degree of honesty, here Robinson recounts the formative events of her life, which included a gentle but passive father and a domineering and determined mother who dragged the family into the wake of her unrelenting ambition for wealth and social position. To the author's credit, her mother instilled this same ambition and craving for fame and success in her daughter, along with a need for alcohol. In her 20s, Robinson became a Fleet Street journalist; in 1968, she married Charlie Wilson, who worked for the same publication, but he was on the male fast track to becoming an editor. What followed was an abusive marriage, her drinking, and a resultant custody battle with no holds barred. Along the way, Robinson shares her view of the 1960s, the women's movement, and the royal family, including the phenomenon of Princess Diana. The excruciating detail, pontificating assessment of the British monarchy, and the downright monotony of destructive behavior in one person's life make for a torturous listening experience. Only diehard fans of Robinson will find this even mildly interesting. Not recommended for smaller public libraries and a marginal purchase, at best, for larger ones. Gloria Maxwell, Penn Valley Community Coll., Kansas City, MOCopyright 2002 Cahners Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to the Audio Cassette edition. See all Editorial Reviews
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我一直认为,阅读是一次与作者灵魂的对话,而这本书,无疑是我近期读过最深刻的一次对话。作者以一种近乎赤裸的方式,解剖了她作为母亲的内心世界。那些关于母爱的挣扎,关于个人身份的迷失,关于在育儿过程中与自己过去的和解,都写得无比真实。我被她笔下那些细致入微的观察所打动,比如在孩子熟睡时,内心涌起的复杂情感,或是因为一次失误而产生的深深自责。这本书挑战了我对“母亲”这个角色的固有认知,它让我明白,母爱并非只有一种模式,它也可以是充满挑战、充满困惑,甚至带有裂痕的。作者并没有试图扮演一个完美的角色,而是选择将自己最真实、最脆弱的一面展现出来,这种勇气反而带来了强大的力量。她让我们看到,在追求“成为一个好母亲”的过程中,也需要学会接纳自己的不完美,并从中找到继续前行的力量。
评分这本书,与其说是一本关于“不称职”的母亲的故事,不如说是一本关于“真实”的母亲的内心独白。我被作者的坦诚所震撼,她毫不回避地展现了自己作为母亲的挣扎、焦虑,甚至是一些“不被允许”的情绪。那些关于疲惫、关于自我怀疑、关于在育儿的重压下对个人价值的迷失,都写得入木三分。这本书让我开始反思,我们社会对于母亲的期望是否过于苛刻?是否过于简化了母爱的复杂性?作者并非在为自己的不足辩解,而是在用一种近乎自我疗愈的方式,试图理解和接纳那个不完美的自己。她通过分享自己的经历,传递了一种信息:即使不完美,也依然可以成为一个充满爱和责任的母亲。这种接纳和自我和解的力量,是这本书最打动我的地方。它不是提供一个完美的范本,而是鼓励我们拥抱自己的不完美,并在爱与责任的道路上,找到属于自己的节奏。
评分当我翻开这本书时,我以为我会读到一个关于失败的故事,一个被社会评判为“不称职”的母亲,如何在绝望中挣扎。然而,事实远非如此。这本书以一种惊人的勇气,触及了许多母亲内心深处最隐秘的角落。它不是在为“不称职”找借口,而是在深刻地探索“为什么”。为什么会有那些看似失误的瞬间?为什么会有那些难以启齿的疲惫?作者用一种近乎自曝的方式,展现了她在身份认同、个人成长与母亲角色之间摇摆的痛苦。那些关于自我怀疑、关于童年创伤对当下育儿模式的影响、关于在社会期望与内心真实需求之间的权衡,都写得入木三分。我尤其被书中关于“完美母亲”神话的解构所震撼,作者并没有试图将自己塑造成一个圣人,而是将自己最真实、最不完美的一面暴露出来,反而因此获得了更加强大的力量。这是一种破茧重生的感觉,不是通过达到某种标准,而是通过接纳自己的不完美,并从中寻找前进的勇气。这本书让我看到,真正的母爱,并非只有无私奉献和永不疲惫,它也可以是充满挣扎、反思,甚至带有伤痕的。
评分这本书的封面设计就足够吸引人了,那种略带忧郁又充满力量的笔触,让我第一时间就联想到了那些隐藏在平凡生活下的波澜壮阔。读这本书之前,我并没有对“不称职的母亲”这个概念有过特别深入的思考,更多的是一种社会赋予的、近乎神圣的光环。然而,这本书却以一种前所未有的视角,毫不避讳地撕开了那层虚假的完美,将一个母亲内心的挣扎、迷茫,甚至是一些普通人难以启齿的脆弱,如同剥洋葱般层层展现。我被她坦诚的叙述深深打动,那不是刻意煽情,也不是为了博取同情,而是一种近乎残酷的自我剖析。她笔下的育儿日常,充满了无数的“如果当初”、“我本可以”,那些细微的瞬间,比如一次没能耐心的回应,一次被工作压垮的疲惫,一次对孩子无声的愧疚,都如同潮水般涌来,让人感同身受。我常常在阅读时停下来,回想自己的过往,那些不完美的时刻,那些自以为做得很好的地方,原来也可能存在着被忽略的裂痕。这本书让我重新审视了“母亲”这个身份,它不再是一个标签,而是一个复杂、多维、充满挑战的角色。
评分说实话,读这本书之前,我内心深处其实是带着一丝审判的眼光。毕竟,“不称职”这个词,听起来就带着负面的含义。然而,随着阅读的深入,我发现自己对作者的看法发生了巨大的转变。她的坦诚就像一面镜子,照出了我自己内心的许多不安和困惑。书中描绘的许多场景,那些在育儿过程中遭遇的挫折,那些在家庭与事业之间艰难的平衡,那些因为自身原因而产生的对孩子的愧疚感,都让我产生强烈的共鸣。我开始意识到,所谓的“完美母亲”可能只是一个虚幻的理想,而现实中的母亲,大多都像她一样,在爱与责任的重压下,努力地寻找属于自己的平衡点。这本书并非宣扬放弃责任,而是鼓励我们正视自身的局限性,学会与自己的不完美和解。作者并没有给出一个简单的答案,但她提供了一种思考的角度,一种接纳自己、也接纳孩子不完美的能力。这种勇气和真实,是这本书最宝贵的地方。
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