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发表于2024-05-20
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An entertaining and inspiring account of conquering his fear of rejection, offering a completely new perspective on how to turn a no into a yes.
Jia Jiang came to the United States with the dream of being the next Bill Gates. But despite early success in the corporate world, his first attempt to pursue his entrepreneurial dream ended in rejection. Jia was crushed, and spiraled into a period of deep self doubt. But he realized that his fear of rejection was a bigger obstacle than any single rejection would ever be, and he needed to find a way to cope with being told no without letting it destroy him. Thus was born his "100 days of rejection" experiment, during which he willfully sought rejection on a daily basis--from requesting a lesson in sales from a car salesman (no) to asking a flight attendant if he could make an announcement on the loud speaker (yes) to his famous request to get Krispy Kreme doughnuts in the shape of Olympic rings (yes, with a viral video to prove it).
Jia learned that even the most preposterous wish may be granted if you ask in the right way, and shares the secret of successful asking, how to pick targets, and how to tell when an initial no can be converted into something positive. But more important, he learned techniques for steeling himself against rejection and ways to develop his own confidence--a plan that can't be derailed by a single setback. Filled with great stories and valuable insight, Rejection Proof is a fun and thoughtful examination of how to overcome fear and dare to live more boldly.
JIA JIANG is founder of the popular blog and video series 100 Days of Rejection. His story has been covered by dozens of news outlets, including Bloomberg Businessweek, Yahoo News, the Huffington Post, Forbes, Inc.com, MTV, Gawker, the Daily Mail, Fox News, and CBS's The Jeff Probst Show. A native of Beijing, China, Jiang came to the U.S. as a teenager to pursue his dream of becoming an entrepreneur. Jiang holds an MBA from Duke University and a bachelor's degree in computer science from Brigham Young University.
被拒絕所嘗試的點子是蠻有創意的,可是之後的反思很囉嗦,兩句話可以說完的寫成兩頁(所以去看他的ted talk就夠了,15min能get到精華了),其實總結起來就是多做&不要想太多。被拒絕一次那就真誠地多試幾次;同時你真的很難猜測別人拒絕的原因,所以也不要自己在那糾結瞎想,直接行動起來。另外把很多體驗經歷都強行歸入拒絕這點有些扯。
评分最有意思也最有启发的是作者讲述自己的经历,让我也跃跃欲试,导致有点兴奋反而无法很快入睡。后面摆名人例子、拔高上价值、以及帮助自己老婆找工作啥的,鸡汤味就有点重了。对于rejection的分析有理有据,提供的tips有很有帮助。
评分Before this book, I thought "rejection is a form of guidance." Jia's proven rejection is a piece of muscle. As an introvert, I broke a sweat on going through the journey of 100 days of rejection with Jia, it was an emotional read. One of the best books I've read this year.
评分Jiang's rejection journey is quite inspiring and interesting, but I like the last few chapters most, in which he helped his wife find a job in Google with what he learned from dealing with rejections. His wife is admirable as well. What a lovely couple haha~
评分找工作被拒时的鸡汤
老实说,在读这本书之前,我心里是有点奇怪的,因为在我心中住着一个世俗的中年人,她告诉我,拒绝就是行不通,你应该尝试其他的路,而不应该一再推销你的观点或者商品,我也曾经是个推销员,我也曾经是店里销售的冠军,我知道有些顾客可能是勉为其难买下我给她们...
评分平时总觉得自己是个很谨慎的人,事情总想要准备齐全才去做,但其实追根究底,还是因为害怕被拒绝、被否定,而变得有些畏手畏脚。 能看到这本书真的很幸运,作者从自己的亲身经历出发,进行了跌宕起伏、充满创意的尝试拒绝100天,又研究了相关心理、社会学等领域的著作...
评分你的梦想比你所受的拒绝更大吗?如果是,也许你就该继续,而不是放弃。 TED超人气演讲原创作品!刷新7,000,000人的“被拒”观! 24个应对拒绝的实战策略 拒绝只是一个观点,它反映的不是你的问题。 拒绝是有价码的,如果被拒绝者被拒绝的次数足够多了,“不”最终转化成“是” ...
评分老实说,在读这本书之前,我心里是有点奇怪的,因为在我心中住着一个世俗的中年人,她告诉我,拒绝就是行不通,你应该尝试其他的路,而不应该一再推销你的观点或者商品,我也曾经是个推销员,我也曾经是店里销售的冠军,我知道有些顾客可能是勉为其难买下我给她们...
评分老实说,在读这本书之前,我心里是有点奇怪的,因为在我心中住着一个世俗的中年人,她告诉我,拒绝就是行不通,你应该尝试其他的路,而不应该一再推销你的观点或者商品,我也曾经是个推销员,我也曾经是店里销售的冠军,我知道有些顾客可能是勉为其难买下我给她们...
Rejection Proof pdf epub mobi txt 电子书 下载 2024