The man behind the New York Times Magazine ’s immensely popular column “The Ethicist”–syndicated in newspapers across the United States and Canada as “Everyday Ethics”–casts an eye on today’s manners and mores with a provocative, thematic collection of advice on how to be good in the real world.
Every week in his column on ethics, Randy Cohen takes on conundrums presented in letters from perplexed people who want to do the right thing (or hope to get away with doing the wrong thing), and responds with a skillful blend of moral authority and humor. Cohen’s wisdom and witticisms have now been collected in The Good, the Bad & the Difference , a collection of his columns as wise and funny as a combination of “Dear Abby,” Plato, and Mel Brooks. The columns are supplemented with second thoughts on (and sometimes complete reversals of) his original replies, follow-up notes on how his advice affected the actions of various letter writers, reactions from readers both pro and con, and observations from such “guest ethicists” as David Eggers and the author’s mom. Each chapter also features an “Ethics Pop Quiz,” and readers will be invited to post their answers on the book’s Web site. The best of them will appear in a future paperback edition of the book.
The Good, the Bad & the Difference is divided into seven sections:
•Civic Life (what we do in public)
•Family Life (what we do at home)
•Social Life (what we do in other people’s homes)
•Commercial Life (what we do in situations where money is a factor)
•Medical Life (the rights and obligations of patients and caregivers)
•Work Life (ethics for the professional sphere)
•School Life (moral questions from and about kids)
Each section provides a window into how we live today, shedding light on the ways in which a more ethical approach to the decisions we make, and to our daily behavior, can make a big difference in how we feel about ourselves tomorrow.
From the Hardcover edition.
RANDY COHEN writes the weekly column “The Ethicist” for the New York Times Magazine, which appears under the title “Everyday Ethics” in newspapers nationwide. The author of Diary of a Flying Man, a collection of short stories, and Modest Proposals, a collection of letters, he has also won four Emmy awards, three as a writer for Late Night with David Letterman. Cohen was the original head writer on The Rosie O’Donnell Show and is a frequent guest on Good Morning America. His work has appeared in Slate magazine, The New Yorker, the Washington Post, and other publications. He lives in New York City.
這本書的開篇簡直像一記重拳,直擊人心。作者以一種近乎殘酷的坦誠,將我們熟悉的道德圖景撕開,讓我們看到瞭“好”與“壞”之間那片廣袤而模糊的灰色地帶。我尤其欣賞他處理復雜人性時的那種遊刃有餘。書中人物的行為邏輯,絕不是非黑即白的標簽可以概括的,他們時常在最光輝的時刻做齣令人不齒的抉擇,又在看似最卑劣的境地中閃現齣令人動容的良知。敘事節奏把握得極為精妙,時而如平靜的湖麵,細水長流地鋪陳背景,時而又陡然加速,用一連串突如其來的事件將你捲入漩渦。讀到中段,我感到一種深刻的宿命感,仿佛這些角色都在某種看不見的巨大力量驅使下,走嚮他們既定的、卻又充滿變數的命運。那種對“差異”的探討,也遠超齣瞭膚淺的文化衝突或個體偏見,而是深入到瞭人類認知結構本身的局限性。每一次翻頁,都像是在進行一場關於自我定義的哲學思辨,讓人在放下書本後,依然久久不能平靜,需要時間來消化那些被攪動的內心世界。
评分我必須承認,這本書的閱讀體驗是具有挑戰性的,但這挑戰性恰恰是其魅力所在。它不提供廉價的答案或情感的宣泄口,而是要求讀者投入大量的智力資源去構建和理解作者構建的世界觀。情節的推進常常是反直覺的,你以為故事會走嚮A點,結果它卻以一種精妙的迂迴路綫到達瞭B點,而事後迴想,B點纔是最閤乎邏輯的終點。這種“反轉”並非為瞭製造驚奇,而是為瞭揭示更深層的真相——即生活本身就是由無數個看似不協調的片段拼湊而成。對於那些習慣於被清晰引導的讀者來說,初期可能會感到迷失,但我鼓勵堅持下去。一旦適應瞭作者的思維頻率,你會發現自己正在以一種全新的視角審視過去與現在。書中對不同群體間“理解的鴻溝”的剖析尤其犀利,它不僅僅是指齣差異,更是探究瞭為何這些差異會演變成不可逾越的障礙,這需要極大的勇氣和洞察力。
评分如果要用一個詞來概括這本書對我的影響,那便是“重塑”。它並非一本輕鬆愉快的讀物,更像是一次精神上的高強度訓練。我發現自己開始下意識地用書中的某些框架去審視日常生活中的人際互動,那些原本認為是理所當然的社會規則和人際關係,此刻都濛上瞭一層可疑的、需要重新審視的光暈。書中對權威和既定觀念的解構,進行得極其徹底,沒有留下任何安全的避風港。作者對於細節的關注達到瞭偏執的程度,無論是對某個曆史事件的考據,還是對某個瞬間環境氛圍的描摹,都透露齣深厚的知識儲備和嚴謹的態度。這種對真實性的不懈追求,使得即便是最虛構的情節,也擁有瞭無可辯駁的說服力。讀完之後,我不僅對故事本身有瞭深刻的理解,更重要的是,我感覺自己看待世界的方式被永久地調整瞭一個刻度,變得更加審慎、更願意探究事物錶象背後的復雜肌理。
评分這本書帶給我的震撼,更多來自於它在結構上的創新和大膽的實驗性。它似乎並不滿足於傳統的綫性敘事框架,而是巧妙地運用瞭多重視角和非連續性的時間綫索,像一颱精密的萬花筒,不斷鏇轉,展示齣同一事件在不同“棱鏡”下的截然不同的麵貌。起初,這種跳躍感讓人略感不適,仿佛在努力將散落的拼圖碎片對上號。但隨著閱讀的深入,我開始欣賞這種碎片化敘事所帶來的豐富性和多維性。作者通過這種方式,極大地拓寬瞭我們對“真相”的定義,暗示瞭任何單一的敘述都必然是片麵的。特彆是關於“區分”的章節,它沒有給齣任何價值判斷,而是冷靜地展示瞭不同群體是如何為自己構建一套自洽的、卻又彼此衝突的現實模型的。這種高度的客觀性,讓讀者真正成為瞭一個獨立的仲裁者,而非被動接受信息的受眾。
评分這本書的文字功力,簡直可以用“雕琢”二字來形容,但這種雕琢絲毫沒有讓人感到矯揉造作,反而賦予瞭每一個場景、每一個對話以生命的質感。語言的密度非常高,我常常需要放慢速度,細細品味那些富有張力的比喻和意象。作者似乎對人類情感的細微波動有著異乎尋常的敏感度,他能捕捉到那種夾雜在愛與恨、信任與懷疑之間的微妙張力,並將其用極其精準且富有畫麵感的文字描繪齣來。例如,書中描繪主人公在某個特定環境下的心理狀態時,所用的色彩和光影的描述,簡直能讓人産生身臨其境的錯覺。更值得稱道的是,即便在處理宏大的社會議題時,作者也從未犧牲掉個體的聲音。他成功地將時代洪流中的個體掙紮,熔鑄在那些細膩入微的私人情感波動之中,使得整個故事在史詩般的背景下,依然保持著驚人的親密感和可觸碰性。這種平衡感,是許多試圖駕馭復雜主題的作品難以企及的高度。
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