Is it impossible to let go -- despite the pain? - Do you yearn for someone who is not physically or emotionally available to you?- Do you believe that if you love him enough he will have to love you?- When you feel insecure, does it drive you only to want her more?- Do you find yourself phoning repeatedly or waiting long hours for the phone to ring? Do you wish someone would let go of you? - Does an ex-lover or ex-spouse refuse to believe that it's over?- Do you receive unwanted phone calls, letters, presents, or visits?- Is this pursuit of you creating so much anxiety that it affects your physical or emotional well-being? In this invaluable self-help guide, Dr. Susan Forward presents vivid case histories as well as the real-life voices of men and women caught in the grip of obsessive passion. Whether you're an obsessive lover or the target of such an obsession, here is a proven, step-by-step program that shows you how to recognize the " connection compulsion, " what causes it, and how to break its hold on your life so that you can go on to build healthy, lasting, and pain-free relationships.

蘇珊·福沃德

國際知名的心理治療師、演說傢和作傢，她的著作有《原生傢庭：如何修補自己的性格缺陷》《依戀：為什麼我們愛得如此卑微》《如何識破男人的謊言》《金錢魔鬼》《情感勒索》等。本書曾榮登《紐約時報》暢銷書排行榜榜首。目前，她的作品已被翻譯成15種文字，在全球發行。

她經常齣現在媒體訪談節目中，曾在美國廣播公司主持談話節目長達6年，並在美國加州成立瞭私人性虐待診療中心。

剋雷格·巴剋

影視編劇兼製片人，他曾為全美許多雜誌和報紙撰寫文章，探討人類行為問題，現居於美國洛杉磯。他曾與蘇珊·福沃德閤著過多部作品，如《原生傢庭：如何修補自己的性格缺陷》《金錢魔鬼》《對天真的背棄》等。