Nobody knows more about the differences between the sexes than John Gray, Ph.D. He is the man America turns to for help in deciphering the myriad complexities men and women face daily in their interactions with each other. The author of nine bestsellers--including the history-making Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus--John Gray expands on the expert advice touched upon in his previous books and distills each message into a powerful, inspiring daily meditation in this newest volume.
There's no doubt about it: The relationship between men and women is extremely complex. We often forget just how different the sexes are, and become frustrated and confused by a loved one's behavior. Every day we need to be reminded of these differences and realize that it's okay to be different as long as we recognize and understand the behavior of the opposite sex. In Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus Book of Days, John Gray provides us with daily inspirations that lovingly and insightfully remind us of the contrasts between Mars and Venus, allowing us to solve conflicts in our relationships.
Each month is devoted to a single theme, with the daily meditations enlarging on the particular subject at hand. The topics correlate with the very traits of the month itself: January, an exhilarating time of new beginnings, inspires resolve and the desire to excel. In February, when we find ourselves deep in winter's grip and challenged by constant emotional upheaval, we seek reminders of the importance of commitment and the need for patience. May concentrates on such springtime issues as harmony and appreciation. The topics discussed are as diverse as relationships are.
Inside you'll find comforting and helpful advice on:
<UL><LI>The true meaning of equality
<LI> Improving communication
<LI>Giving and receiving emotional support
<LI> The awakening of our inner qualities
<LI> Needing time alone
<LI> Keeping the passion alive
<LI> Reacting to stress</UL>
Whether you need the thoughtful reminders yourself or know a friend or loved one who will benefit from these beautiful reflections, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus Book of Days is a classic that no bookshelf should be without.
The Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus Book of Days contains 365 inspirations to remind you each day of the basic differences between men and women
Women love a man with a plan; men love a woman with a smile.
A woman is like a wave. When she feels loved, her self-esteem rises and falls like a wave in motion. When she is feeling really good, she will reach a peak, but then suddenly her mood may change and her wave crashes down. This crash is temporary. After she reaches bottom, her mood will shift suddenly, and she will again feel good about herself. Automatically, her wave begins to rise back up...By recognizing this pattern, a man doesn't take it personally. When he doesn't feel as if he is being blamed for her downs, he can be more supportive.
A rubber band is the perfect metaphor to understand the male intimacy cycle, which involves getting close, pulling away, and then getting close again...Most women are surprised to realize that even when a man loves a woman, periodically he needs to pull away before he can get closer. Men instinctively feel this urge to pull away. It is not a decision or a choice. It just happens. It is neither his fault nor her fault. It is a natural cycle.
Romance for women is when a man does things without her having to ask; romance for men is when a woman appreciates the things he does.
Showing interest is one of the most important secrets to opening a woman's heart.
A man is free to be the best he can be when he feels accepted just the way he is.
Women need to work on trusting, while men need to work on caring.
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坦白说,我一开始对这类主打“每日”概念的书籍是抱着极大的怀疑态度的,总觉得它们的新鲜感保质期不会超过一周。然而,这本《某某日历》却展现出一种令人惊叹的持久魅力。它的力量不在于那些宏大叙事,而恰恰在于对那些被我们匆匆略过的“微小瞬间”的精雕细琢。我特别喜欢它在描述“仪式感”和“非仪式感”之间的平衡。很多时候,我们被教导要创造各种仪式来标记重要时刻,但这本书却温柔地指出,那些未被标记的、模糊的日常碎片,其实才是构建我们生活质感的真正基石。作者的叙事风格像是一股清澈的溪流,时而湍急,时而舒缓,但始终保持着一种让人心安的节奏感。我注意到,很多条目并非直接给出“答案”,而是抛出一个极具启发性的场景或疑问,迫使读者不得不参与到思考的过程中去。这是一种非常高明的互动方式,它避免了说教的沉闷,转而采用了一种更具探索性的体验。比如,那天我读到关于“等待”的段落,突然意识到自己过去是多么焦虑地打发等待的时间,而不是真正地“体验”等待本身。这种对时间感知力的重塑,是我从这本书中获得的宝贵财富,远非一本普通的日程规划书可以比拟。它真正做到了让人在阅读中“慢下来”,去品味生活的质地。
评分这本《某某日历》——我得承认,光是这个名字就带着一种令人会心一笑的幽默感,仿佛是对日常琐碎的某种精妙提炼。我通常对这类“日历”形式的书籍持保留态度,总觉得它们要么过于肤浅,要么就是把陈词滥调换个包装,但这本书给我的感觉完全不同。它更像是一面多棱镜,每一次翻阅都能从不同的角度捕捉到生活中的细微光影。我尤其欣赏作者处理日常观察的角度,那种既带着深刻的洞察力,又不失轻松俏皮的笔触,让人在读完之后,不自觉地反思自己是如何度过那些看似平凡无奇的日子。它不是那种强迫你“必须做什么”的指导手册,而更像是一位老朋友在耳边低语,分享着关于时间、习惯和人际交往中那些不易察觉的微妙之处。 读它的时候,我发现自己常常停下来,不仅仅是因为文字本身引人入胜,更是因为它们触动了某些我过去忽略的内心角落。比如关于“如何优雅地处理一个突如其来的会议邀请”的建议,与其说是一种方法论,不如说是一种生活哲学的体现,提醒我们在被外界拉扯时,如何保持内在的锚定。这种细腻入微的捕捉能力,使得这本书的价值远远超出了一个简单的“每日阅读物”的范畴,它更像是一部关于“如何更好地存在于当下”的微型百科全书。 整体而言,它的文字密度和情感共鸣度非常高,每一次翻开都能带来新鲜的感悟,这在同类书籍中是极为罕见的品质。
评分这本书的阅读体验非常类似于在翻阅一本珍藏多年的、充满手写批注的旅行日记。它没有华丽的辞藻去装饰那些主题,而是用一种近乎坦诚的、甚至略带粗粝感的语言,直击要害。我最欣赏的一点是,它对于“效率”和“停滞”这两种现代社会推崇的极端状态,提出了一种极富张力的对话。它不像某些励志书籍那样鼓吹马不停蹄地向前冲刺,而是巧妙地为“无所事事”或“原地踏步”的日子赋予了其内在的价值和必要性。这种对生活节奏的尊重,在当今这个极度追求“即时反馈”的时代,显得尤为珍贵和及时。我发现,当我感到被日常琐事压得喘不过气时,随意翻开其中任何一页,都能得到一种心理上的“减压阀”作用。这不是那种一蹴而就的解脱,而是一种温和的、渐进式的接纳——接纳自己并非时时刻刻都处于最佳状态,接纳生活本身就充满了不确定性。这本书的价值,在于它提供的不是一套固定的行动指南,而是一种更具弹性、更富有人情味的“心智地图”,帮助我们更好地导航在那些模糊不清、介于计划与意外之间的日子里。它的文字具有一种沉静的力量,让人在浮躁中找到一隅安宁。
评分我对文学作品的偏好通常偏向叙事性强或结构复杂的长篇巨著,因此,这种篇幅分散的“日历”体裁对我来说通常是挑战。然而,这本《某某日历》成功地打破了我的既有印象。它的吸引力在于其惊人的“场景复现能力”。作者对于日常场景的捕捉细致入微,仿佛拥有一个高分辨率的摄像机,记录下那些我们通常只在脑海中闪过一次的瞬间。我读到其中关于“早餐时的沉默”的那一页时,那种熟悉的、略带尴尬却又无比亲密的氛围,立刻将我拉回到了自己家里的餐桌上。这种强大的共鸣感,并非来自于廉价的煽情,而是源于对生活真实纹理的精准把握。更值得称赞的是,这本书在保持这种观察者视角的冷静之余,还巧妙地融入了某种历史的纵深感。它提醒我们,我们正在经历的每一个“今日”,都已经被无数个“昨日”所塑造和影响。这种跨越时间的连接感,让原本可能流于表面的生活片段,一下子获得了重量和厚度。总而言之,它成功地将“日常”提升为一种值得被审视和尊重的艺术形式,其文字的功力不容小觑。
评分如果要我用一个词来概括阅读这本《某某日历》的体验,那一定是“恰到好处的陌生感”。它不是那种会让你拍案叫绝、连夜读完的“爆款”,而更像是一件经过时间打磨的、温润的玉器,需要细细品味才能感受到它的光泽和温度。我发现,这本书的结构设计非常巧妙,它似乎刻意避开了那些已经被无数心灵鸡汤反复咀嚼过的老生常谈,转而挖掘那些藏在生活“缝隙”里的智慧。我特别欣赏作者在处理“内在冲突”时所展现出的那种克制和同理心。它没有将人类的情感世界简化为简单的二元对立,而是承认了复杂性、矛盾性和模糊性的存在,并以此为基础,构建出一种更具现实感的指导框架。这种成熟的态度,使得即便是关于人际沟通的那些章节,读起来也让人倍感信服。它更像是心理学观察和生活哲学思辨的完美结合体,没有晦涩的术语,只有精准的描摹。对我而言,它更像是一种“思维的调味剂”,每一次阅读都会微妙地调整我的认知框架,让我对周围的人和事产生新的理解和包容。这本书的美,在于它的低调和深刻,它要求读者付出注意力,而回报的,则是对生活更深一层的接纳。
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评分其实只读完了四分之一,可是tips风格实在喜欢不起来。想加一星给作者还真写了365天的东西,可其实只要接受了“不要用对自己的了解去预设他人的想法”的基本假设,relationship中的问题就会自动大幅降级的
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