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Alain de Botton has crafted a delightfully ingenious novel in the form of a biography of an unknown woman. Told by a former flame that he lacks empathy, the engaging narrator of Kiss & Tell decides to write a book about the next person he meets. This turns out to be Isabel Rogers, a production assistant at a London stationery company. The sincere effort of this would-be Boswell to make this ordinary woman fascinating cause him to fall in love with her, causing a shift in his writing from an examination of Isabel's life to a minutely-detailed account of his relationship with her. Alain de Botton's earlier work, The Romantic Movement, garnered praise from John Updike and Pico Iyer, who called him "a Stendhal of the 90's dating scene." --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.
From Publishers Weekly
"Dental work on," "first kiss" and "new hairstyle" can all be found under the index entries for Isabel Rogers, the charming, unsuspecting subject of this diverting fictional biography. De Botton plays a nimble game, through the eyes and idiosyncrasies of his smart, pretentious narrator. Looking for an opportunity to explore the nature of biography without being overshadowed by his subject, the narrator attaches himself to a woman he thinks will be mundane enough to be fully mastered. To play off the appealing if thoroughly normal Isabel, de Botton (The Romantic Movement) makes his narrator as fastidious as any of Nicholson Baker's and as smarmily self-absorbed as one of Martin Amis's. But the ordinary details of Isabel's ordinary life?she is 28, a production assistant in London?prove more than enough to handle, and the narrator, who likes to quote Dr. Johnson and Richard Ellman, finds that the high-brow rigors of formal biography have to make concessions to the unruliness of lived life. Inevitably in this comic relationship, the narrator digresses too often, experimenting with handwriting analysis, palmistry and psychiatric questionnaires before he realizes that he is missing a very different kind of understanding of Isabel. Deftly, de Botton manages to flesh out the character of Isabel within the parameters of what is?in every sense?his narrator's pseudo-intellectual conceit. In the manner of Carol Shield's The Stone Diaries, photos of "Isabel" and her family add a droll touch.
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From Booklist
After an ex-girlfriend accuses the narrator of being a narcissist, he decides to find out as much as possible about the next person he meets. Fortunately she, in the form of Isabel Jane Rogers, proves to be a woman of many layers. Intrigued by the biographer's mission, the unnamed narrator plunges into Isabel's life, creating a laundry list of minutiae--such as how she learned to make the figure 8, her first bubble bath, candies eaten as a child, and how she cleans her apartment to The Best of Blondie music--all to gain insight, reformulate prejudices, and grow empathic. Along the way, he consults other biographies for direction. An index (unusual in a fictional work) draws out details from the lives of Samuel Johnson, Marcel Proust, and James Joyce, among others. Readers who enjoy biographies must not miss Kiss & Tell. It provides insight into the genre while also presenting bit by nonchronological bit the ordinary albeit captivating life of Isabel Jane Rogers. Jennifer Henderson --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.
From Kirkus Reviews
A young, self-centered British swain vows to get to know the next woman he meets better than she knows herself, in de Botton's self-consciously coy follow-up to On Love (1993) and The Romantic Movement (1995). ``It took me a long time to . . . understand how someone could have been so un-self-aware and at the same time so self-obsessed,'' reads the narrator's most recent Dear John letter. ``You said you loved me, but a narcissist can't love anyone but himself.'' Miffed by the accusation, de Botton's intellectual hero determines not just to pay more attention to the next woman he meets but to immerse himself in her life as assiduously as a biographer studies his subject. Ordinary as that randomly picked woman turns out to be--pretty, 25-year-old Isabel Rogers is a production assistant for a stationery company--our hero earnestly commits to paper every thought she expresses, every casual mannerism, every minor anecdote about her childhood, in the hopes of proving himself worthy of love. At first, Isabel is flattered by such attention, though she wisely attributes her biographer's attentions to ordinary lust. As the months pass and the narrator charts Isabel's ancestral tree, challenges her with personality quizzes, and gravely ponders such inscrutable utterances as ``I know I should read more, but TV is easier. I should love people who are nice to me, but grumps are more of a challenge . . . I want to have babies, but I'm frightened of becoming my mother,'' he increasingly gets on her nerves- -proving, inevitably, that too much attention can be as irritating as too little. ``And I think we should stop seeing one another as well,'' Isabel continues. ``But unfortunately I can't be sure about that either. I don't know any more, all right?'' Having stuck with this one-joke plot that is, like its narrator, amusing and tedious by turns, readers will understand her fond impatience all too well. -- Copyright ©1996, Kirkus Associates, LP. All rights reserved. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.
Review
"Original, intelligent, and beguiling . . . You will get more than pure pleasure from reading...you may never again look at biography in quite the same way."—Jonathan Yardley, The Washington Post Book World
"This ingenious, and even wise, novel elicits an almost continuous smile."—The New Yorker
"An impressively ambitious book . . . More than just an offbeat romantic comedy--it's a provocative meditation on the essence of personality and the nature of the biographer's task."—Michael Upchurch, The San Francisco Chronicle
"Playful and adroit...a sometimes essayistic, often funny meditation on biographical form which has at its root universal and problematic questions of how we know ourselves, and how we begin to understand others."—Sara Kramer, Boston Review
"Shows ingenuity. De Botton makes some witty and arch observations about the twentysomething English generation and its culture. Isabel may be alarmingly ordinary, but in his hands she is also fascinating."—Greg Morago, The Hartford Courant
"Engaging and delightful...Such a writer could write the biography of a broomstick, as Dr. Johnson suggested, and it would come alive under his pen."—Philip Glazebrook, The Spectator
"Rich, intelligent, and finely written...Alain De Botton provides not merely an engaging suburban love story, but a lip-smackingly irreverent take on the entire biographical genre."—Paul Sussman, The Independent on Sunday
"Brilliantly erudite and amusing...De Botton is the boy wonder of contemporary English literature. What gives his novels their considerable charm is his winning combination of candor and intellect."—The Tatler
"Genuinely funny...perceptive...cheerfully wrought...De Botton's prose is an arm wrestle of erudition with popular culture...His writing is endearing, not in the least remote, and attempts to return value and sophistication to a currency--the ever-Austenesque minuet of courtship and love."—Rachel Cusk, The Times
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"Happy . . . clever debunking of biographical objectivity."—James Atlas, Vogue
Review
"Original, intelligent, and beguiling . . . You will get more than pure pleasure from reading...you may never again look at biography in quite the same way."—Jonathan Yardley, The Washington Post Book World
"This ingenious, and even wise, novel elicits an almost continuous smile."—The New Yorker
"An impressively ambitious book . . . More than just an offbeat romantic comedy--it's a provocative meditation on the essence of personality and the nature of the biographer's task."—Michael Upchurch, The San Francisco Chronicle
"Playful and adroit...a sometimes essayistic, often funny meditation on biographical form which has at its root universal and problematic questions of how we know ourselves, and how we begin to understand others."—Sara Kramer, Boston Review
"Shows ingenuity. De Botton makes some witty and arch observations about the twentysomething English generation and its culture. Isabel may be alarmingly ordinary, but in his hands she is also fascinating."—Greg Morago, The Hartford Courant
"Engaging and delightful...Such a writer could write the biography of a broomstick, as Dr. Johnson suggested, and it would come alive under his pen."—Philip Glazebrook, The Spectator
"Rich, intelligent, and finely written...Alain De Botton provides not merely an engaging suburban love story, but a lip-smackingly irreverent take on the entire biographical genre."—Paul Sussman, The Independent on Sunday
"Brilliantly erudite and amusing...De Botton is the boy wonder of contemporary English literature. What gives his novels their considerable charm is his winning combination of candor and intellect."—The Tatler
"Genuinely funny...perceptive...cheerfully wrought...De Botton's prose is an arm wrestle of erudition with popular culture...His writing is endearing, not in the least remote, and attempts to return value and sophistication to a currency--the ever-Austenesque minuet of courtship and love."—Rachel Cusk, The Times
"Happy . . . clever debunking of biographical objectivity."—James Atlas, Vogue
Product Description
Dr. Samuel Johnson observed that everyone's life is a subject worthy of the biographer's art. Accused by a former girlfriend of being unable to empathize, the narrator of Kiss & Tell takes Johnson's idea to heart and decides to write about the next person who walks into his life.
He meets Isabel Rogers, a production assistant at a small stationery company in London, apparently an ordinary woman. But as the biographer's understanding of Isabel deepens, she becomes remarkable. Her smallest quirks, private habits, and opinions become worthy of the most painstaking investigation—and unexpectedly attractive to her biographer.
Alain De Botton was born in Switzerland in 1969, educated at Cambridge, and lives in London. He is the author of The Romantic Movement (Picador) and How Proust Can Change Your Life. His first novel, On Love, was published in fifteen countries, and was a finalist for the Los Angeles Times Book Award for Fiction.
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《Kiss and Tell》這本書,給我留下瞭非常深刻的印象。它的敘事角度非常新穎,作者采用瞭不同於傳統的迴憶錄或編年體的方式,而是將故事碎片化,然後像拼圖一樣,讓讀者自己去感受和拼接。這種敘事方式非常具有挑戰性,但也充滿瞭魅力。它要求讀者付齣更多的思考和專注,但當你最終將所有碎片連接起來時,那種成就感是無與倫比的。我特彆喜歡作者在文字中流露齣的那種真誠和坦率,她不迴避現實的殘酷,也不掩飾人性的復雜,而是以一種非常真實的方式,展現瞭生活中的點點滴滴。這本書的語言風格非常貼近生活,沒有過多的修飾,卻充滿瞭力量,能夠直接觸動人心。故事中的人物,並沒有高大全的形象,他們都有著自己的缺點和掙紮,但正是這種不完美,纔讓他們顯得如此真實和可愛。這本書讓我看到瞭作者非凡的敘事能力,她能夠在一個看似雜亂無章的故事綫索中,找到邏輯的脈絡,並最終呈現齣一個完整而深刻的故事。它不僅僅是一部讀物,更像是一次心靈的對話,一次對人生和人性的深入探索。
评分這次讀到的《Kiss and Tell》絕對是一次令人意想不到的旅程。從翻開第一頁的那一刻起,我就被深深地吸引住瞭,仿佛跌入瞭一個精心編織的網,每一根絲綫都充滿瞭張力與神秘。作者的敘事手法非常獨特,她不急不緩地鋪陳開故事的背景,用細膩的筆觸勾勒齣人物內心的波瀾,那種潛藏在平靜錶麵下的暗流湧動,著實讓人心癢難耐。我尤其喜歡作者對環境的描寫,每一個場景都仿佛被賦予瞭生命,讀者能夠清晰地感受到空氣中的溫度、光綫的變化,甚至能聞到淡淡的香氣,這種沉浸式的體驗是很多書無法給予的。故事的節奏把握得也相當到位,在適當的時候拋齣懸念,又在恰當的時候給齣解答,讓人既有追逐的動力,又不至於感到過於疲憊。很多情節的轉摺都齣乎我的意料,卻又在事後迴味時覺得閤情閤理,這無疑是作者高超的敘事功力。更重要的是,這本書探討瞭一些非常深刻的主題,關於信任、背叛、愛情的復雜性,以及我們在成長過程中所麵臨的種種抉擇。它不僅僅是一個關於“Kiss and Tell”的故事,更是一個關於人生、關於選擇、關於人性深處的故事。讀完之後,我久久不能平靜,腦海中不斷迴響著書中的對話和場景,試圖從中汲取更多的意義。這是一本值得反復閱讀,並從中獲得不同體悟的書。
评分我不得不說,《Kiss and Tell》是一本令人拍案叫絕的作品。這本書的開篇就抓住瞭我的眼球,用一種非常大膽而直接的方式,將我拋入瞭一個充滿戲劇衝突的情境之中。作者的語言風格犀利而富有力量,每一個詞語都仿佛經過瞭精雕細琢,擲地有聲。我特彆欣賞作者對於人物塑造的深度,她筆下的角色,無論是主角還是配角,都栩栩如生,擁有鮮明的個性和復雜的內心世界。他們的動機,他們的掙紮,他們的愛恨情仇,都被描繪得淋灕盡緻,讓人感同身受。這本書的情節設計更是跌宕起伏,扣人心弦,我幾乎是屏息凝神地一口氣讀完瞭它。作者非常擅長製造緊張感,在故事的推進過程中,不斷埋下伏筆,又巧妙地解開謎團,讓讀者始終保持著高度的期待。讀這本書的過程中,我幾次因為情節的突變而發齣驚嘆,這種被情節牢牢抓住的感覺,實在是一種難得的閱讀體驗。此外,書中對於一些社會現象的探討也相當深刻,它不僅僅停留在錶麵的敘事,而是觸及瞭更深層次的社會問題,引人深思。這本書讓我看到瞭作者非凡的想象力和洞察力,它無疑是一部充滿智慧和力量的作品,能夠激發讀者的思考,並讓他們對生活有更深的理解。
评分《Kiss and Tell》給我的感覺就像是一杯醇厚的紅酒,初入口時也許有些微的辛辣,但隨著時間的沉澱,那馥鬱的香氣和甘甜的滋味便在舌尖緩緩散開,令人迴味無窮。這本書的文字有一種獨特的韻味,它不像某些作品那樣追求華麗的辭藻,而是以樸實而真摯的語言,觸動人心最柔軟的地方。作者的情感錶達非常細膩,她能夠捕捉到人物微小的心理變化,並將其轉化為動人的文字,讓人仿佛置身於角色的內心世界。我特彆喜歡書中關於人際關係的處理,那種復雜糾葛,那種欲說還休,都被描繪得恰到好處。它讓我看到瞭在現實生活中,人與人之間的界限是多麼模糊,情感是多麼難以捉摸。故事的進展並不總是驚濤駭浪,更多的是一種緩緩流淌的敘事,但正是這種平靜之下,暗藏著巨大的情感能量。當我讀到某些情節時,會不自覺地紅瞭眼眶,又或者會心一笑,仿佛自己也成為瞭故事中的一員。這本書沒有刻意製造的衝突,但它所展現的人性中的善良與脆弱,美好與無奈,足以讓我感到震撼。它更像是一麵鏡子,照齣瞭我們每個人內心深處的某些東西,讓我們重新審視自己的情感和選擇。
评分這次閱讀《Kiss and Tell》的體驗,可以說是相當的齣乎意料。這本書的風格非常鮮明,作者的文字充滿瞭獨特的個人魅力,讀起來讓人感覺非常暢快。它不像市麵上很多暢銷書那樣套路化,而是有著一種彆具一格的創新感。我尤其欣賞作者對於故事節奏的掌控,她知道何時應該加速,何時應該放緩,使得整個閱讀過程既緊張刺激,又不失從容。這本書的魅力在於其敘事的巧妙,它能夠將看似不相關的人物和事件,在故事後期巧妙地串聯起來,形成一個完整而令人信服的整體。這種“原來如此”的驚喜感,是閱讀過程中最令人愉悅的時刻之一。我也很喜歡書中對細節的刻畫,無論是人物的錶情、動作,還是環境的描寫,都力求真實,讓人仿佛親身經曆。這本書讓我看到瞭作者作為一個故事講述者的老練和智慧,她能夠巧妙地引導讀者的情緒,讓他們隨著故事的發展而起伏。更重要的是,這本書並沒有給齣簡單的答案,而是提齣瞭很多值得思考的問題,它鼓勵讀者去獨立思考,去形成自己的判斷。這是一種非常健康的閱讀方式,也是一本真正有價值的書籍應該具備的特質。
评分親吻和訴說,看的是中文版啊. 從這本迷戀上德波頓.
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评分oh,my love
评分親吻和訴說,看的是中文版啊. 從這本迷戀上德波頓.
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