From Publishers Weekly
Regret is a painful feeling that we tend to view as an emotional indulgence, writes Landman. Yet, regret over mistakes, missed opportunties, failure or misfortunes can serve constructive ends by spurring us to pragmatic self-improvement or active engagement with the world, she maintains. Despite its stilted academic prose, this thought-provoking study rewards the reader with a wide-angled view of regret as seen through the prism of novels, poems, psychological theory and research, anthropology and decision theory. Using four classic novels--Dickens's Great Expectations , Dostoevsky's Notes from Underground , Henry James's The Ambassadors and Virginia Woolf's Mrs. Dalloway , which, in Landman's schematic framework exemplify romantic, tragic, comic and ironic worldviews, respectively--she argues that how we experience regret depends greatly on our personal outlook and cultural values. Landman teaches psychology at the University of Michigan.
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From Kirkus Reviews
A spirited if scholarly examination of the nature of regret. Landman (Psychology/University of Michigan) defines regret as ``a more or less painful cognitive and emotive state of feeling sorry for misfortunes, limitations, losses, transgressions, shortcomings, or mistakes.'' Nothing startling there--but ``cognitive'' and ``emotive'' are the keys, since Landman considers regret to be an experience of ``felt-reason'' or ``reasoned-emotion.'' She analyzes regret through a literary lens, choosing novels that exemplify four different views of regret: the romantic (Dickens's Great Expectations); the comic (James's The Ambassadors); the tragic (Dostoyevsky's Notes from Underground); and the ironic (Woolf's Mrs. Dalloway). She also looks at Anne Tyler's Breathing Lessons, which, she says, blends the romantic and ironic. In addition, Landman draws on empirical surveys, philosophy, chaos theory, anthropology, economics, psychology, and even poetry, for she sees regret as a complex, multilayered experience. Among the questions explored are: What sort of experience is regret? Who is most likely to feel it? What causes regret? What role does it play? How is it transformed? Landman's exploration of the role of regret gets involved in theories of decision-making, along with sometimes daunting mathematical formulas, but math-phobes can skip this discussion...without regret. Meanwhile, the author's study of the transformation of regret through a dialectical process requires careful reading but is central to her view of regret as concept and experience. Landman favors a romantic-ironic view that acknowledges regret's force; recognizes the inevitability of conflict, loss, limits, and mistakes; and remains alert to contradictions and ambiguities. Erudite, intense, and intellectually demanding. -- Copyright ©1993, Kirkus Associates, LP. All rights reserved.
這本書的結構設計堪稱精妙絕倫,它像一個復雜的迷宮,引導你進入一個又一個“如果”的岔路口,但奇怪的是,你並不會感到迷失,反而有一種被引導的興奮感。我很少看到有哪本書能如此流暢地在“過去事實”和“潛在平行世界”之間進行跳躍,並且讓每一次切換都顯得如此自然且富有邏輯性。作者似乎對人類記憶的不可靠性有著深刻的洞察,他們通過對比不同“版本”的同一事件,揭示瞭記憶是如何被當下需求不斷重構和美化的。這不僅僅是一次關於“錯失”的探討,更像是一次關於“構建自我”的元認知過程。每一次當我以為我已經把握瞭故事的主綫時,作者總能拋齣一個新的視角,讓你不得不重新評估之前所有的判斷。這種閱讀的張力,讓我像一個偵探一樣,試圖在看似紛亂的綫索中尋找那條貫穿始終的、關於“何為真實”的鐵律,雖然最終發現,鐵律本身也許就是流動的。
评分這部作品簡直是一場智力的馬拉鬆,它以一種近乎冷酷的精確性,將人類決策的復雜性剖開,然後重新組閤成一個既令人著迷又令人不安的結構。作者對“如果”這個詞的運用達到瞭齣神入化的地步,仿佛每一頁都內置瞭一個概率計算器,不斷地嚮你展示那些被我們輕易放棄的、本可以發生的無數條時間綫。我尤其欣賞它處理的那些微妙的心理張力,那種介於“應該”和“實際發生”之間的巨大鴻溝,是如何在日常的瑣事中悄無聲息地腐蝕人的精神的。它不是一本提供廉價安慰的書,恰恰相反,它強迫你直麵那些你以為早已翻篇的十字路口,並讓你清晰地看到,你現在所站立的這個“現實”,是如何建立在一係列你甚至沒有意識到的拒絕和選擇之上的。敘事的節奏感非常強,時而如同平靜的湖麵,隻映照齣對過去清晰的自省,時而又像突如其來的暴風雨,將所有被壓抑的“可能性”的碎片砸嚮讀者。讀完之後,我發現自己對很多舊事物的看法徹底改變瞭,不再是簡單的迴憶,而更像是在審視一個多維度的量子態。
评分我得說,這本書的筆觸是極其剋製的,這在處理如此宏大和形而上的主題時,更顯齣作者的功力。它沒有落入那種故作高深的哲學說教泥潭,而是將那些深奧的思辨巧妙地融入到人物的日常對話和內心獨白之中。這些角色,他們不是完美無缺的符號,而是充滿瞭缺陷和猶豫的、活生生的人。他們的“不作為”和“未曾實現的抱負”構成瞭敘事的核心驅動力。那種滲透在字裏行間淡淡的憂鬱感,不是那種歇斯底裏的悲傷,而是一種更深層次的、對“局限性”的接受與抗爭——一種隻有真正理解瞭“選擇的代價”的人纔能體會到的情緒。我特彆留意瞭作者對場景的描繪,那些環境的細節,是如何反過來強化瞭人物內心的掙紮。比如,某個午後陽光斜射進房間的特定角度,都會被用來象徵某種轉瞬即逝的機遇,這種對氛圍的精準拿捏,使得閱讀體驗非常具有畫麵感和沉浸感。它要求讀者全神貫注,稍有走神,可能就會錯過一個關鍵的語義轉摺點。
评分從文體風格上來說,這本書展現齣一種令人耳目一新的融閤。它既有古典文學的思辨深度,又夾雜著現代主義敘事中那種破碎感和碎片化的處理方式,但兩者結閤得極其和諧,沒有絲毫的違和感。它的語言是高度凝練的,每一個詞語的選擇都經過瞭深思熟慮,很少有冗餘的描寫,卻能在極簡的錶達中蘊含著巨大的信息量和情感張力。讀起來,就像是在品嘗一種經過多次蒸餾的烈酒,初入口辛辣而直接,迴味卻悠長而復雜。對於那些習慣於快節奏、情節驅動小說的讀者來說,這本書可能需要一些耐心去適應其內在的韻律,但一旦你進入瞭那個語境,你會發現它提供的迴饋是極其豐厚的。它成功地避開瞭將“遺憾”主題簡單化為一種哀嘆,而是將其提升到一種哲學性的審視高度,探討瞭人類存在的本質性睏境——我們永遠隻能前進,卻永遠無法完全擺脫那些被我們拋在身後的“可能性幽靈”。
评分我必須贊揚作者對時間這一概念的玩弄,它遠超齣瞭簡單的綫性敘事框架。這部作品更像是對“時間感”本身進行的一次解構。書中的人物常常陷入一種循環往復的思考模式中,過去和未來仿佛在某一刻重疊,使得“現在”變得異常稀薄和脆弱。最讓我印象深刻的是,作者處理“行動”和“不行動”的後果時所采用的對比手法。有時候,那些我們認為最微不足道的選擇,最終會引發最宏大、最意想不到的連鎖反應。這讓人不禁反思自己生活中那些“未曾按下發送鍵”的郵件、“未曾撥通的電話”,它們是否在另一個看不見的維度裏,已經孕育齣瞭完整而真實的後果。這本書的閱讀體驗是沉浸式的,它不僅僅是在講述一個故事,它是在強迫你參與到一場關於“自我修正”的永恒辯論中。它讓你重新審視“當下”的重量,因為你此刻的每一個微小決定,都是在為未來的無數個你,設定新的邊界。
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