Amazon.com Review
The 1976 Argentine junta that overthrew the ragged Peronista government launched a campaign of terror to crush dissent. "Ford Falcons without license plates would slide through the streets like sharks," says one witness, remembering nights when security forces "disappeared" hordes of people. Though many were tortured and executed in detention centers, junta leaders denied any knowledge of this. Determined to learn the fates of their sons and daughters, a group of middle-aged women who called themselves Mothers of the Plaza de Mayo braved beatings, threats, and abductions to spotlight the flagrant violations of human rights. This scholarly, somewhat dry book tells of their radicalization and activism, which helped galvanize world pressure against the junta and slow the tide of disappearances. Though stiff writing sometimes undermines their affecting, painful stories, this is an amazing and rewarding blueprint for cooperative struggle against abuses of power.
From Publishers Weekly
A group of ordinary Argentine women transformed by extraordinary events into a political force is the theme of this detailed study of human rights activism in Argentina. Bouvard's dense survey of the military junta and the Dirty War it waged in the late 1970s and early 1980s, during which tens of thousands disappeared, were kidnapped or were tortured, tells readers little that's been unreported. She charts new territory, however, in her meticulous and emotional recounting of how an informal group of working-class housewives banded together to seek their disappeared children. Her central thesis, that the Mothers have created a political role for maternity, is hammered home and supported with arguments from Hannah Arendt, but doesn't always convince. Bouvard counters criticism from some feminists that the Mothers cling to a maternal role and support a patriarchal structure, asserting that "They have redefined the private and public spheres and sought to create a political space where the two combine in their organization and political agenda." Revolutionizing Motherhood isn't an unflinching homage to the courageous women. Bouvard serves up a few critical asides herself, noting a Cuban trip the Mothers took with a seemingly blind eye to alleged and documented human rights violations there, and she disparages the Mother's alliance with the Front for Human Rights, a group, she claims, which had ulterior motives and divergent political goals.
Copyright 1994 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to the Hardcover edition.
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这本书的语言风格简直是教科书级别的“亲和力与专业性的完美结合”。它没有那种高高在上的说教感,反而充满了温暖的幽默感和令人会心一笑的自嘲。我发现自己常常会因为某句话的精妙措辞而停下来,心想:“对,我就是这种感觉,但以前我从来不知道该怎么表达!”作者对情感的捕捉能力简直是超凡入圣,她似乎能精准地描绘出那些夹杂着爱、疲惫、内疚和骄傲的复杂情绪混合体。在探讨代际差异时,作者的立场是极其公正和富有同理心的,她既理解前辈的经验价值,也毫不含糊地指出了那些在当代环境下已不再适用的僵化观念。读这本书的过程,与其说是学习知识,不如说是一次深刻的自我对话和情绪梳理。它像一面镜子,让你清晰地看到自己内在的冲突和期望,并且提供了一种温柔的方式去接纳这些“不完美”。如果说有什么不足,那就是我希望它能更厚一点,因为跟随作者的思路实在是太令人愉悦了。
评分我必须承认,我对很多育儿类书籍都持有一种审慎的态度,因为它们往往在鼓吹某种乌托邦式的理想状态。但这本书彻底颠覆了我的看法。它最大的贡献在于,它提供了一套极其坚实的“工具箱”,但这些工具不是用来打造“模范宝宝”的,而是用来维护家庭系统整体韧性的。它非常强调系统思维,比如如何构建一个能够抵御外部压力的情感缓冲带,如何设计一套适合自己家庭独特节奏的“仪式感”,而不是盲目跟从社交媒体上的潮流。我最欣赏它对“身份重塑”这一主题的处理,它细致地分析了从“个体”到“父母”这一身份转变中,自我边界是如何被侵蚀又该如何被有意识地重建。书中提供的具体策略,比如“非同步规划法”和“微小胜利记录法”,都具有极强的可操作性,并且在实践中被证明是有效的,这大大增强了这本书的说服力。它不是空谈理论,而是真正地在教你如何在这个混乱的世界中,为自己和家人打造一个稳定的小宇宙。
评分这本书真是让人眼前一亮,从封面设计到内页排版,都透露出一种既现代又充满人文关怀的格调。我尤其喜欢它在讨论当代亲职挑战时所采取的那种既不回避现实的复杂性,又始终保持着一种积极探索精神的笔触。作者似乎非常擅长捕捉那些日常生活中,为人父母者常常会陷入的思维的细微之处,然后用一种极为细腻且富有洞察力的方式将其剖析开来,引人深思。它不像那些一味灌输“完美育儿”剧本的指南,反倒更像是一位经验丰富的朋友,在为你提供一个思考新框架的机会。在阅读过程中,我多次停下来,合上书本,在脑海中梳理着自己过往的一些经历,发现以前那些困惑的瞬间,现在似乎有了一条更清晰的脉络可以去追溯和理解。那种感觉,就像是找到了一个关键的钥匙,能打开之前一直紧闭的心结。特别是关于如何在高速变化的社会结构中,重新定义“付出”与“自我实现”之间的平衡点,这本书给出的视角非常新颖,避开了许多陈词滥调,直指问题的核心。我推荐给所有正处于或即将处于为人父母阶段的人,它提供的不仅仅是信息,更是一种思维上的升级。
评分读完这本巨著,我最大的感受是作者对于宏观社会趋势与微观家庭动态之间相互作用的理解达到了一个令人惊叹的深度。它不仅仅停留在“如何安抚哭闹的婴儿”这种操作层面的指导,而是将个体的育儿实践置于全球化、技术革新以及后工业时代价值重塑的大背景下进行考察。叙事风格上,它大量运用了社会学和心理学的交叉引用,使得整本书读起来像是一篇篇精彩的学术论文,但又通过大量的真实案例(我猜是经过艺术化处理的)保持了极佳的可读性。我尤其欣赏作者对“时间贫困”这一概念的深入挖掘,它不仅仅指缺时间,更是一种对注意力资源的极度稀释。书中的论证逻辑严密得像是精密的钟表,每一步推理都建立在坚实的基础之上,让你不得不跟随它的思路向前推进。尽管某些章节的理论密度略高,需要反复咀嚼,但正是这种要求读者投入心力的过程,才使得最终获得的领悟更加深刻、持久。这本书的价值在于,它迫使你停止仅仅将育儿视为一场个人努力的秀场,而是将其视为一场与时代背景的持续博弈。
评分这本书的排版设计本身就是一种阅读体验的延伸。大量的留白和精心挑选的字体,让长时间阅读也不会感到视觉疲劳。但抛开形式不谈,其核心内容展现了一种对“慢下来”哲学的深刻拥抱。在充斥着“效率至上”的现代社会,作者旗帜鲜明地提出了“意义”优先于“速度”的观点。它引导读者去质疑那些被社会强加于我们身上的育儿日程表,鼓励我们重新校准自己的内在指南针。我特别喜欢它讨论“陪伴的质量”时所采用的类比手法,将高质量的关注比作一种“能量的聚焦”,这种生动的描述立刻在我脑海中建立了清晰的画面。与其他书籍侧重于“如何做”不同,这本书更侧重于“为何做”以及“我们是谁”。它探讨了这种角色转变如何反过来塑造了我们对生命本质的理解。读完后,我感到一种久违的平静,不是因为所有问题都解决了,而是因为我获得了更强大的内在定力去迎接那些未解的问题。这是一本值得反复阅读,并随时取出来重新审视自己立足点的宝典。
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