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CHAPTER 1<br > Marriage Opportunities<br > It had been a full but satisfying day. As my last two patients<br >left the office, I loosened my tie, unbuttoned my collar, and<br >leaned back at my desk to catch my breath before heading<br >home. Eight solid hours of counseling was draining work, yet<br >I wasn t quite ready to call it a day. I wanted to review the<br >cases I had handled.<br > I thought about my first appointment with a young woman<br >who had been married only two years. Joan complained about<br >the loss of love and affection for her husband. She was<br >infatuated with a fellow employee and wanted to know if God<br >could lead her out of her present marriage and into another<br >one. As I probed, I learned how she was deeply hurt by her<br >husband s inability to attend to her emotional needs. As a result<br >she had built a wall around herself, and gradually the warm,<br >loving feelings for him had deteriorated. She hadn t gone<br >looking for an affair, but the fellow employee had tried to help<br >her, and in the process they had fallen in love.<br > It didn t take long for me to realize that Joan was in an<br >Active-Passive marriage relationship, with elements of a Kid s<br >marriage also present. She was frustrated that her husband<br >would not take an active role in the relationship, and her<br >immaturity had led her to look elsewhere for fulfillment. As<br >1 reviewed with her the dynamics of a third-party relationship,<br >I explained that--based on my years of experience as a coun-<br >selor-the likelihood of it succeeding was remote. Also, she<br >would miss out on a significant opportunity for personal<br >development if she escaped from her marriage relationship.<br >When our hour was up, she agreed to bring her husband with<br >her to the next appointment.<br > 9<br >
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Marriage Personalities pdf epub mobi txt 电子书 下载 2024