From Publishers Weekly Based on first-person accounts, scholarly studies and data from a nationwide survey of college campuses conducted by Ms. magazine, freelance journalist Warshaw draws a devastating portrait of men who rape women they know. The Ms. survey reveals that 25% of the college women polled have been the victims of rape or attempted rape, 84% of the victims were acquainted with the attacker and 57% of the rapes happened on dates. One in 12 of the male respondents admitted to acts that meet the legal definition of rape or attempted rape. Warshaw, herself the victim of an acquaintance rape, handles an inherently sensational subject with compassion and restraint. She describes and condemns the social milieu that condones such acts by encouraging men to see sex as conquest and women to view sexual coercion as part of the "dating game." There is realistic, practical advice on how women can protect themselves against attacks by acquaintances and on how men can prevent this type of rape. Literary Guild alternate; author tour. Copyright 1988 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title. From School Library Journal YA--I Never Called It Rape confronts the issue of what used to be known as "date rape" but is now commonly referred to as "acquaintance rape." First-hand accounts by women who have been raped by men whom they knew provides a background for analyzing this crime . These stories are meant to make women aware of how this type of rape happens, how to avoid the pitfalls of certain situations, and how to acknowledge that a rape has taken place even if the person is familiar . Chapters are directed toward preventing such an assault as well as what to do if you are a victim of acquaintance rape. The statistics in the book indicate that this is a widespread occurrence often ignored by women who deny what happened or feel they won't be believed. This book will enlighten young women about what constitutes an assault against them and how to deal with it.- Anne Paget, Episcopal High School, Bellaire, Tex.Copyright 1989 Reed Business Information, Inc. See all Editorial Reviews
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我必须承认,一开始我对阅读这样一本主题深刻的书是有些犹豫的,担心它会过于学术化或者流于说教。然而,这本书完全颠覆了我的预期。它最成功的地方在于,它没有试图提供一个万能的答案,也没有急于给出一个圆满的结局。它更像是一个高明的导演,将镜头聚焦在事件发生前后的“间隙地带”,那些信息不对等、沟通不畅和动机错位的微妙瞬间。人物的行动逻辑虽然在事后看来可能存在争议,但在当时的语境下,他们的选择似乎又有着某种必然性。这种对人性弱点和环境压力的深刻洞察,让这本书充满了难以言喻的张力。它迫使我跳出自己舒适的道德象牙塔,去理解不同个体在特定压力下是如何形成他们的“真实”。这本书的结构处理得极为巧妙,时而跳跃,时而拉长,完美地模拟了记忆的碎片化和情绪的非线性发展。
评分这本书的语言风格简直是一股清流,它没有那种浮夸的煽情,而是用一种近乎新闻报道般的克制,却又充满了文学的张力。阅读过程中,我多次停下来,默默地回味那些措辞的精准性。作者对于不同人物的口吻把握得极其到位,无论是社会地位较高者那种不自觉的优越感,还是处于弱势一方那种小心翼翼的试探,都如同真人再现。特别是对于环境气氛的渲染,简直是教科书级别的。那种夏夜的闷热、酒吧里昏暗的光线、人们酒精催化下的过度自信,这些具体的感官细节被作者编织得天衣无缝,让你仿佛能闻到空气中的味道,感受到皮肤上的汗意。这种沉浸感,使得书中探讨的议题不再是遥远的社会学概念,而是切切实实发生在“此时此地”的个人悲剧。它成功地将一个宏大而沉重的主题,通过一个个极度私密和个体化的视角展现出来,让读者在共情的同时,也保持了一种批判性的距离。
评分阅读完这本书,我感到一种深刻的疲惫,但这种疲惫并非源于内容上的枯燥,而是思维过度活跃后的自然反应。它成功地挑战了我过去对于许多既定观念的假设。我欣赏作者敢于触碰这些敏感地带的勇气,更钦佩其在处理这些复杂材料时的细腻与克制。这本书的价值在于,它迫使我们进行一场艰难的自我对话:我们如何定义“同意”?在何种情境下,我们的“理性”会失效?那些我们自认为坚不可摧的个人界限,在外界的微妙侵蚀下,究竟能抵抗多久?作者没有给出任何廉价的安慰或简单的解决方案,留给读者的,是沉甸甸的思考责任。这本书与其说是关于一个特定事件的记录,不如说是对现代社会中个体能动性边界的一次严肃拷问。它的文学成就,在于它成功地将这种拷问融入了一个充满人性真实和环境压力的故事之中,使其成为了一个难以磨灭的阅读体验。
评分这本书的叙事方式简直让人拍案叫绝,它没有落入那种老生常谈的、带着强烈道德审判的俗套窠臼。作者以一种近乎冷静到近乎冷酷的笔触,细致入微地描摹了人物内心的挣扎与环境的灰色地带。我尤其欣赏它对“情境”的刻画,那种弥漫在空气中、难以言喻的压抑和微妙的权力动态,远比直接的冲突场面更令人感到窒息。它不像是在讲述一个简单的对与错的故事,更像是在解剖一个复杂的社会肌理,让我们不得不去审视那些我们习惯性忽略的、潜藏在日常对话和肢体语言之下的暗流。每一次翻页,都像是在拨开一层又一层的迷雾,每一次的“顿悟”都伴随着一种更深层次的困惑和反思。我感觉作者是一位高明的心理学家,用文学的语言构建了一个极其逼真的实验场,邀请读者亲自去感受那种模糊不清、界限消融的真实困境。这本书的后劲极大,读完很久之后,我还在反复咀嚼那些细微的场景和对话,它们像碎片一样散落在我的思维里,时不时地跳出来提醒我,现实的复杂性远超任何简单的标签。
评分这本书的叙事节奏感简直是大师级的。它没有急于抛出重磅炸弹,而是像一个经验丰富的猎人,设置了一系列精巧的陷阱,让你一步步深入。前期的铺陈,那种看似日常化的互动,实则暗流涌动,充满了未被言明的张力。读到一半时,那种“山雨欲来风满楼”的感觉达到了顶点,让人几乎无法放下书卷,想要知道那临界点何时到来。而一旦事件爆发,作者的处理方式又是如此的冷静和精准,没有过度渲染情绪化的冲击,而是专注于展现后果的复杂性和持续性。更令人印象深刻的是,它对“沉默”力量的挖掘。那些没有说出口的话语、那些被环境压力扼杀的表达,在作者笔下反而比喧哗的争吵更具毁灭性。这本书不只是一个故事,它更像是一份关于人际关系中权力、语言和界限的深度田野调查报告,只是包裹在引人入胜的叙事外衣之下。
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