VERY IMPORTANT AND MUCH NEEDED...THIS HOW-TO<br >BOOK COULD BE A LIFESAVER."<br >--Abigail Van Buren， "Dear Abby"<br >A MUST READ F(IR ANY WOMAN WHO HAS EVER BEEN<br >IN A DESTRUC~fIVE RELATIONSHIP."<br >--Sonya Friedman， Ph.D.， author of Smart Cookies Don t Crumble<br >S THE WAY LOVE IS SUPPOSED TO FEEL?<br >~ Does the man you love assume the right to control how you<br > live and behave?<br >~ Have you given up important activities or people to keep<br > him happy?<br >~ Is he extremely jealous and possessive?<br >~ Does he switch from charm to anger without warning?<br >~ Does he belittle your opinions， your feelings， or your<br > accomplishments?<br >~ Does he withdraw love， money， approval， or sex to punish you?<br >~ Does he blame you for everything that goes wrong in<br > the relationship?<br >~ Do you find yourself"walking on eggs" and apologizing<br > all the time?<br > If the questions here reveal a familiar pattern， you maybe<br >in love with a misogynist--a man who loves you， yet causes<br >you tremendous pain because he acts as if he hates you.<br > In this superb self-help guide， Dr. Susan Forward draws on<br > case histories and the voices of men and women trapped in these<br > relationships to help you understand your man s destructive<br > pattern， the part you play in it， how to break the pattern，<br > heal the hurt， regain your self-respect， and either rebuild your<br > relationship or find the courage to love a truly loving man.<br >"I CAN HARDLY WAIT TO RECOMMEND THIS BOOK TO<br > MANY OF MY PATIENTS...REQUIRED READING FOR<br > WOMEN WHO ARE IN RELATIONSHIPS WITH ANGRY，<br > INTIMIDATING， AND CONTROLLING MEN."<br > --Howard Halpern， Ph.D.， author of How to Break Your<br > Addiction to a Person<br >