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发表于2024-11-08
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It happens every weekend: In a haze of hormones and alcohol, groups of male and female college students meet at a frat party, a bar, or hanging out in a dorm room, and then hook up for an evening of sex first, questions later. As casually as the sexual encounter begins, so it often ends with no strings attached; after all, it was "just a hook up." While a hook up might mean anything from kissing to oral sex to going all the way, the lack of commitment is paramount. Hooking Up is an intimate look at how and why college students get together, what hooking up means to them, and why it has replaced dating on college campuses. In surprisingly frank interviews, students reveal the circumstances that have led to the rise of the booty call and the death of dinner-and-a-movie. Whether it is an expression of post-feminist independence or a form of youthful rebellion, hooking up has become the only game in town on many campuses. In Hooking Up, Kathleen A. Bogle argues that college life itself promotes casual relationships among students on campus. The book sheds light on everything from the differences in what young men and women want from a hook up to why freshmen girls are more likely to hook up than their upper-class sisters and the effects this period has on the sexual and romantic relationships of both men and women after college. Importantly, she shows us that the standards for young men and women are not as different as they used to be, as women talk about "friends with benefits" and "one and done" hook ups. Breaking through many misconceptions about casual sex on college campuses, Hooking Up is the first book to understand the new sexual culture on its own terms, with vivid real-life stories of young men and women as they navigate the newest sexual revolution.
对于hook-up culture的描述有点矫枉过正,倒是很符合中国人对于美国人的schema,有点太过于强调男性在hook up culture里的强势地位了,虽然是事实,但是这终究还是“一个愿打一个愿挨”的情况,否则怎么能够如此日益强大到直接代替dating culture。
评分其实这本书所描述的美式校园hooking up和中文语境里的“约炮”还是有所区别的,中文里炮友的意思也很宽泛,能把friends with benefits,booty call和hooking-up partner 都包含在内。
评分对于hook-up culture的描述有点矫枉过正,倒是很符合中国人对于美国人的schema,有点太过于强调男性在hook up culture里的强势地位了,虽然是事实,但是这终究还是“一个愿打一个愿挨”的情况,否则怎么能够如此日益强大到直接代替dating culture。
评分美国校园约炮研究书丛。车轱辘话讲了个大道理:YP是社会现象,本来是因为“不在乎”而存在,但当今年轻人不YP就不够酷,没东西上网说嘴,于是攀比式在校园里hook up,没人敢承认自己渴望恋情,本来该带着轻松的心态去做的事,反而成了束缚。提到YP最美好的时候是出门前,想着可能找到一段恋情而激动不已;但是面对面没人敢承认,都装成酷逼YP狂,完事回家后心里很空虚。
评分约炮是酷的象征,约很多炮是非常酷的象征——千年狐狸遇上万年fox hunter,谁也不比谁情真意切
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Hooking Up pdf epub mobi txt 电子书 下载 2024