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Is romance more important to women in college than grades are? Why do so many women enter college with strong academic backgrounds and firm career goals but leave with dramatically scaled-down ambitions? Dorothy C. Holland and Margaret A. Eisenhart expose a pervasive "culture of romance" on campus: a high-pressure peer system that propels women into a world where their attractiveness to men counts most.
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This is a fascinating look at how young women are taught to buy into the idea of romantic love above other forms of life and learning.Someone needs to do a follow-up to this fascinating study, in which the authors followed the progress of a group of ambitio...
This is a fascinating look at how young women are taught to buy into the idea of romantic love above other forms of life and learning.Someone needs to do a follow-up to this fascinating study, in which the authors followed the progress of a group of ambitio...
This is a fascinating look at how young women are taught to buy into the idea of romantic love above other forms of life and learning.Someone needs to do a follow-up to this fascinating study, in which the authors followed the progress of a group of ambitio...
This is a fascinating look at how young women are taught to buy into the idea of romantic love above other forms of life and learning.Someone needs to do a follow-up to this fascinating study, in which the authors followed the progress of a group of ambitio...
This is a fascinating look at how young women are taught to buy into the idea of romantic love above other forms of life and learning.Someone needs to do a follow-up to this fascinating study, in which the authors followed the progress of a group of ambitio...
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Romantic relationship is a game that young women would never win. If they say "yes" (to sex) then they are slag. If "no", they are frigid or lezzie.
Romantic relationship is a game that young women would never win. If they say "yes" (to sex) then they are slag. If "no", they are frigid or lezzie.
Romantic relationship is a game that young women would never win. If they say "yes" (to sex) then they are slag. If "no", they are frigid or lezzie.
Romantic relationship is a game that young women would never win. If they say "yes" (to sex) then they are slag. If "no", they are frigid or lezzie.
Romantic relationship is a game that young women would never win. If they say "yes" (to sex) then they are slag. If "no", they are frigid or lezzie.
