Why would a young man, entering marriage, set as his lifetime goal, his highest priority, his ultimate dream - to be the best husband ever? Again, what would drive a man to get that special trophy given to a great husband? Furthermore, who will applaud him for it? (For sure, they don't make too many trophies because of the lack of demand ) The truth of the matter is that it doesn't make a difference. If a man can work hard at being an expert husband, he will reap very generous rewards. A woman who receives the caring and devotion and attention and unconditional love and time and support and entertainment and loyalty of her husband (whew ) will reward her hard working husband for his efforts every minute of his life. A loved woman (even more than a loved pup or a pet rock) will return her received love to her mate in geometric proportions. Ironically, a woman, despite her inherent strength and while being created so perfectly, thank God, still has an odd weakness, the need to be admired and adored by a man. And when she gets that admiration and adoration, she will make her mate a lifetime lottery winner.