图书标签: 爱情 AlainDeBotton 英文原版 小说 哲学 人生观 Literature 英国文学
发表于2024-11-27
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In Edinburgh, a couple, Rabih and Kirsten, fall in love. They get married. They have children. Society tells us this is the end of the story. In fact, it is only the beginning.
From the author of Essays in Love comes the long-awaited and beguiling sequel, which charts the complex and intricate course of a long-term relationship.
We all know the headiness and excitement of love’s early days, but what can be expected over a shared lifetime? We follow our couple – Rabih and Kristen – from the first flush of infatuation through to inevitable disenchantments and then onto the freedom and insights of maturity. The Course of Love is a novel that explores not so much the start of love, as its maintenance over time; the way our ideals bend and reform under the pressures of an average existence, and the magnificent, sometimes frightening, developments we can make as we slowly realise that love is in essence a skill we need to learn rather than an enthusiasm we simply experience.
Playful, wise, and profoundly moving, The Course of Love is an unparalleled meditation on modern relationships —and a delightful return to the novel for Alain, more than 20 years after Essays in Love.
Alain de Botton was born in Zurich, Switzerland in 1969 and now lives in London. He is a writer of essayistic books that have been described as a ‘philosophy of everyday life.’ He’s written on love, travel, architecture and literature. His books have been bestsellers in 30 countries.
Alain also started and helps to run a school in London called The School of Life, dedicated to a new vision of education. Alain’s latest book will be published in April 2016 and is titled The Course of Love.
Alain started writing at a young age. His first book, Essays in Love [titled On Love in the US], was published when he was twenty-three.
这是一本我以后一定会在人生不同阶段重新捡起来读很多遍的书,也是我但愿和前男友一起读过的书,还是我会推荐给闺蜜和哥们的书,更是我一定会在结婚前要求我的未来男朋友读完并且和我讨论的书。
评分有了爱情以后就再也不可能断舍离啦
评分“Ideally, art would give us the answers that other people don’t. This might even be one of the main points of literature: to tell us what society at large is too prudish to explore.” “Neither he nor she has to be perfect, he reflects; they only need to give each other the odd sign they know they can sometimes be quite hard to live with.”
评分荷兰发行的第一时间买到。描写恋爱、婚姻、家庭生活,以一个通情达理看透人生的第三者眼光分析这次吵架、那次出轨,教育我们不要追求完美。积累了他之前所有作品的经验。看完觉得一个人没什么不好…
评分这是一本我以后一定会在人生不同阶段重新捡起来读很多遍的书,也是我但愿和前男友一起读过的书,还是我会推荐给闺蜜和哥们的书,更是我一定会在结婚前要求我的未来男朋友读完并且和我讨论的书。
跟着这本书,走过了一对平凡夫妻从相知、相识、养育子女、到婚姻中出现的种种障碍和彷徨、再到矛盾解决回复平静生活的各个阶段。不狗血,不夸张,不做作,难得的是好像如此真实的故事,作者阿兰·德波顿又能以这种极高的文学表现手法予以表达,亦可以看做真实婚姻生活心理切片...
评分在看其他心理学小说的时候,我会不由自主地被情节带入,进而开始自我剖析。边读边自我检视和反思的过程往往带给我很多领悟。但是这一次不同。 看这本书时,我的内心是抗拒的,用心理学的话来说,这是遇到了“阻抗”。书中描写夫妻间冲突、争执、冷战等情节的时候,仿佛把我父母...
评分我终于明白了,一对夫妻如果想扛住漫长的婚姻岁月到白头,要么女方极能忍耐,要么男方深刻悔悟。我不够能忍,他也没有悔悟。所以分手是再自然不过的事情。 他期望我改变,我期望他改变,互相抱怨。 我冷静理智想讲道理,他喋喋不休尽爱废话,无法忍受。 他出轨是离婚的导火索,...
评分前几年跟朋友聚会聊天的内容还是男友啊,恋爱啊,情感那方面的,也不知道从什么时候开始,对情感就不大感冒,大家更喜欢聊一些职场上的困惑,思维上的胡同,未来想要从事的行业方向。 或许是见多了情感上的悲欢离合,体会到了职场上有所成就的快感,爱情再也不会是生活中最重要...
评分跟着这本书,走过了一对平凡夫妻从相知、相识、养育子女、到婚姻中出现的种种障碍和彷徨、再到矛盾解决回复平静生活的各个阶段。不狗血,不夸张,不做作,难得的是好像如此真实的故事,作者阿兰·德波顿又能以这种极高的文学表现手法予以表达,亦可以看做真实婚姻生活心理切片...
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