If contemporary culture were a school, with all the tasks and expectations meted out by modern life as its curriculum, would anyone graduate? In the spirit of a sympathetic teacher, Robert Kegan guides us through this tricky curriculum, assessing the fit between its complex demands and our mental capacities, and showing what happens when we find ourselves, as we so often do, in over our heads. In this dazzling intellectual tour, he completely reintroduces us to the psychological landscape of our private and public lives. </p>
A decade ago in The Evolving Self, Kegan presented a dynamic view of the development of human consciousness. Here he applies this widely acclaimed theory to the mental complexity of adulthood. As parents and partners, employees and bosses, citizens and leaders, we constantly confront a bewildering array of expectations, prescriptions, claims, and demands, as well as an equally confusing assortment of expert opinions that tell us what each of these roles entails. Surveying the disparate expert "literatures," which normally take no account of each other, Kegan brings them together to reveal, for the first time, what these many demands have in common. Our frequent frustration in trying to meet these complex and often conflicting claims results, he shows us, from a mismatch between the way we ordinarily know the world and the way we are unwittingly expected to understand it. </p>
In Over Our Heads provides us entirely fresh perspectives on a number of cultural controversies-the "abstinence vs. safe sex" debate, the diversity movement, communication across genders, the meaning of postmodernism. What emerges in these pages is a theory of evolving ways of knowing that allows us to view adult development much as we view child development, as an open-ended process born of the dynamic interaction of cultural demands and emerging mental capabilities. If our culture is to be a good "school," as Kegan suggests, it must offer, along with a challenging curriculum, the guidance and support that we clearly need to master this course-a need that this lucid and richly argued book begins to meet. </p>
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这部作品给我的感觉是极其**沉静**和**内省**的。它不像那些追求快节奏的畅销书那样喧嚣,而是像一坛陈年的老酒,需要你耐下性子,细细品咂其中的滋味。核心的主题似乎聚焦于“时间”和“记忆”的流逝。故事的主人公是一位年迈的艺术家,他通过整理自己过去的作品和信件,试图拼凑出一段被遗忘的恋情。作者运用了大量的内心独白和意识流的描写,笔调舒缓,充满了一种对逝去光阴的温柔哀伤。语言的选择非常考究,很多句子读起来都像是精心打磨过的诗句,每一个词语的摆放都恰到好处,传达出一种成熟的、略带沧桑感的审美趣味。我个人认为,这本书更适合在安静的午后,泡上一杯热茶,沉浸其中,去感受那种缓慢流淌的情感暗流。
评分我要给这本书打一个“颠覆性”的标签。我原本以为这会是一部普通的都市职场小说,结果完全出乎意料!作者大胆地将魔幻现实主义的手法融入到了极其写实的商业斗争背景之中。那些关于权力交易、道德困境的描写真实到令人不安,但随着一些超乎常理的事件发生,整个故事的维度瞬间被拓宽了。这种强烈的对比制造出一种既熟悉又陌生的阅读体验,让人不断质疑自己所看到的一切是否真实。角色的塑造非常大胆,没有绝对的好人或坏蛋,每个人都有其复杂且自洽的动机。它探讨了现代社会中“真实”的边界在哪里,以及当规则被打破时,人性的本质会暴露成什么样子。对于喜欢打破常规、追求新颖叙事结构的读者来说,这绝对不容错过。
评分这是一部充满了**民间传说色彩**和**地域风情**的小说。作者似乎对特定地域的文化有着深厚的感情和了解,故事背景设定在一个偏远的山村,那里流传着许多光怪陆离的古老禁忌和神话故事。叙事结构上,它采取了多线并进的方式,交织着当代人的调查和过去世代流传的口述历史。我特别喜欢其中那种原始的、带有一点点神秘色彩的氛围营造,空气中似乎总弥漫着潮湿的泥土和野草的气息。虽然情节推进相对缓慢,因为它需要时间来铺陈那些文化符号和人物关系,但正是这种扎实的铺垫,使得最后高潮部分的爆发力达到了极点。读完之后,感觉自己仿佛进行了一次深入当地民俗的田野考察,收获颇丰,对传统文化的敬畏之心油然而生。
评分说实话,我一开始是被这个充满悬念的开篇吸引住的。故事围绕着一个古老的谜团展开,节奏紧凑得让人喘不过气来。作者巧妙地设置了一系列的线索和假象,每当我觉得自己快要接近真相时,情节总能峰回路转,抛出一个更令人困惑的难题。这种高超的叙事技巧,让阅读过程充满了探索的乐趣。书中对历史细节的考据也相当扎实,那些穿插其中的历史背景知识,非但没有显得枯燥,反而极大地丰富了故事的厚度和层次感。我甚至忍不住停下来查阅了一些书中提到的历史人物和事件,可见其严谨程度。不过,最让我赞叹的是,即使是在最紧张的追逐戏份中,作者依然保持着一种冷静而精准的文字控制力,保证了场景的清晰度和逻辑的严密性,是近年来少有的高质量的智力挑战型小说。
评分这本书的文笔实在让人惊艳,那种细腻入微的笔触,仿佛能将读者的灵魂轻轻触动。它讲述了一个关于成长的故事,主角在一次意外的旅程中,被迫面对内心深处的恐惧与迷茫。作者对于人物心理的刻画入木三分,每一个选择,每一次挣扎,都让人感同身受。我尤其欣赏作者在叙事上的张弛有度,时而如涓涓细流般温柔,时而又似惊涛骇浪般汹涌,将人牢牢地吸引在文字之中。书中对于自然景色的描绘也极为出色,那些文字构建的画面感极强,让人仿佛置身于故事发生地的空气之中,闻得到泥土的芬芳,感受到微风的拂过。整本书读下来,不仅仅是一次阅读体验,更像是一次深入的自我对话和心灵洗涤。那些关于勇气、关于放手的哲思,在不经意间渗透出来,让人在合上书页后,仍久久回味。
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