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True fear is a gift.

Unwarranted fear is a curse.

Learn how to tell the difference.

A date won't take "no" for an answer. The new nanny gives a mother an uneasy feeling. A stranger in a deserted parking lot offers unsolicited help. The threat of violence surrounds us every day. But we can protect ourselves, by learning to trust—and act on—our gut instincts.

In this empowering book, Gavin de Becker, the man Oprah Winfrey calls the nation's leading expert on violent behavior, shows you how to spot even subtle signs of danger—before it's too late. Shattering the myth that most violent acts are unpredictable, de Becker, whose clients include top Hollywood stars and government agencies, offers specific ways to protect yourself and those you love, including...how to act when approached by a stranger...when you should fear someone close to you...what to do if you are being stalked...how to uncover the source of anonymous threats or phone calls...the biggest mistake you can make with a threatening person...and more. Learn to spot the danger signals others miss. It might just save your life.

加文·德·贝克尔，全球最有名望的危险预测专家，致力于人身安全防护和危险预测与控制。他的杰出工作为他在美国国会赢得职位，三度被任命为美国司法部总统顾问委员会委员，曾担任布什、克林顿、里根总统安全顾问。

他是加文·德·贝克尔顾问公司总裁；他领导的团队为全球最显赫的政治人物提供危险评估服务，也为最默默无闻的普通人提供安全咨询。他是好莱坞明星最青睐的危险预测专家，曾为麦当娜、雪儿、米歇尔·菲佛、芭芭拉·史翠珊、奥利维尔·纽顿·约翰等明星提供安全咨询。

加文·德·贝克尔多次在《奥普拉脱口秀》、《60分钟》等访谈节目上分享自己的见解。《注意！有人在盯着你》是作者几十年工作经验和人生智慧的总结。该书在1997年一经出版，迅速飙升为《纽约时报》等各大主流媒体畅销榜冠军。